this girl i like.. . . (please help me)

[Nates]

allright check this out the girl i like has a boyfriend but. .. she kinda talkts to me different like she wants to be with me and stuff we flirt and joke around and stuff and it seems like all the signs are there but she isnt . .. .i wanna be with her and im thinking she likes me but she has a man now what should i do? keep trying to get with her? or just back off and go find another one .. .. one that doesnt have a man and is willing to have a relationship with me?? please help me i need all the help i can get.. .

 

[Nates]

thanks yeah i think your right im kinda like rejecting myself if i never ask her in the first place no i havent read the bible sorry but i will as soon as possible then i will come back a new man or something who knows but yeah thanks for the help. .. . i just dont wanna get beat up. .. lol. .

 

[mrsoy]

how long have you known her?

 

[Nates]

i have known her bout 9 months i think im pretty sure why?

 

[Nates]

ooooooh okay then i guess i mean i like this girl but i guess i gotta chunk it as a loss then oh well lifes a ***** right you win some you lose some oh well ill get by. . .

 

[die4me]

Yeah, don't take her. My policy for girls with a boyfriend is not to do anything to her or her man that would screw it up. But if SHE jumps into something with you, like kissing or sensual touching, it's a whole different ball game and you can lay those DJ skills in and drill her all you like. Your policies might be different but these are mine. Basically, if she's only flirting without any big signs or steps, than she is probably just using you for practice on her boyfriend, if that's the way she is.

 

[IrReSiStIbLe]

Patience...

Hey Nates,
Stay good friends with her, dont give up... coz one day she WILL eventually break up with her b/f and she WILL need som1 to comfort her.. and this guy WILL be YOU... so be patient my friend, dont give up, u'll eventually get her... in the meanwhile go for other chicks, show her that ur outgoing, and that ur able to move on trust me, it happened to me as well..
Go get'em bro,
IrReSiStIbLe.

 

[bibby18]

omg i hope you mean by being her friend talking to her at MOST once a week. becuase being her friend is exactly what he doesnt want.

since women want what they cant have...i say forget about her until her and her b/f are over..date as many women as possible..go on double dates (my personal favorite thing to do to girls that have boyfriends but you can tell are interested)...but over all DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT HANG OUT WITH HER LIKE YOU ARE HER FRIEND. THATS YOU PUTTING YOURSELF IN THE FRIENDS ZONE.

as for the rules on the girls that seem to like you but have a b/f i dont make the move becuase i dont want anyone to do that to my girlfriend...what goes around comes around man

and irresistable..sounds like you were a rebound guy to me. which also means you had no control..and could be next'd and anytime

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Re: Patience...

Originally posted by IrReSiStIbLe
Hey Nates,
Stay good friends with her, dont give up... coz one day she WILL eventually break up with her b/f and she WILL need som1 to comfort her.. and this guy WILL be YOU

WHAT THE **** ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT BRO

Women NEVER wanna go out with emotional tampons... remember that! If you are in the friends zone.. i suggest gradually stop talking to her/seeing her less and less. If she ims you say you can't talk, same with the phone... always be doing something, don't see her in person. The less you are there, the more she will want you.

But remember, do all of this for you! Go out cuz you want to, otherwise avoid her... and don't let her become a one-itis.

I would suggest NLP to get her... or at least to get her to break up with her boyfriend... but that's kinda drastic.

 

[IrReSiStIbLe]

Originally posted by bibby18
omg i hope you mean by being her friend talking to her at MOST once a week. becuase being her friend is exactly what he doesnt want.

Yeh, thats what i meant... once or twice a week.... no more...

Originally posted by bibby18
and irresistable..sounds like you were a rebound guy to me. which also means you had no control..and could be next'd and anytime

HAHAHAH man, no way... on the contrary, im the type that next's chicks... you got the wrong impression about me... trust me, im not that type of guy... all im saying to Nates is that it happened to me ONCE, and i was just giving him advice according to what happened to me, which was a success.. but Nates, bibby18 is right, talk to her at least 1nce or 2wice a week... no more...
Good luck..

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

Its obvious that if she hasnt gotten somewhat serious with her within this 9 month period, then you have probably and most likely been LJBFed! Next her ass, and expand your horizons man!

You shouldn't be focused on just one or two chicks, expand man expand! Get the word out there to the ladies that you're the man around campus, or wherever the hell you go to see chicks.

Don't settle for just one!

Thats the main problem all you dudes have problems in, you guys get focused with one chick and so therefore you kind of forget about all the success you COULD be having and just concentrate too much with that girl.

There's a hell of a lot more chicks out there waiting for YOU!! They just don't know who that hunk is....

like one of my adult friends said. "F*ck or be f*cked"

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

Ok, Kid, Don't waste your time with her. DO NOT DO IT!!!! There are millions upon millions of hot chicks in this world. A true DJ doesn't get excited over one chick expressing interest in him, he knows that every chick he meets expresses interest. For the love of god, please read the bible and memorize it and practice it. You will thank yourself later when you realize that you have too many chicks that you can't even count.

 

[seloifter]

one thing that guys in HS need to realize is that HS girls FLIRT LIKE CRAZY!
And what's worse is that *every* guy is CONVINCED that girls flirt with them in a "special way"..... as though the way she tlaked to them were entirely different than the way she talked to everyone else...... well, that's just your mind playing tricks on you.

Look man, you got two options; both of which should begin with a mandatory reading of the Bible:
a) Grab your balls, and tell her you're feeling her; if she reciprocates, hellz yea! if not, then you're at least saving yourself months upon months of blue balls and torment
b) move the **** on. that's all.