I am so fed up of coming on this website and being told that the key to success with women is to be a jerk and a challenge to them. While these may be surface causes, the root is totally different. You do not sow the jerk attitude and reap women - this is illogical and (as of recent experience has shown me) a bad practice.
Being a jerk does not mean insulting women, it does not mean treating them badly. Beware the "Neg-Hit" that they speak of on this board, it can backfire BIGTIME on you and totally turn a girl off. I told one girl I didnt like her hair and another I couldn't see her because she was too short (as jokes!) and now they literally HATE me! It cant seem like you are stuck-up and arrogant - women do not like being with guys who think they are better than them (of course this does not mean you cant be better than her, just be humble). This is _especially_ true if you are a cute guy and they are somewhat intimidated by you.
What is being a jerk, or a challenge? First of all, throw these words totally out the window!
Right now we will go back to the basics of human nature -
1. You cannot have public victory without personal victory!
What does this mean? If you do not put yourself first, you exercise routine, your job, your finances - your GOALS in LIFE, if you put somebody else above you then you will never succeed, and the only reason you may have in the past is because there was nobody in your life to put before yourself. Think about it, are you more attracted to a woman that pours all of her attention onto you, but has a nasty body, a crappy job and never dresses sexy? Or are you attracted to the sexiest girl in the room, the one who exercises and diets religously? The '10' who is intellegent, has a respectable job, and whos character flaws are minute? You cannot ger respect from others unless you respect yourself first!
An example? I have a friend whos 35, stacked like a brick-****house, drives a mustang cobra, has a well-paying law enforcement job and is really fun to be around. What does he do on his first date? He takes a girl to McDonalds and buys her a childrens happy meal and himself a huge meal - no sh*t, and they just LOVE it! They are literally SOO excited, I didn't believe him until until I heard the girls telling me about it with gigantic smiles across their face. What happened next? He didn't need to call them, they would call him!
2. We cannot control other people, we can only control ourselves. Create a Win-Win relationship.
When you try to take advantage of a woman by manipulating her she can tell - do you remember those sleezy salesmen that tried to sell you something you didnt want or need just to fill their pockets? This is what you are being!
If you yourself are a pimp, then you don't need to try. Women will instinctively come to you and you dont need to do hardly anything. Everyone comes on this website trying to get their game down in persueding women to fxck them with all these fancy techniques (NLP, SS, etc.) when all you really need to do is focus on yourself and put yourself in the right environment. In this situation, you don't try, you do!
The basis of this post is that you cannot take care of anybody else unless you first take care of yourself. You must sharpen the saw in which you are trying to slice through these women with, and when you do this you will find it easier than you ever imagined.
Buzz
Recommended Reading on this Subject: The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
Being a jerk does not mean insulting women, it does not mean treating them badly. Beware the "Neg-Hit" that they speak of on this board, it can backfire BIGTIME on you and totally turn a girl off. I told one girl I didnt like her hair and another I couldn't see her because she was too short (as jokes!) and now they literally HATE me! It cant seem like you are stuck-up and arrogant - women do not like being with guys who think they are better than them (of course this does not mean you cant be better than her, just be humble). This is _especially_ true if you are a cute guy and they are somewhat intimidated by you.
What is being a jerk, or a challenge? First of all, throw these words totally out the window!
Right now we will go back to the basics of human nature -
1. You cannot have public victory without personal victory!
What does this mean? If you do not put yourself first, you exercise routine, your job, your finances - your GOALS in LIFE, if you put somebody else above you then you will never succeed, and the only reason you may have in the past is because there was nobody in your life to put before yourself. Think about it, are you more attracted to a woman that pours all of her attention onto you, but has a nasty body, a crappy job and never dresses sexy? Or are you attracted to the sexiest girl in the room, the one who exercises and diets religously? The '10' who is intellegent, has a respectable job, and whos character flaws are minute? You cannot ger respect from others unless you respect yourself first!
An example? I have a friend whos 35, stacked like a brick-****house, drives a mustang cobra, has a well-paying law enforcement job and is really fun to be around. What does he do on his first date? He takes a girl to McDonalds and buys her a childrens happy meal and himself a huge meal - no sh*t, and they just LOVE it! They are literally SOO excited, I didn't believe him until until I heard the girls telling me about it with gigantic smiles across their face. What happened next? He didn't need to call them, they would call him!
2. We cannot control other people, we can only control ourselves. Create a Win-Win relationship.
When you try to take advantage of a woman by manipulating her she can tell - do you remember those sleezy salesmen that tried to sell you something you didnt want or need just to fill their pockets? This is what you are being!
If you yourself are a pimp, then you don't need to try. Women will instinctively come to you and you dont need to do hardly anything. Everyone comes on this website trying to get their game down in persueding women to fxck them with all these fancy techniques (NLP, SS, etc.) when all you really need to do is focus on yourself and put yourself in the right environment. In this situation, you don't try, you do!
The basis of this post is that you cannot take care of anybody else unless you first take care of yourself. You must sharpen the saw in which you are trying to slice through these women with, and when you do this you will find it easier than you ever imagined.
Buzz
Recommended Reading on this Subject: The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
