I've never had a woman rip my heart out with malicious intentions, but I have experienced a tragic breakup that affected me profoundly.
I thought I had found the love of my life, and the feeling was mutual. We were together for a year and during that time not even once did we ever fight, and we always able to settle disagreements with ease.
It was one of those relationships that was the envy of others, her friends would always go on and on wondering where she found me and say how lucky she was, and my bros often commented on how happy I seemed with her. She would often say our relationship was so perfect, and sometimes she would worry she would not know what to do if something happened because it was so perfect.
Anyways, long story short she was an illegal immigrant and up and out of nowhere she was deported back to Mexico. This was very hard for the both of us, as we both wanted to be together, and were forcefully separated. I did everything I could to try to keep her here but to no avail.
And from there 6 long painful slow months we maintained long distance with nothing but texts and phone calls and I went down there to see her. Due to the different living circumstances over there and all the emotional turmoil things were just not the same and we had to go our separate ways.
This whole experience instilled so much wisdom and harsh life lessons within me. It literally was one of the most painful things I've ever been through, but now has made me so much stronger.
I realize now how far you can let onetis get you if you don't keep a healthy perspective on things. You have to accept in life things happen and for one reason or another that person may leave your life, and if and when it does you can't let it break you down.
I have nothing but good to say about this woman, and to this day we still keep in touch and I send her a little money here and there as life over there is just so hard, but never will I let a woman put me through that kind of emotional grief again. I'm very thankful to have experienced this, even though it hurt, and it was a loss I did not want to accept, I've accepted such is life and I'm all the more better for the long run for it.
