slikkmeister
Don Juan
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The X factor is the unknown. How, and why does it relate to game? First, let me tell you a quick story and I'll explain it to you.
I was out one night early in the evening with on of my bros. We stopped to grab some 6-packs and 20 oz. because we were going driving golf balls at the range. This pretty HB8 pulled up along side of us as we parked in front of the store. She gave us a quick glance and she walked in like we didn't even exist. When I get in the store I'm picking 6-packs out of the same cooler door as she is, so I held the door for her to finish. She kind of glances at me, not really looking directly into my eyes but more at my whole presence from top to bottom. So I'm thinking to myself, Is this girl interested, or not. I just had to know. I start some small talk, you know, do you like that kind of beer? yada yada yada..... Anyway, we continue out the door making small talk and I walk with her right back to her car. She puts the beer in the back seat and I casually ask her for her phone number. She gives it to me and I say I'll text her when I get time, and she seems like she's being really cool about it. So, a cpl days go by... I text her and ask her to go hang out... Nothing. Not a peep. It didn't even phase me really, I figured she either gave me a fake number, which happened to me a couple of times by girls who had bf's. Or she just wasn't interested.
That was almost one year ago...
Flash forward to two weeks ago. My bro text me and says yo, you remember that cute girl you were hitting on last year around this same time at the beer store. You number closed her and she never returned. I said yes, but barely. He proceeds to tell me that she tracked him down through facebook and had been looking for me for months. She was sending her net out because she didn't have my number anymore. Her phone was destroyed several days after she gave me her number. So, I got to talking to her and she said that she did get my text and was going to hang out with me. Then, she tells me that her father had actually died the day before and she was only in town to help with funeral arrangments and that's why she didn't reply right away. She actually lives about 2 hours away in a remote part of the state. I've actually turned her into my number one plate behind 2 others. Only by default, because she's the hottest out of all them. I didn't want to spin 3 plates but I can't drop the other two because their local and don't mind being FWB. She's been here twice and she's fun and sexy as hell.
Will it work out. Who cares really... I have enough stuff to occupy my time and keep me happy.
The point to this whole story is that it got me thinking. Sometimes, no matter how good you are at game or being a PUA. Their is always the X factor working against you. In this case it was her father dying. (She certainly didn't act like the grieving daughter.) But, it could have been anything else... Bad day at work, dog dying, guy problems, family problems, medical problems, moving to Europe, she's a closet lesbian, you look exactly like her brother, or her ex bf, that used to beat her face in,,, etc. etc. etc. to infinity!!!
So, basically next time things don't work out when you're trying to close a girl. Always factor in the X.... It may not be that you're not good at this. Their are bigger things, in some girls lives other than dating and sex!! Don't even let it phase you. Go right to the next one and close her and don't let it detract you from your goal of spinning!!!
Hope this made sense. I just had to put this into words and post it.
I was out one night early in the evening with on of my bros. We stopped to grab some 6-packs and 20 oz. because we were going driving golf balls at the range. This pretty HB8 pulled up along side of us as we parked in front of the store. She gave us a quick glance and she walked in like we didn't even exist. When I get in the store I'm picking 6-packs out of the same cooler door as she is, so I held the door for her to finish. She kind of glances at me, not really looking directly into my eyes but more at my whole presence from top to bottom. So I'm thinking to myself, Is this girl interested, or not. I just had to know. I start some small talk, you know, do you like that kind of beer? yada yada yada..... Anyway, we continue out the door making small talk and I walk with her right back to her car. She puts the beer in the back seat and I casually ask her for her phone number. She gives it to me and I say I'll text her when I get time, and she seems like she's being really cool about it. So, a cpl days go by... I text her and ask her to go hang out... Nothing. Not a peep. It didn't even phase me really, I figured she either gave me a fake number, which happened to me a couple of times by girls who had bf's. Or she just wasn't interested.
That was almost one year ago...
Flash forward to two weeks ago. My bro text me and says yo, you remember that cute girl you were hitting on last year around this same time at the beer store. You number closed her and she never returned. I said yes, but barely. He proceeds to tell me that she tracked him down through facebook and had been looking for me for months. She was sending her net out because she didn't have my number anymore. Her phone was destroyed several days after she gave me her number. So, I got to talking to her and she said that she did get my text and was going to hang out with me. Then, she tells me that her father had actually died the day before and she was only in town to help with funeral arrangments and that's why she didn't reply right away. She actually lives about 2 hours away in a remote part of the state. I've actually turned her into my number one plate behind 2 others. Only by default, because she's the hottest out of all them. I didn't want to spin 3 plates but I can't drop the other two because their local and don't mind being FWB. She's been here twice and she's fun and sexy as hell.
Will it work out. Who cares really... I have enough stuff to occupy my time and keep me happy.
The point to this whole story is that it got me thinking. Sometimes, no matter how good you are at game or being a PUA. Their is always the X factor working against you. In this case it was her father dying. (She certainly didn't act like the grieving daughter.) But, it could have been anything else... Bad day at work, dog dying, guy problems, family problems, medical problems, moving to Europe, she's a closet lesbian, you look exactly like her brother, or her ex bf, that used to beat her face in,,, etc. etc. etc. to infinity!!!
So, basically next time things don't work out when you're trying to close a girl. Always factor in the X.... It may not be that you're not good at this. Their are bigger things, in some girls lives other than dating and sex!! Don't even let it phase you. Go right to the next one and close her and don't let it detract you from your goal of spinning!!!
Hope this made sense. I just had to put this into words and post it.
