This ****blocking is pissing me off now =/

[Charisma]

Hey dudes, I'm doing a lot better thanks to all this reading, forum and articles, I can't take the bus anymore without talking to a chiq But I have this problem, now don't think this is 'one-itis' or whatever it's called, it's just that I'm wondering if I could take that particular girl on a date or not, you say 'Just ask her you dimwit !' Well hell yeah, but she's always hanging around with a dude (btw she's not dating him I found out, but he badly wants her I think, she's hot), or with her girl best friend(s !!). How does she expect magic in her life argh I'm still waiting for an opportunity to get her alone, but this is taking too long, I'm having waaay to much time to think this **** over and over and over... I don't want to come on too strong like 'Can I talk to you for a sec .. why not go .. let's have a drink tomorrow' or something, I rather have something in a form of a conversation, and then when we're going good I ask for a date (I don't need phone number etc I THINK .. we go to the same university apparently), so how the **** do I get the damn ****blockers to GET THE **** AWAY

Btw since we see eachother every day, I kinda avoid too much contact with her, don't wanne become friends with her. But I also wonder, if I should ask her for her phone number anyway, before asking her out on a date ? And if I would ask her phone number, how would I ask it that it's clear that it's for dating purpouse, and not 'Because I wanne call you as a friend' ..

 

[Ubermensch]

Just go ahead and get her digits

Looks like *he's* been LJBF'd, and if you get a good vibe from her, make your move, or she'll put you in the same wuss category as he's in.

 

[Charisma]

I won't do it with everybody standing by her/my side, that won't work, too much pressure for the both of us + one of her best friends wants to date me, and I sure don't want that to happen =/ I need some master secret kungfu move to get her alone damned lol =) But you do say I should ask for her number first, how do I make it clear that it's for asking her out on a date ? If you ask it to a stranger, then it's obvious, if you ask it to someone you know a little it might just be 'to keep in touch' ..

 

[Ubermensch]

I feel your pain, Charisma

But you still gotta make a move at some point if you're going to get through to her.

One gal I know is always with a c0ckblocking friend of hers. I eventually asked for her number, friend be damned, and I got it.

To avoid being LJBF'd, be *sexual*. Flirt with her, touch her a bit, and don't engage in nice "girl talk." Be funny in a subtly ****y way. Bust her chops in a playful way.

 

[Quick]

You don't need to make clear the reason you're asking for her number. Just get it. At least when you're talking on the phone, it's just you and her. Call her, make small talk for a minute, and then ask her if she'd like to go out with you somewhere.

 

[Charisma]

Re: I feel your pain, Charisma

Originally posted by Ubermensch
But you still gotta make a move at some point if you're going to get through to her.

One gal I know is always with a c0ckblocking friend of hers. I eventually asked for her number, friend be damned, and I got it.

To avoid being LJBF'd, be *sexual*. Flirt with her, touch her a bit, and don't engage in nice "girl talk." Be funny in a subtly ****y way. Bust her chops in a playful way.

How did you get the number finally ?

Thanks for the advice

 

[Charisma]

Aaaah man, I feel like a total wuss today, I was alone with her for about 20 seconds, total coincidence, I was about to ask, and kablam, mister ****blocker and the horde of girlfriends join in =/