this is why I have the problems i do and post what i post...

CP3WOO

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2008
Messages
107
Reaction score
1
Location
New Orleans
I want you to notice at the bottom of the article that it says, "Posted by Rich." A woman didn't write this, and the girls who posted at the bottom are probably still in high school cause I promise you that money and hotness are not among the important things women look for. Sure, it's a nice attribute, but not important to them. Ask any woman on the street, she'll tell you that those things aren't important.
 

Jaggs

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2008
Messages
144
Reaction score
7
Some random guys false opinion on the internet is the reason you constantly whinge, whinge and then whinge some more about how you can't get anything in life when you don't even try?

Ahhhh, now it makes sense.

=\

Ps get off this website.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Joined
Sep 27, 2008
Messages
524
Reaction score
3
Well,rather than starting another thread, I guess I would post this here. What is the idea of all this? This "don juan" thing? Is it love and romance? Get a job, get married,start a family thing? Finding a passion? Finding the right girl who stands out from the rest? Is it someone like this guy: ??

http://www.myspace.com/sigafoo

I mean, does he sound more afc or like a guy who knows what he wants? I mean, I see people, some I know, some I don't, in relationships, and at least they have someone, I feel I have no one, and it's very lonely.
 

OrangeCrusader

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 14, 2008
Messages
85
Reaction score
2
Don Juan is making yourself a real man, a better person in every respect, with the ability to rise about any situation, deal with anyone, and keep your cool no matter what, while still getting everything you want out of life.

Can anyone point out a single word in this that's remotely DJ? :\

When it comes the the kind of girl I want, I am a hopeless romantic, and i am looking for that girl, the one that stands out from all the rest. The one where i can look in her eyes, and know everything will be okay no matter what happens. I'm the guy that will do random things for you, random romantic gestures for you, just because... i want to. Not for something else, but just because i care for you. I want the girl i date to not only be dating, but to be good, if not 'best' friends. Where we can talk about anything and everything, but also... can just lay together... and hold/cuddle with each other in silence... Because if your the right one... You're beauty would be so indescribable that the closest thing to describing it would be silence... This is part where you kiss me to shut up because it's so perfect... or not. <3
 

DJVladdy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
1,038
Reaction score
17
Stop browsing the internet for random bullsh1t you idiot!
 

Bossman08

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 2, 2008
Messages
12
Reaction score
0
shut up and quit whining. stop being a pvssy and tell us what you have actually done. Have you gone in the field? Have you spoken to a woman to just say Hi?
 
Joined
Sep 27, 2008
Messages
524
Reaction score
3
I guess what I am trying to say is, well, I don't know off hand, but I have felt very cut off so to say. I have spent more copious amounts of time at home, rather than out,socializing, I don't know if that's due to age differences, or lack of resources, or something. I didn't go right to school after high school, so I always felt that was a factor. So I feel like inbetween it all so to say. Maybe it's my own attitude, I have been a total ******* or even **** at times, probably picked that up and thought it was a good thing perhaps.
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,116
Reaction score
230
CapedCrusader08 said:
I guess what I am trying to say is, well, I don't know off hand, but I have felt very cut off so to say. I have spent more copious amounts of time at home, rather than out,socializing, I don't know if that's due to age differences, or lack of resources, or something. I didn't go right to school after high school, so I always felt that was a factor. So I feel like inbetween it all so to say. Maybe it's my own attitude, I have been a total ******* or even **** at times, probably picked that up and thought it was a good thing perhaps.

Fvck what you have to say. Tell us what you have done. Stop analyzing and start doing. This is the only response anyone will give you here. Until then your just a lame ass dood whining on the internet about your problems. Fvcking whiner.
 

DonJuan11

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2007
Messages
1,672
Reaction score
35
CapedCrusader08 said:
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/9-attractive-qualities-women-look-for-in-a-guy-317629/

this what i hate superficiality and stupid women and they're bull****.

LOL. I think you'd be happy if a woman's list of a dream man read:


1. Not funny
2. Not trustworthy
3. Not kind
4. No money
5. Does not look good
6. Is not confident
7. Has no talents - watches tv all day
8. Dropped out of school
9. Does not want a relationship

My dream guy is a guy who complains all day, smokes weed, and watches porn. I would love to let him inside me and have sex with me all day.
 

SrDedosRapidos

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2008
Messages
96
Reaction score
1
Jesus Christ man, you need to take some goddamn responsibility for your situation instead of throwing it on women.

You know why they dont like you? Because you wont let them. You cant fail if you dont try, and i havnt the hint of a "try" out of one of your posts. Youre like me in High School; you spend too much time thinking about the **** and not enough time doing. Life isnt about thinking about living; its about getting out there and doing the damn thing. So step away from the computer and get your nose in a book. I recommend "**** It" by John C. Parkin.

THIS IS NOT A GAME YOU CAN WIN WITHOUT PLAYING.

And if you think women can fix youre misery, leave here now and NEVER look back to the seduction community. I am easily the most unhappy sonofa***** in the world, and ive had women. Do i go *****ing on forums? No. I do something about it. If Women were the be all end all life goal, life would be a lot less violent and war would be scarce, because women arent a puzzle anymore. they arent untouchable gods; theyre human beings like you and me, and they are attainable.

You need some serious inner game work before hitting the field anyway. This lack of confidence in yourself can turn your first failure into a snowball.
 

loving

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 8, 2008
Messages
206
Reaction score
2
Location
Follow your bliss
The answer isn't going to come from finding more information, because you can't deal with the information you already have.

The saddest part is the answer has been given to you already.Not by any articles about women because women aren't your problem.

Do you think everyone is as **** feeling about themselves as you? No. And they posted to you the best way they could think of in words to get you out of your situation.

If you disrespect yourself by not following anyones advices, what can we do about that? But we'll be damned if we're gonna sit here and continue to help you while you disrespect us by not following anyones advice.

You really think all these online articles are the reason your life appears to be to you how it is? Go read them and leave us the **** alone.

Got more questions? They don't matter. Your questions DO NOT MATTER

The issue at hand is deeper than your questions, and we have addressed it. Simple as that. At the very least, if you do not wanna change, go somewhere else and spread your misery. If, like your self-progress, you cannot take responsibility for leaving, eventually enough people will complain to the staff so that you will literally not be welcomed onto this forum anymore.

You're taking everyone for a ride, including yourself. And just like with SoSuave, you've gotta take responsibility for yourself and accept that life is how it is, great, and worth living and improving, or you've got to accept youre a depressed mess and feed your depression until you're so depressed you automatically click into genuine realizations that actually do something to change your life.

You've gotta stay the course. You are going to be living with yourself as long as you are alive. You need to choose what is more important, short-term misery, or long-term fulfillment. At a point you realize there is no purpose in feeling bad about things. Stop being so stubborn and accept peoples advice.

Why am I repeating myself?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1508511&postcount=20
 
Top