last ex post from me ever
Ive been waiting for the ex thing to come full circle.Everytime I pick my son up she would tell me that she loved me and wanted to start again,how there was no one else.In fact every lie she could muster to really sick lows.I knew the score and after reading the horror stories on here new better.But this week she put it on full bore every little stop.God Im not that dumb.I called a guy that she was swearing was just a friend and that she hadnt called for months
.I met him once before and he almost wet his pants but he was in the dark as to what was going on.I explained what was going on told him no repercussions and pow I get all the facts and it confirmed what I thought was the truth (trust your gut no matter how crazy).She called with more of her "I love you's" and I told her I talked to so and so.Whats worse is she lied and lied and then got caught out in a lie and then change the lie and lie some more.I told her no sweat its cool just tone it down, inside i was jumping for joy that i knew the truth his story matched up with physical proof and he had nothing to gain from telling the truth in fact he was worried about a punch in the head and he is seeing another girl.
Im glad I've been reading the posts on here.Mentally the easiest thing would have been to go back at the start but I knew on all levels that this was the worst thing to do.But to waste another 5 years what the fluck would I have done.
Im glad Ive been seeing other girls more for the lay atm then friendship, but this is a great way to close any doubt.I made a stand and the choice was right.This seems like textbook breakup bull$hit.
Learn the hard lessons no matter how much it hurts.I have to say in truth that it does hurt but better a few days of pain then a lifetime of misery, even when easier said then done.
Cheer me up guys
Ive been waiting for the ex thing to come full circle.Everytime I pick my son up she would tell me that she loved me and wanted to start again,how there was no one else.In fact every lie she could muster to really sick lows.I knew the score and after reading the horror stories on here new better.But this week she put it on full bore every little stop.God Im not that dumb.I called a guy that she was swearing was just a friend and that she hadnt called for months
.I met him once before and he almost wet his pants but he was in the dark as to what was going on.I explained what was going on told him no repercussions and pow I get all the facts and it confirmed what I thought was the truth (trust your gut no matter how crazy).She called with more of her "I love you's" and I told her I talked to so and so.Whats worse is she lied and lied and then got caught out in a lie and then change the lie and lie some more.I told her no sweat its cool just tone it down, inside i was jumping for joy that i knew the truth his story matched up with physical proof and he had nothing to gain from telling the truth in fact he was worried about a punch in the head and he is seeing another girl.Im glad I've been reading the posts on here.Mentally the easiest thing would have been to go back at the start but I knew on all levels that this was the worst thing to do.But to waste another 5 years what the fluck would I have done.
Im glad Ive been seeing other girls more for the lay atm then friendship, but this is a great way to close any doubt.I made a stand and the choice was right.This seems like textbook breakup bull$hit.
Learn the hard lessons no matter how much it hurts.I have to say in truth that it does hurt but better a few days of pain then a lifetime of misery, even when easier said then done.
Cheer me up guys
