You must go to the root of your problem... Urgent! Yeah, I'm telling you, it's URGENT... Because if you fool around, it won't get you nowhere. You may find another one, but if you loose her, what's gonna happen? Right. Sorry NorwegianDJ, but trying to forget about her, that doesn't seem good to me, because the problem is still gonna be there, it's just gonna be "hidden", you know what I'm saying? I know its probably not what you were trying to say, you're telling to go no contact, maybe you mean to not care about her, am I right? Just to say, if you try to repress your feelings or run away from them somehow, they will blow up in your face one day... Cmon, we can do better then this.
The ROOT of the problem is what?
What do you want?
Approval? Stop it!! You must have your own approval, you won't need anyone elses.
Do you just want *****? That may be good, but it is not necessary. It counts more to just be happy and cool. (At least that's what makes sence to me now). So don't suffer about things you don't need. Only thing you need to be happy is to like yourself, and to know you are cool. You don't need no-ones approval, or a girl. Just use a porn site or something
. Or go NB, I've tryed that too.
Don't be angry... You want to be happy and healthy. Anger just will mess up your body. And plus it feels horrible. The only way you can be angry is if you have low self esteem... And girls shouldn't be able to impact on your self esteem!
Think about what I said a little bit, interpretate it the way you wanna. See you and good luck, remember to give us advice when you get through this hehe.