The truth shall set you free...

[Ricky]

We have a responsibility to help others. Let's eradicate our limiting beliefs and theirs as well. People will love you for it.

When I moved up here 2 months ago I let the scared feelings of one girl I love break down my confidence. But it wasn't all that I had a lot on my plate I just finished a masters and moved to a new town where I knew no one and was worried about a new job.

I have destroyed some of the stupid stereotypes about this town already. I urge you all to break some of the limiting beliefs others have. If you let them in unchallenged they can be a mind virus.

I heard people say
People there are rude. Bull**** I've found way more circumstances to the contrary. People are rude everywhere it's because they are unhappy and not making the changes they need to in their lives. But overall people don't want to be rude, if they are happy.

It's hard to meet people here. BULL****. I already have enough people calling me that I had to hold off one group on Thursday. And another group called tonight and I told them I'd meet em later because I've been working on something important for my career.

SO NEXT TIME YOU HEAR A NEGATIVE STEREOTYPE OR BELIEF, yell after me BULL****>

We have a responsibility to get people motivated and on their path. I am back to my unstoppable self and am not looking back.

A girl can either get on my program or stay behind in her small unhappy world.

CHANGE IS A GOOD THING. Break out of your comfort zone NOW!

Later I'm headed out!

BTW I want to post about going to new places and being a tourist in your own town as well but I'll save that for tomorrow!

 

[BigDawg]

Ricky, you're spot on. I agree with your take on self-limiting beliefs. The key is to notice them early on and eradicate them as quickly as possible. But I would say that we are individually responsible to and for ourselves only. It's up to every individual to motivate themselves to get on the right path. As peers, we can encourage and offer constructive criticism, and be a cheering section when they find the right path.

Readers, don't do what I did when I first moved to where I am now, about two years ago. After getting out of a 2+ year LTR, I moved and while I was grieving the demise of the relationship, several self-limiting beliefs took hold, and I didn't immediately do anything about it. Result: the beliefs grew to the point that I was convinced of every negative thing I could think about myself, and I started suffering from depression.

I'm doing a lot better now, but it's only recently that I've started realizing that self-limiting beliefs, left unchecked, can really mess you up.

When you get rid of your self-limiting beliefs, or at least learn how to keep them at bay, you get a surge in self-confidence and self-esteem, and everyone notices, especially the womenfolk. After all, isn't confidence one of the biggest turn-ons to a woman?

Like I quoted the Bard in another thread, "Always to thine own self be true"

 

[Ricky]

BigDawg I can totally relate, it wasn't until I could reframe things in proper way that i got over this breakup.

In fact part of me thinks I can get her back but at least now I don't blame myself, it's her!

You know what helped the most? Realizing how far I've come.

I met this girl at a conference last fall. She fell for me and flew to be with me a couple of times. She was in love with me. A girl from another town! It started out long distance and a few months later she was ready to move to be with me!

That wouldn't have happened even a few years ago. I got my **** together.

Why should I care if she flaked later on. I seduced myself in the process to! If she had moved here, who knows what she would really have been like! I'm guessing a major pain in the ass and a liability!

 

[DJohnson]

No doubt

Have to get your inner game right. Gotta let go over negative thoughts in ANY form, because it INFECTS every part of your life and everyone you are with.

Become a natural alpha male and wathc the world open up to you with little struggle. Who dares triffle with the Silverback Gorilla after all? He has all the women, NEVER gets in fights and lives his life in near perfect piece except for the occasional subordinate, but hey thats just part of the game!

DJ
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www.seductionhome.com

 

[BigDawg]

I'm reminded of the motto of the British Army's Special Air Service (SAS), roughly the equivalent of the US Army's Delta Force.

Their motto is, "Who dares wins"

How much more positive can you get?