This is me venting.. Comments??

kdnash82

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This could get long....

I have a friend/co-worker/roommate, that I've known for about 5 years. He is by far one of the nicest people I know. It's a good thing, and I'm always amazed at how nice he can be. It also gets on my nerves when it comes to certain things. Mainly, girls that I've either dated, or been interested in.

Girl1:
I meet her and she wants to meet up. She's bringing about 4 other girls, so I bring my friend along with me. We have a good time. Me and girl make out, and plan on doing it again.

Girl comes to my house and she's laying on my bed butt naked, but wouldn't let me seal the deal. Everyone else comes over and we have another good night.

She tries to come over 3 days later. She gets lost and people that can't follow directions frustrates the hell out of me, so I sent her home. She calls my friend to vent about the entire thing. I have since stopped talking to her, but she still calls him to this day to see how he's doing every now and then.

Girl2:
I meet girl. Me and girl date on and off for a while. We really can't get along, but for some strange reason tollerate eachother and continue to see if things will work out. They don't. One day she comes over and I swear to you she actually sat there and vented to my friend like I wasn't even sitting there.

Girl3 & 4:
This was a dual pair because they were friends. One of the girls I was dating and the other was just a friend who in so many ways was trying to get with me behind her friends back. (women are scandelous) Well these two were over at my place, and one pissed me off, so I put them both out. They both ended up contacting him via myspace pouring their heart out about me.

Girl5:
This was a different situation, but not really. I met her because he ended up getting with her friend. I took a couple of pictures and by the end of the night she was giving me her phone number and email address saying that we should hang out again soon. The very next day, she calls me and asks if we could meet up. I was already in the area and agreed.
We would hang out together every weekend. I also took her to my company party. We never hooked up, but you could tell there was a genuine interests there.

Things kind of fizzled out and we stopped hanging out. Recently she contacted my friend saying that she lost her phone and was trying to recover all her phone numbers. This seemed kind of weird because she never contacted me to ask for mine. Maybe she had it in some other place. Who knows.

She called him yesterday saying how she was bored and wanting to do something. He agreed and they went to see a movie. Which brings me to today.

I won't ask any direct questions about any particular thing. Over all, how do you all feel about these situations? Comments? Advice?? If I'm being lame, then so be it. If I should stop acting like a punk, then so be it. Don't hold back. Let me have it.
 

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He gets on YOUR nerves?

Imagine how he must feel!
 

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Ha ha, I wasn't clear.

What I mean is, you are the one who's dating all the girls, and then the girls go to him to whine and vent and gush about what a "jerk" you are, while he he can't get a date.

He's an AFC. I doubt he even has a chance with girl 5. It must suck to be him.
 

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Phyzzle said:
Ha ha, I wasn't clear.

What I mean is, you are the one who's dating all the girls, and then the girls go to him to whine and vent and gush about what a "jerk" you are, while he he can't get a date.

He's an AFC. I doubt he even has a chance with girl 5. It must suck to be him.
Sounds good, but not true at all. He's actually really good with the ladies. Eitherway, they went to a concert last night. I'm in a serious relationship right now, so it's not like I can really be upset, but there is still that guy code that I thought was still in effect. Let me know if the rules have changed. I've decided to move out and move in with my girl.

Guess no one else has any comment on this, but thanks for your help anyway.
 
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