Mistic
Senior Don Juan
The first part of this will focus on recognizing what HB's really are. We need to understand them before we will know how to engage them. The "what" and the "why" come before the "how."
It's very simple, but first I would like you to think about the following:
1. How do you talk to your friends? These are your bro's who you feel completely comfortable with, and have little concern with their reactions to what you say. Just try to feel "that" mindset.
2. How do you talk to women who you know well and are comfortable with? These could be friends of your parents, co-workers, cousins, aunties, any woman you don't intend to have sex with. Feel the mindset of how you interact with those women.
3. Now think about how you would approach and interact with a female you dont know, and are not attracted to.
4. And finally, think about how it feels to approach and engage a woman you are very attracted to?
Likely you will feel and behave very differently in each of these situations. This natural, but it is also where the problems begin. When you arrive at the level of communication I am talking about, you should feel and act no differently towards an HB than your friends and family. Here's why.
Hot women are no different than anyone else. The reality about hot women that has helped me to feel very comfortable around them, is simply that they are like any other person. They are in their own process of having a human experience. They have their problems as well as good qualities. They are getting older. They will die one day. They have to take a sh!t (which is especially humiliating for many HB's) They can also feel empty and ugly inside and out, as everyone does or has at one time. Even people who are perceived to be beautiful don't necessarily feel that way. And like everyone, they are struggling to find where they fit in life.
HB's are experiencing everything that we are. Your journey to rid yourself of AFC qualities and become a better person is common to every one of us. It is what life is about, and being good looking doesn't make you exempt from life's trials. Don't let the looks fool you.
When you see an HB, dont see her as that. See her as simply a person who is not much different than you. Identify and recognize how her experience here is not so unlike yours.
Now simply talk to women with that mindset.
You are probably used to talking to HB's with the mindset that, she thinks she is hot, and gets hit on all the time, and you better do everything right or she will think you are just like the other guys who got shot down before you.
Next time just talk to them as if you known them well. Like they are no more special or different than you or anyone else. Just another one of your bros. It is key to making communication with HB's EASY and effective, and she will appreciate the authenticity. And if she doesn't, then she probably isn't worth your time.
It's very simple, but first I would like you to think about the following:
1. How do you talk to your friends? These are your bro's who you feel completely comfortable with, and have little concern with their reactions to what you say. Just try to feel "that" mindset.
2. How do you talk to women who you know well and are comfortable with? These could be friends of your parents, co-workers, cousins, aunties, any woman you don't intend to have sex with. Feel the mindset of how you interact with those women.
3. Now think about how you would approach and interact with a female you dont know, and are not attracted to.
4. And finally, think about how it feels to approach and engage a woman you are very attracted to?
Likely you will feel and behave very differently in each of these situations. This natural, but it is also where the problems begin. When you arrive at the level of communication I am talking about, you should feel and act no differently towards an HB than your friends and family. Here's why.
Hot women are no different than anyone else. The reality about hot women that has helped me to feel very comfortable around them, is simply that they are like any other person. They are in their own process of having a human experience. They have their problems as well as good qualities. They are getting older. They will die one day. They have to take a sh!t (which is especially humiliating for many HB's) They can also feel empty and ugly inside and out, as everyone does or has at one time. Even people who are perceived to be beautiful don't necessarily feel that way. And like everyone, they are struggling to find where they fit in life.
HB's are experiencing everything that we are. Your journey to rid yourself of AFC qualities and become a better person is common to every one of us. It is what life is about, and being good looking doesn't make you exempt from life's trials. Don't let the looks fool you.
When you see an HB, dont see her as that. See her as simply a person who is not much different than you. Identify and recognize how her experience here is not so unlike yours.
Now simply talk to women with that mindset.
You are probably used to talking to HB's with the mindset that, she thinks she is hot, and gets hit on all the time, and you better do everything right or she will think you are just like the other guys who got shot down before you.
Next time just talk to them as if you known them well. Like they are no more special or different than you or anyone else. Just another one of your bros. It is key to making communication with HB's EASY and effective, and she will appreciate the authenticity. And if she doesn't, then she probably isn't worth your time.
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I was born confident, baby. One thing I love to do is remind an HB9 that while I'd do her, there is someone else. It doesnt work all the time, but when it does, watch out!!!