As my first response says, judge everyone by their actions, why give anyone a pedestal in this regard just because they have a vagina or tits you want to suck on?
Women get over heartbreak more efficiently than men on average, and are the large majority of domestic abuse victims. Across the eons of human history they have been the physically weaker sex, and thus have been raped and slaughtered for sport, forcing them to adapt to be more manipulative and emotionally cunning then men, simply to survive. The obvious precursor is more refined emotional accountability and awareness.
You speak of outliers, just like there are male bums that smell like piss asking you for a quarter so they can buy more crack to inject into their ballsack. Or rappers or powerball winners that blow it all and are poor within a year. I know guys with closets of shoes they've never worn, so what? On average, it's a scientific fact women have more self control.
Am I shattering some grand illusion that makes you feel better about yourself? Maybe that's my role here, to wake you the fuuck up.
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0093854810369082?journalCode=cjbb