DEEZEDBRAH
Master Don Juan
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It's sunk cost fallacy.The more I approach, the more time I realize I spend a lot of time approaching. The better I get, the more I realize how much I am working to get results. Let me explain.
Setting the stage: I am very young(22), but I would say I am very successful for my age. I go to college full time(3.7+ GPA), and run a business that netted me $105,000 this year. Despite all this, I feel like the time I spend on game is disproportionate to the results I am getting(as of now). I spend 20 hours a week on school, 25-30 hours a week on my business, and about 20 hours a week on game. Those 20 hours are divided between actually approaching, dates, and then writing/reading about the topic online.
I would consider myself intermediate at game. By tracking the numbers, I see I get laid approximately every 50 day game approaches. I know that the best get ratios around 1 and 15, or 1 and 10, but that is my ratio right now. Given my dedication to it, I would not be surprised if the average in the “seduction” community is considerably higher than mine. Maybe it isn’t though and I’m just not doing a good job.
Now to my point. I make about $100 every hour I work on my business. So hear me out.
Therefore, assuming I make $100 per hour, it ‘costs’ me $1,850.00 per each lay.
Time spent approaching(10 min per) 50 approaches x 10=500 minutes Time spent on first dates(45 min per) 5 dates x 45 =225 minutes Time spent on 2nd date/escalating(2 hr) 2 dates x 120 = 240 minutes Time spent texting(20 minutes per date) 5 x 20 = 60 minutes Time spent texting girls that don’t go anywhere. I get a number on 1/3 of my approaches, so 50/3=16-5(dates)=11. (10 minutes spend on these girls.) 11 x 10 = 110 minutes TOTAL TIME SPENT PER LAY Approxmaitely 18.5 hours
Noteworthy points on this calculation: 50 approaches to 1 lay can be drastically improved. If can get it down to 1 in 20, that would cut half my time off, resulting in a cost of $925 per lay.
Even if I get my ratios to god level, I will still be losing a considerably amount of money. This will only be compounded as I start making more money. Therefore, the purpose of gaming girls NEEDS to be greater than just getting laid in order to make the time-value equation better. I would say that, at my present form, the best things to derive from game are:
Failure to prioritize learning these results in a net loss in value from time invested.
- Not giving a **** about rejection at all
- Learning to keep your emotions even keel when **** doesn’t go your way(girl ghosts you, stood up, etc)
- Learning to talk confidently
- Learning great body language
This applies if you make less. Say you make $15 an hour. 18.5 x 15 = $277.
Therefore, if you focus too much on the end outcome in-game, which is sex, you lose the benefits of game, and the time invested does not yield maximum value. What does the forum think?
This is a post I wrote on my new blog, check it out here: https://compoundedprogress.com/2021/11/19/the-time-inefficiencies-of-gamefrom-my-perspective/
If you already cultivated a good tier of game, allocate more toward biz, and sniper approach like @SW15 SAYS. Not sure why school if you got av6 figs biz keeping a 3.7 GPA? Unless a med student?
The ROI of women is low and more accurately a liability. Women are typically modern and ran through. One cheeseburger or broken rubber away from expired.
Do a handful everyday. Allocate more time into biz and the things that matter. I think you are doing it right. Aim at longevity not crashing and burning.