1. The "Do you believe I'm better than You?" Test.
If a woman senses that YOU believe that SHE is better(more popular, better looking, richer, etc)than you she will TEST this out. If you fail the test(act subservient, unconfident, dependent or call her too often) you're probably gone.
HANDLING IT: NEVER let her believe this. Don't be overly complimentary. Act as if she's lucky to be with you because youre so incredibly interesting and funny. Dont react to HER! Make her react to you!!!(don't use too much language here! Use mystery!
2. The "Can I control you/USE you?" Test.
She wants to know if she can use her mind(a gal wants a guy smarter, or at least STREET smarter than she is) or her EMOTIONS
(crying, unreasonable behavior) to control you. If she can, you are taking on water like the Titanic, and ready to go under.
See doc loves recent article to Harriet(must read).
HANDLING IT: What I do is i am unflappably confident. I REFUSE to allow emotion to enter in. I listen to her, but over rule her.
NOTE: If she gets hysterical(trust me, every woman will eventually pull this one out of the bag) I TAKE HER HOME. If she wants to have a meltdown in public, i treat this like it deserves. IMMEDIATELY HOME!!!! Drop her off and say "I hope you feel better tomorrow!"
3. The "Who needs the other more/JEALOUSY/?" Test.
This is the whole interest level thing. This can express itself in various ways, but it might come out like this: she will mention a male friend, change a date, act distant, or say she's BUSY when you ask her out.
HANDLING IT: The best way is to PREVENT this as much as possible. EVEN if you ARE the more interested, dont let her KNOW it. Or if you do, make it clear you could move forward with your life in twenty minutes if necessary.
PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTOR: Her reasoning(if you can call it that) is that if you are the more NEEDY/in love in the relationship, then SHE CAN DO BETTER. If you feel jealous, TAKE A BREAK, and DONT CALL HER FOR A WEEK. You have to fight that emotion. Women DESPISE it, because it means you have NOTHING else available in dating.
MY THEORY: Since actually MEN need women more than women need men for companionship(women have their girlfriends) then MEN need to have more dating options than women. This evens the playing field. If you keep her interest level high, you will only ONCE IN A WHILE need to handle this problem.
If a woman senses that YOU believe that SHE is better(more popular, better looking, richer, etc)than you she will TEST this out. If you fail the test(act subservient, unconfident, dependent or call her too often) you're probably gone.
HANDLING IT: NEVER let her believe this. Don't be overly complimentary. Act as if she's lucky to be with you because youre so incredibly interesting and funny. Dont react to HER! Make her react to you!!!(don't use too much language here! Use mystery!
2. The "Can I control you/USE you?" Test.
She wants to know if she can use her mind(a gal wants a guy smarter, or at least STREET smarter than she is) or her EMOTIONS
(crying, unreasonable behavior) to control you. If she can, you are taking on water like the Titanic, and ready to go under.
See doc loves recent article to Harriet(must read).
HANDLING IT: What I do is i am unflappably confident. I REFUSE to allow emotion to enter in. I listen to her, but over rule her.
NOTE: If she gets hysterical(trust me, every woman will eventually pull this one out of the bag) I TAKE HER HOME. If she wants to have a meltdown in public, i treat this like it deserves. IMMEDIATELY HOME!!!! Drop her off and say "I hope you feel better tomorrow!"
3. The "Who needs the other more/JEALOUSY/?" Test.
This is the whole interest level thing. This can express itself in various ways, but it might come out like this: she will mention a male friend, change a date, act distant, or say she's BUSY when you ask her out.
HANDLING IT: The best way is to PREVENT this as much as possible. EVEN if you ARE the more interested, dont let her KNOW it. Or if you do, make it clear you could move forward with your life in twenty minutes if necessary.
PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTOR: Her reasoning(if you can call it that) is that if you are the more NEEDY/in love in the relationship, then SHE CAN DO BETTER. If you feel jealous, TAKE A BREAK, and DONT CALL HER FOR A WEEK. You have to fight that emotion. Women DESPISE it, because it means you have NOTHING else available in dating.
MY THEORY: Since actually MEN need women more than women need men for companionship(women have their girlfriends) then MEN need to have more dating options than women. This evens the playing field. If you keep her interest level high, you will only ONCE IN A WHILE need to handle this problem.