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The worst position a guy can ever put himself into

CornbreadFed

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Warning: Based off a real-life couple


Jeff finds himself in an unusual situation, dating a girl whose appearance seemingly surpasses his own. A closer look, however, reveals a discrepancy. Jeff, with his overweight physique, average job, lack of compelling hobbies, and a rather unremarkable personality, seems an unlikely match for his visually appealing partner. At first glance, it appears as if Jeff is enjoying a great relationship, seemingly offering little in return. However, the truth couldn't be further from this surface perception.

In reality, relationships often involve a mutual exchange of value—whether it's in the form of status, intimacy, financial support, physical attractiveness, or serfdom. Jeff, behind closed doors, is entangled with a woman who is a cruel Propriétaire. She is a complex blend of characteristics: a fervent vegan, a staunch feminist, a hypochondriac, a narcissist, a control enthusiast, and a manipulative, prudish individual.

To outsiders, it may seem like Jeff has landed an attractive partner without having to contribute much in return, prompting reflections on one's own life choices. Yet, the truth is far from simple. The question arises: why doesn't Jeff just end the relationship? The answer lies in the fear of the unknown. Jeff acknowledges the challenges of finding someone else and fears the prospect of being single— a sentiment shared by many. Despite the apparent incongruity of their relationship, Jeff's choices are rooted in a complex web of emotions, insecurities, and the uncertainties that come with navigating the complexities of modern relationships. In essence, Jeff is in a sticky situation.

Moral of the story: 1). It is always too good to be true, 2). Never sell your freedom for pvssy, 3). Never neglect your SMV, always be improving it
 

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Once upon a time a guy had a hot girlfriend, but, get this: she was a b1tch and he could do better.
 

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Sounds like Jeff has Scarcity Mentality. I guess most of us have been there at some point. He should read my thread of Alex Rivers
 

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I don't know if that's the worst possible outcome for a man in the sexual marketplace. It's not a good position though. Agree with @Dr.Suave that there's scarcity mentality happening here.
 

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I agree. I think what OP also is trying to say is that things are hardly ever what they seem. That's quite the progress OP has made from defending the bluepill all the way to making this( good) thread ;-) .

E.g i work at a vacation park. And believe me, you WON'T be at any other place where there are more "happy couples ". This is as bluepilled as it gets..mostly couples between 25 and lets say 50 y.o with small children and sometimes even a DOG.

The bluepilled man(within yourself) will look this with envy: how come that mediocre dude manages to get this done while "amazing me" can seem to find a normal decent woman if my life depended upon it LOL.

It raises the (superficial)question : doesn't she know about the carousel? Did THIS mediocre dude vetted like a damn BOSS and he laughs at the "infamous 63% who didn't date " while rocking a balding scalp, being skinny or overweight ,and dgaf about fashion?


But when you wise up and learn life you'll realize that there's more than meets the eye;

--like OP states, wifey is probably a huge annoying controlling cvunt.
--to allude to the previous point: dude is a doormat who has to deal with her bs on a daily..

--most men will have a woman with LESS smv than them. Like 2 ,3 points

--you never know what's going on: perhaps dude has a good paying job and is providing her with everything she needs

-- perhaps she'll leave / cheat on him tomorrow

-- and lastly: never forget, that every time when YOU was with any woman, some.other dude thought you had it all together ( and perhaps you believed itvat that particular moment im time as well...)
 

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I agree. I think what OP also is trying to say is that things are hardly ever what they seem. That's quite the progress OP has made from defending the bluepill all the way to making this( good) thread ;-) .
I have always been purple pilled lol.
 
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