There just isn't any justice in this world...

[Wyldfire]

Some of you know that 5 years ago the man I loved and would have married was shot and killed. I found out today that the man who killed him was released onto house arrest recently and escaped community custody a little over a week ago. I'm angry...very angry. It's also bringing up all those old feelings of sadness, frustration and anger at the fact that this a$$hole only got a 5 to 15 year sentence for killing the man I loved. This p*sses me off so bad. Anyhow, if I'm overly grumpy for awhile, don't take it personally. I'm posting this in part just to warn people if I'm cranky, this is probably part of the reason...and I just needed to vent and let off some steam.

 

[jakethasnake]

Start a petition to get his ass back in the slammer. I'm sorry to hear about this, though.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by jakethasnake
Start a petition to get his ass back in the slammer. I'm sorry to hear about this, though.

Oh, he's going back to serve the full 15 years if they ever find him. I'm guessing he's in Canada, though. What infuriates me most of all is that Pete did time for a crime he was present at but didn't actually commit. A guy he was hanging out with committed an aggravated assault. Pete was drunk and he didn't hurt anyone. That's what the victim even told the police and the court. He ended up serving 7 years of a 10-22 year sentence for a crime he didn't even commit. Then some a$$hole shoots him with a federally banned weapon and federally banned ammunition during a freaking home invasion and only is behind bars for 5 years and put on house arrest. I can't believe this sh*t!

Sorry...I'm just so damn angry.

 

[diplomatic_lie]

Dunno what country you're from, but in America and Europe prisons often reward prisoners for "good behaviour". Unfortunately some devious prisoners take advantage of this fact and pretend to be good, in hopes of getting a lighter sentence so they can re-offend. This is probably what happened,.

Sometimes I'm glad for the Chinese/Singapore prison system. NOBODY escapes from a labour camp alive. Mwuahahahaha!

Ahem. Anyway, could you hire a bounty hunter (I think they call it independent enforcement agent in America) to track him down? If he's gone to another country though, it would be harder, unless Canada shares independent enforcement laws with the US. Independent agents can work a lot more faster since they only get paid for success.

Or you could get a PI to work on it, assuming that PIs can legally work on criminal cases.

 

[Climax]

AGREED!!!!!

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Some of you know that 5 years ago the man I loved and would have married was shot and killed. I found out today that the man who killed him was released onto house arrest recently and escaped community custody a little over a week ago. I'm angry...very angry. It's also bringing up all those old feelings of sadness, frustration and anger at the fact that this a$$hole only got a 5 to 15 year sentence for killing the man I loved. This p*sses me off so bad. Anyhow, if I'm overly grumpy for awhile, don't take it personally. I'm posting this in part just to warn people if I'm cranky, this is probably part of the reason...and I just needed to vent and let off some steam.

i guess i kinda know what you feel like.... 2 of my best friends that i grew up with went to Israel to visit some family in the year 2001 and were attacked by 4 Palistines there and beaten to death with stoned and rocks now these f*cking a$$holes were found guilty and sent to jail for a minimum of 25 years... but i would prefer to fly over there and beat the sh!t out of all 4 of them for taking away 2 of my good friends! and to make things worse, they got let out in April of 2004, i got so pissed off about this that i started tuning the police over here in South Afrika... this resulted in them pulling me aside and wanting to take me to jail for the day, but after i explained to them the story they kinda felt sorry for me and said that i must just go home and take it easy... But that anger that i get whenever i think of those f*ckers being out of jail partying and having fun after leaving my 2 good friends 6 feet under forever, i feel like F*CKING breaking something!

Sorry.. i think i got a little carried away there.... what i was meaning to say with this reply is that I find it easiyer to get over / handle when i speak to my family and friends about it I do normally end up crying, but afterwards i feel much better about the situation... but the truth is, is that there ISNT justice in this world, and i guess we just need to accept that I would do ANYTHING to have my friends back, they were like my brothers, we partied togeather, we knew eachothers secrets, we had fights, we played soccer togeather, we were there for eachothers birthdays, F*CK!!

Ok, i actually think that this reply was a bad idea... i'm just getting all emotional and pissed off... but just speak to your parents, your friends, and ppl that you are close to about it, LET IT ALL OUT, and it should make you feel better... well... at least ABIT better...

Laterz....

 

[Wyldfire]

Man, I'm sorry about your loss.

 

[Ice Cold]

Look at the bright side:
If it was a chick who shot him, she'd be out in 2-3 years max.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
Look at the bright side:
If it was a chick who shot him, she'd be out in 2-3 years max.

You know...making light of the death of someone another person loved very deeply is not only idiotic but beneath contempt. F*ck off...

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Man, I'm sorry about your loss.

Wyldfire: Same for you... i know the feeling is awefull, and it haunts you every day... but i guess life goes on I just prefer to think of it as if they are in a happy place and stuff, and i am here on earth living my life, and taking full advantage OF my life, and then one day joining them again... But as much as it hurts me every time i think about it, i keep myself togeather, and i live life, and make the best of it, I'm sure that my 2 friends wouldnt want me to be sad for the rest of my life because of them... so i try enjoy life in THEIR name too.....

er school or watever and buy a1 thing that me and them use to do is go to McDonalds aftn ice-cream... so after they past on i went to McDonalds and baught 1 for myself, and 2 others, which i normally ended up throwing against a wall and bursting into tears like a little stupid girl But ya... its been a long time since the incident, so i guess i'm not THAT emotional anymore, but the thought of not seeing them again does tend to bring tears to my eye's often (whenever i do something that i would normally do with them) but ya... i try not to think about it, and just live life


Ice Cold: i guess u'll never know the feeling.... and i sure hope that you will never HAVE to... but when ur parents pass on one day, and every day u cry because u know that u will never see them again... thats when u will look back at your post on this thread, and u will be ashamed at your insensitivity towards the subject. There IS NO bright side when loosing a loved one.

Laterz...

 

[Devestator]

If Ice Cold is right, she could kill the murderer and only get 2 to 3 years. Probably less with a sympathetic jury.

Love... bah.

 

[Ice Cold]

If you're trying to tell me how to manage my traumas, read this: ,,!,,

You don't know what happened in my life, so don't judge. K bud?

Wyldfire: Makes no difference if they guy is out or in jail, you still won't see either of them ever. Might as well just accept it and save yourself some stress.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Wyldfire: Same for you... i know the feeling is awefull, and it haunts you every day... but i guess life goes on I just prefer to think of it as if they are in a happy place and stuff, and i am here on earth living my life, and taking full advantage OF my life, and then one day joining them again... But as much as it hurts me every time i think about it, i keep myself togeather, and i live life, and make the best of it, I'm sure that my 2 friends wouldnt want me to be sad for the rest of my life because of them... so i try enjoy life in THEIR name too.....

er school or watever and buy a1 thing that me and them use to do is go to McDonalds aftn ice-cream... so after they past on i went to McDonalds and baught 1 for myself, and 2 others, which i normally ended up throwing against a wall and bursting into tears like a little stupid girl But ya... its been a long time since the incident, so i guess i'm not THAT emotional anymore, but the thought of not seeing them again does tend to bring tears to my eye's often (whenever i do something that i would normally do with them) but ya... i try not to think about it, and just live life


Ice Cold: i guess u'll never know the feeling.... and i sure hope that you will never HAVE to... but when ur parents pass on one day, and every day u cry because u know that u will never see them again... thats when u will look back at your post on this thread, and u will be ashamed at your insensitivity towards the subject. There IS NO bright side when loosing a loved one.

Laterz...

I'm able to remember Pete in a happy way as a rule. I've done my grieving and have even been able to open my heart to someone else. The injustice really bothers me, though. And being reminded of the injustice years later is really difficult. I found out the guy had escaped from house arrest yesterday. The night before I had a bizarre and disturbing nightmare where I saw him die. That shook me up pretty badly. I found out about the escape the day after the bad dream from his best friend, who I ran into for the first time in over a year. It was so freaky and bizarre...

I don't think it's weird to throw stuff and cry when you're in the grieving process. It's pretty normal...the anger and sadness. It gets better over time. But one thing that never changes is if you talk about it and some idiot makes a rude comment. That will anger and upset you forever.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
If you're trying to tell me how to manage my traumas, read this: ,,!,,

You don't know what happened in my life, so don't judge. K bud?

Wyldfire: Makes no difference if they guy is out or in jail, you still won't see either of them ever. Might as well just accept it and save yourself some stress.

If the only "wisdom" you can muster exhibits a callous and inconsiderate "oh well" attitude than you really should just keep your comments to yourself and STFU.

 

[Climax]

Not judging you.... Just pointing something out to you...

Originally posted by Ice Cold
Look at the bright side:
If it was a chick who shot him, she'd be out in 2-3 years max.

Ice Cold said:

if you're trying to tell me how to manage my traumas, read this: ,,!,,
You don't know what happened in my life, so don't judge. K bud?

Well then if something similar DID happen to you in the past, then you should know better than to have the attitude such as the one that you gave in your post, and you would know that there IS no "bright side" in loosing a loved one... Dont get the wrong idea, i'm not judging you, just pointing out to you that you SHOULD be more sensative about the matter and not post a reply saying " look at the bright side blah di blah" ... I notmally wouldnt argue with anyone on this, but in this case i take personal offence when someone like you would come and say something like that... I have nothing against you, just hoping that in the future you will try be more sensative on this matter... take this as a "lesson" rather than a "tune" (insult) because my intentions are NOT to insult you.. just pointing something out to you.

Well anyways... I hope that you dont have to experience losing anyone in your life, for a very long time...

Laterz...

 

[MindOverMatter]

can always hire a bounty hunter to find his ass in canada.

 

[Hypoxia II]

empathy people. try to get some.

 

[Hypoxia II]

empathy people. try to get some.

and wyld. im sorry you have to deal with this.

 

[Devestator]

With empathy you might get some

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Hypoxia II
empathy people. try to get some.

and wyld. im sorry you have to deal with this.

Thanks. As far as I know they still haven't found him. The only comfort I'm finding is knowing that IF they do catch him he will not only HAVE to serve his maximum sentence with no parole (10 more years) but they automatically slap on 5 more years for the escape.

 

[Don Ronny]

Damn. That sucks

If it makes you feel any better, I would totally do you.