Thinks a little too much about herself?

[Santos]

The other day I sat next to this girl in a lecture. I know her name and I've spoken to her a little before. So we get talking, she says how she wants to learn to drive but doesn't have an instructor. I tell her I know a guy and I can get his number for her. We talk some more. Then I asked, "Can I have your number?" She gives it to me. Anyway, the lecture ends and as I'm about to leave she says, "Listen, I don't want to give you the wrong idea. But I have a boyfriend." I just smiled and went, "Oh ok."

I really wasn't expecting that. I mean I understand she might say that at a nightclub cos' she's expecting to get picked up. But at university? I should have asked for the number more subtely, but I interpert that as a sign I should next her. Keep her around as social proof. I'm not really attracted her, but lately I've been meeting and dating girls just for the practice

I can't belive she ASSUMES that I want to go out with her. Wish I had a C & F response but she caught me off gaurd.

"I have a boyfriend."

"Oh, so is he better looking than I am?"

or I coulda just said:

"Oh, that's cool. I have a GF, just wanted your number in case I miss a lecture or need something."

Santos

 

[Starman]

dude keep your ego on check..who cares if she assumed you were trying to mack on her..you are male and she is female right???

my best line for that

"I have a boyfriend"

Me: "See we just met! and you are already telling me your problems!"

then work it from there

 

[Mr. Latte]

Maybe she thought you were asking for her # to give her the # of the driving instructor. It should be clear to any girl that you're asking for her # because you're interested, but some girls are just dim.

My favorite response to the b/f thing is "that's cool, bring him along, and I'll bring a friend for him to hook up with"

 

[WaterTiger]

After all the posts about "The B!tch never told me she had a BF!" now you're mad because she tells you up front? Come on guys! She was just saying what you hope YOUR GF's are saying when some smooth, good looking guy ask for their number.

I'm sure she understood that you meant to give the number to the instructer. She just didn't want you to call her, because she already has a guy.

If you had called her to ask her out and THEN she'd told you, you'd be posting the topic. "SHE NEVER TOLD ME! Now I feel all stupid cause I called! And all the guys are writing back. "What a b!tch! Women are just EVIL!"

Gentlemen! LIGHTEN UP!

 

[Desire me]

look you should have just said " I'm not interested in you" that would have put her in her place and make her a little more interested in you. And even if It didnt, atleast it would hurt her feelings, why should you care either way?

 

[Santos]

I'm not really complaining about the fact that she let me know she has a BF. I just think it's funny that she assumes I'm trying to pick her up. How can I be angry? I'm not interested.

Besides, BFs haven't stopped me before