There's this girl I was dating which happened to be my sisters friend and our relationship fizzled out. Logic seems to tell you what to do but feelings get in the way but here's the story. And please, flame with your harshest responses. I've read DYD, Ross Jeffries and been studying up but it seems like when you really like one girl.....your current situation always seems unique.
This girl and I used to hang out alot starting this time last year and to be honest I thought nothing of her. We'd go out to eat just to eat while I was interested in other girls. During the summer of 2004 we started to like each other and we had our first kiss. Things started progressing and we had an unofficial relationship going until the end of October. The last thing I did with her physically was eat her out.
After that she told me she was busy with school but would still call me and I ended up drawing her a picture with our names one it showing how much I liked her. At certian times previously she'd tell me she didn't know I felt the same way about her. She'd ask questions like "what does this mean and I didn't know you thought about me all the time"....during a little discussion we had while making out.
Anyway, things fizzled out after October and during November I found out through my sister that this girl said she liked another guy. I was shocked because I used to joke about this guy liking her before. Well the next time I saw her was during a party she had beginning of December and I saw her new "man" there but I acted like I didn't care, had fun dancing with all the girls and at one point this guy left when I got freaky with my previous girl.
After that party I called her once but she didn't pick up her phone so I decided to leave her alone for a while. She called me once for something and then for two weeks I decided it's time to get over her. Well during Christmas I cracked and gave her a "Thinking about you, text message"...which she didn't respond to. I called her the next day and her sister picked up so I didn't hear from her until the next day where I invited her out to dinner with me later in the week and she agreed. We went out last Thursday and I did my best to flirt, be optimistic and keep cool the whole time.
Anyway called her to tell her happy new year and then the next day I called her to set something up next week. She was watching a game and I told her to call me back. Well she didn't and I'm not sure if I should call her again to either say:
1. "Let's hang out again"
2. Have a serious talk to say how I feel and hammer the nail in the coffin.
3. Just quit calling her all together.
I want her to know that I still care about her but since I probably did that during our date last Thursday doing kino, making her laugh, and just being cool, maybe I don't need to tell her. It's seems weird leaving the ball in her court.
I think I know what I should do but I need to hear it from someone else. I also read the Confident Persistence from sosuave.com and it looks like it doesn't apply to my situation althought in my head I wish it did. Thanks in advance for the input.
This girl and I used to hang out alot starting this time last year and to be honest I thought nothing of her. We'd go out to eat just to eat while I was interested in other girls. During the summer of 2004 we started to like each other and we had our first kiss. Things started progressing and we had an unofficial relationship going until the end of October. The last thing I did with her physically was eat her out.
After that she told me she was busy with school but would still call me and I ended up drawing her a picture with our names one it showing how much I liked her. At certian times previously she'd tell me she didn't know I felt the same way about her. She'd ask questions like "what does this mean and I didn't know you thought about me all the time"....during a little discussion we had while making out.
Anyway, things fizzled out after October and during November I found out through my sister that this girl said she liked another guy. I was shocked because I used to joke about this guy liking her before. Well the next time I saw her was during a party she had beginning of December and I saw her new "man" there but I acted like I didn't care, had fun dancing with all the girls and at one point this guy left when I got freaky with my previous girl.
After that party I called her once but she didn't pick up her phone so I decided to leave her alone for a while. She called me once for something and then for two weeks I decided it's time to get over her. Well during Christmas I cracked and gave her a "Thinking about you, text message"...which she didn't respond to. I called her the next day and her sister picked up so I didn't hear from her until the next day where I invited her out to dinner with me later in the week and she agreed. We went out last Thursday and I did my best to flirt, be optimistic and keep cool the whole time.
Anyway called her to tell her happy new year and then the next day I called her to set something up next week. She was watching a game and I told her to call me back. Well she didn't and I'm not sure if I should call her again to either say:
1. "Let's hang out again"
2. Have a serious talk to say how I feel and hammer the nail in the coffin.
3. Just quit calling her all together.
I want her to know that I still care about her but since I probably did that during our date last Thursday doing kino, making her laugh, and just being cool, maybe I don't need to tell her. It's seems weird leaving the ball in her court.
I think I know what I should do but I need to hear it from someone else. I also read the Confident Persistence from sosuave.com and it looks like it doesn't apply to my situation althought in my head I wish it did. Thanks in advance for the input.
