Dell SkyCat
Senior Don Juan
Hey DJ's ... This is a pretty simple and basic tip when it comes to women and generally any area of your life. It's about learning new WORDS.
In a recent discovery channel show ' The science of the sexes' Mentioned the key differences between men and women . One of their discoveries were that women are able to store more words.( Duh ) Thus being able to quickly and effectively articulate their emotions through words while giving off a greater/deeper meaning or impact to the listener. While men on the other hand, weren't.
( The reason or explanation about this is b/c the women’s brain connection between the 2 sides of the hemisphere's are higher developed *The both sides of their brains are in rapport with each other*)
How does this all relate? The more words you learn the more easily you can improve on expressing yourself. Imagine an artist gives you a blank sheet of paper for you to draw the emotion you want to express. And you are only given a black and grey marker. How dull will your drawing comes across vs having 200 different colored pencils, markers, gel pens, high lighters etc. The most important “Thing” you can do is USE THE TOOLS TO ASSIST YOU IN CREATING YOUR MASTERPIECE .
Here’s another example: How limited will your music sound if you only play keys within 2 octaves of a full range piano?
Bottom line: Get a thesaurus. Read one and have a feel about how a certain word can comes across to you. Here’s a challenge, Ask yourself : In how many different ways can I make this tip much more effective using less words to convey the same meaning?
Tip within a Tip: Depending on the situation or environment you find yourself in... Sometimes it's better to use 5 cent words vs 50 cent words.
Yet Another Tip within a tip: If for whatever reason you want to be vague, general, or unspecific with words that can have different meanings in whatever context. You can use words like....Thing, it,something, sometimes, stuff, know, that, whatever, and leave the other person give it's own meaning to it. Know what I mean?
In a recent discovery channel show ' The science of the sexes' Mentioned the key differences between men and women . One of their discoveries were that women are able to store more words.( Duh ) Thus being able to quickly and effectively articulate their emotions through words while giving off a greater/deeper meaning or impact to the listener. While men on the other hand, weren't.
( The reason or explanation about this is b/c the women’s brain connection between the 2 sides of the hemisphere's are higher developed *The both sides of their brains are in rapport with each other*)
How does this all relate? The more words you learn the more easily you can improve on expressing yourself. Imagine an artist gives you a blank sheet of paper for you to draw the emotion you want to express. And you are only given a black and grey marker. How dull will your drawing comes across vs having 200 different colored pencils, markers, gel pens, high lighters etc. The most important “Thing” you can do is USE THE TOOLS TO ASSIST YOU IN CREATING YOUR MASTERPIECE .
Here’s another example: How limited will your music sound if you only play keys within 2 octaves of a full range piano?
Bottom line: Get a thesaurus. Read one and have a feel about how a certain word can comes across to you. Here’s a challenge, Ask yourself : In how many different ways can I make this tip much more effective using less words to convey the same meaning?
Tip within a Tip: Depending on the situation or environment you find yourself in... Sometimes it's better to use 5 cent words vs 50 cent words.
Yet Another Tip within a tip: If for whatever reason you want to be vague, general, or unspecific with words that can have different meanings in whatever context. You can use words like....Thing, it,something, sometimes, stuff, know, that, whatever, and leave the other person give it's own meaning to it. Know what I mean?