everyone.....why r u so worried about what girls r thinkin...just be ur self why would u want to act a way thats really not you why would u want to change yourself for a girl..all this stuff is ****...if a girls dosnt like u for u how r then u next her...**** it there alot more girls out they an u dont need her:rockon:
the thruth has to be told
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rgeere
Master Don Juan
Well, it is not about being someone you are not ... it is about being a better you. I mean for hells sake, if every man was able to live up to his full potential this board and website would not exist. Self-improve, man!
Delta
Master Don Juan
because we want to fvck them.
in general, we want to fvck.
and there are ways of being, as a guy, that makes that a very slim possibility.
so for the sake of the fvck, we change.
delta
in general, we want to fvck.
and there are ways of being, as a guy, that makes that a very slim possibility.
so for the sake of the fvck, we change.
delta
shady313 said:
It's about being the best you can. If a girl doesn't like you for "who you are", just next her? There is no EXACT "real you"...you would be SOMEWHAT different if you had been brought up in a different place, by different people, etc. We all have the capacity to be the best we can be, and striving for this improvement allows us to lead happier, more satisfying lives, and also, to get more ***** during it...And without these changes, we possibly won't fvck the girls who we truly want to...so no, I won't just ride the wave of mediocrity...
-shaun
-shaun
It's not about not being yourself. It's about being the best you. Being better than what you were, getting rid of the negative bits and replacing with positive ones.shady313 said:
If "just being youself" worked, then why do men have trouble bedding women?
Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
k u guys got some good points there so since u guy want to better ur self how about givin me a hand with something k i was seeing this girl about last november an she ended it but now she wants to try it again is this a good thing or a bad thing give me a hand here guys
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
This is so true. Do you think guys WANT to buy girls things? Do you think guys WANT to talk to girls on the phone for hours at a time? Do you think guys WANT to be treated like sh1t?mr_elor said:
NO, NO, and NO.
So all the guys out there supplicating to women, they aren't BEING THEMSELVES, they are ACTING the way they think women want them to act.
So in a sense, you are correct. If we all acted the way we TRULY wanted to, things would be fine. Everyone wants to improve right? The problem is these wussy men act the way they think women want and that is AFC.
Being_the_Don
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Women don't know WHAT they want. They say they want us to be assertive but then they complain when we do take charge on decision making or set terms on initiating the dates, etc. Say the wrong thing to them which could be anything and then they are gone. Or they'll come back later and try to pick up where they left off.
I used to think it was important to consider other people's feelings in a lot of things but society is just the opposite. It's cutthroat. And at first it seems like when you make the decision to look out for number one it's like selfish and goes against what you were taught (especialy if you went to church and sat in on sermons, etc.) but it's important to get past it. The hypocrisy is everywhere. You've got to look out for yourself first. Bottom line. Do some good where you can do good but 9 times out of 10 people aren't going to give a blazes about it on the positive side anyway. What does this mean for relationships? Make the woman work for it. Yeah, do your part, don't be an a$$ and try to dictate things to her but if she's whiny or doesn't know what she wants forget her. If she comes back later forget her. Tell womwn that you aren't going to be played. Women play, too. Many of them are fickle and they like to see us drooling and following behind them making idiots of ourselves. But if you tell them you won't be used, many of them will back off.
And there wil always be people who are afraid of your masculinty. They might even see it before you do and try to shoot you down. Use it to your advantage. Show yourself by constantly improving on who you are and what you've got. And acquire. Be a man and accept that we have to do what he have t do to survive. And the ones who want to shoot you down do it because their time has passed or will never come, etc. Being strong therewill be women who will see it. Don't be held back by perceived limitations. Always go beyond yourself and improve improve improve. That's being yourself. There are so many facets to our personality, it's all part of who we are. The thing to do is to see the weaknesses for what they are and not give them power. That's one way to get strength. And your strong points build on them always and get better and better. And make yourself known. Women do notice. And they wil check you out even when you don't notice it. One woman I know made a comment about my body when I didn't evn think she was looking (if you know what I mean) and that just let me know that they are always looking even when it might look like they're thinking about or doing something else. So that means to be always be self improving because it will attract women and in that pool will be the women you want. Believe it and that makes it happen.
I used to think it was important to consider other people's feelings in a lot of things but society is just the opposite. It's cutthroat. And at first it seems like when you make the decision to look out for number one it's like selfish and goes against what you were taught (especialy if you went to church and sat in on sermons, etc.) but it's important to get past it. The hypocrisy is everywhere. You've got to look out for yourself first. Bottom line. Do some good where you can do good but 9 times out of 10 people aren't going to give a blazes about it on the positive side anyway. What does this mean for relationships? Make the woman work for it. Yeah, do your part, don't be an a$$ and try to dictate things to her but if she's whiny or doesn't know what she wants forget her. If she comes back later forget her. Tell womwn that you aren't going to be played. Women play, too. Many of them are fickle and they like to see us drooling and following behind them making idiots of ourselves. But if you tell them you won't be used, many of them will back off.
And there wil always be people who are afraid of your masculinty. They might even see it before you do and try to shoot you down. Use it to your advantage. Show yourself by constantly improving on who you are and what you've got. And acquire. Be a man and accept that we have to do what he have t do to survive. And the ones who want to shoot you down do it because their time has passed or will never come, etc. Being strong therewill be women who will see it. Don't be held back by perceived limitations. Always go beyond yourself and improve improve improve. That's being yourself. There are so many facets to our personality, it's all part of who we are. The thing to do is to see the weaknesses for what they are and not give them power. That's one way to get strength. And your strong points build on them always and get better and better. And make yourself known. Women do notice. And they wil check you out even when you don't notice it. One woman I know made a comment about my body when I didn't evn think she was looking (if you know what I mean) and that just let me know that they are always looking even when it might look like they're thinking about or doing something else. So that means to be always be self improving because it will attract women and in that pool will be the women you want. Believe it and that makes it happen.
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Peace and Quiet
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
L777
Master Don Juan
What if "yourself" is an obese, unemployed 45 yr. old virgin though?shady313 said:
Catch my drift?
bigjohnson
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For the love of all that's good, learn the language.shady313 said:
