You might already be doing this on some level. But those of you guys who think yourself as overly serious at times listen up.
Remember Pook’s great post of three keys to DJ? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16417
Keys are:
1) Her sexuality and YOURS shall be embraced
2) Fun shall be the focus -> funny
3) You are the PRIZE to be won -> ****y
These keys are also the colours you can use to colour any thought or action.
You can colour anything you say. You can get the ****iness with your voice tone. You can embed sexuality with the way you look at her while you speak. Having a smile while you speak tells you are on positive mindset and having fun.
Now, say something, anything, while using all these elements to colour what you say. Then say the same thing without any colours and notice how it’s so common/boring/serious. Play around a bit and see how much of each colour suits you the best. Also don’t just limit this into speaking. Add this ****y&funny&sexual into the way you dance, shake hands, drink your coffee and dip a cookie in it.
Fun is the main colour that should always be used when communicating with other people. Walk through the life with a small smile on your face. Using other colours at times adds a great deal to your personality. The difference will be noticed.
Remember Pook’s great post of three keys to DJ? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16417
Keys are:
1) Her sexuality and YOURS shall be embraced
2) Fun shall be the focus -> funny
3) You are the PRIZE to be won -> ****y
These keys are also the colours you can use to colour any thought or action.
You can colour anything you say. You can get the ****iness with your voice tone. You can embed sexuality with the way you look at her while you speak. Having a smile while you speak tells you are on positive mindset and having fun.
Now, say something, anything, while using all these elements to colour what you say. Then say the same thing without any colours and notice how it’s so common/boring/serious. Play around a bit and see how much of each colour suits you the best. Also don’t just limit this into speaking. Add this ****y&funny&sexual into the way you dance, shake hands, drink your coffee and dip a cookie in it.
Fun is the main colour that should always be used when communicating with other people. Walk through the life with a small smile on your face. Using other colours at times adds a great deal to your personality. The difference will be noticed.