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Sato21m

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ok lets say that ur gf is been dressing normal and after a few weeks that u ben dating her and u guys go to a club she dress really sexy and i'm sure she just dressed like that to impress you cause she hasa high IL in you would you guys talk to her and tell her something about dressing sexy like that or what?
would u tell her that u don't like it if u don't?
 

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Uh no, girls do this all the time. Guys the same thing too. You know each other, one on one.. no reason to really fancy up looks and stuff.. cause being real is real. Then when you go out to people events (like big parties) you notice she's wearing more makeup, perfume, dressing nicer, etc.. It's not interest level or anything - she wants to look attractive to people - other guys - other girls. Not you. Don't get offended by this.
 

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You're jealous. ;)

Look at it this way...you have a choice. On one hand, you can encourage your girl to look her best, in which case other men may also see her and be attracted to her, or you can tell her you're happy with her however she looks and end up with her being overweight and scrubbed out all the time.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Dayr0n
ok lets say that ur gf is been dressing normal and after a few weeks that u ben dating her and u guys go to a club she dress really sexy and i'm sure she just dressed like that to impress you cause she hasa high IL in you would you guys talk to her and tell her something about dressing sexy like that or what?
would u tell her that u don't like it if u don't?
As long as she does not do anything to disrespect you, consider yourself a lucky man. Would you rather she go to the club dressed as a frump? Would you want other DJs to think that frumps are the only types of women you can pull???? Also consider this, you could also pick up your presentation a notch or two at the club ;)
 

Matt ala Casanova

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What is the problem? She is dressing sexy...its you who will be digging in those guts later on. Feed off the fact that other guys only wish they we're you!

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what are you daft? she is dressing sexy cause of you. she doesn't want you looking at other ho's. she just needs some extra attention and reassurance.

you should congradulate her on dressing sexy for you. and let all the other guys stare at what they can't have and what you possess!
 

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nice i was thinking aBOUT that she also told me that the main reason that she bought that out fit was for me to impressme
 

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I'd steer clear of even mentioning "how" a chick dresses.

My current girl was a stripper while she was in school. She still dresses that way. I asked her to tone it down one time. BIG mistake...

Chicks like attention. They like to show off (if they have it). When they go out, they like to dress up. This will never change...
 
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