the success of men

[Packers2010]

What is the success of men really?

Back when your parents was your age. Success meant settling down, having kids and getting that promotion you always wanted. Did it ever make them happy?

...no

Just take my folks for example. after awhile thinks ht the rocks and they went down with the ship. in other words. they got divorced because my dad would come home and drink because he didn't like his job and was tired all the time from working so hard.

fast forward to today. Success is measured on how many girls you have slept with, how many Facebook friends you have and how famous you are. does this make us happy?

...no

This way of life is WAY to hollow to maintain anything of value. sure going out and f*ckin a new girl every night is ok... for awhile.. not for life! Social conditioning has led us, led ME to believe that all we need is this one girl. This fairy tale ending. When really life isn't like that. if it was. I would be married to my best friend right now but her and I don't talk no more.

It’s a shame people are living there life this way. I say, the best way to live your life is to be happy, healthy and wealthy. Instead of trying to look for outside sources to tell me HOW I should feel and WHAT I should do. I should be the one to tell me WHAT I should be doing WHEN I should be doing it and for how long I want to do it.

You SHOULD do what YOU want to do. What makes you happy? What you love doing. I do the lamest sh*t ever because I like it. my closet is full of retro video game shirts because I like them. I collect vinyl records and play poker / pool because I want to. Not cos it’s the in thing to do.

Many of you guys should take a leaf out of my book and be more POSATIVE. Most people only see the negative. Start re living, re building your life. Trust me it’s for the better.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Good post, motherfvcker, good post. Let me just say that, at the moment, I don't feel supported AT ALL in my life. I feel supported on this website a bit. I REALLY do not feel too supported by too many people in my life right now. Does that make me unhappy? Does that make me sad? Nah. I mean, I have my music. I have my pretty kickas5 job. I have my roof over my head. I have any food I want. I have good neighbors. I have a paid-off truck of 9 yrs. I have a big as5 plasma TV. I have a garden. I have girlfriendzzzzz. Don't have to take any sh!t off of Any of them because there's always one to replace.

I guess what I miss most is having a live-in girlfriend, but then again, that can be freedom-restricting (easily 50% reduction in freedom and quietness to think thoughts I want to think now). I do miss a soul to converse with at home nightly. That is my sorrow I guess. You can only do so much talk over the phone. You need a body in person some nights and it hurts not to. Throughout my day, I never have a shortage of people to speak with. I'm never alone. And this is a god-send in my job. These are just people, but most of them are good people who own businesses and teachers, doctors, dentists, professionals, bankers, gas attendants, pet store clerks, various quirky businesses (like green/environmental), cigar shops, automotive shops, eye doctors, and on and on. I love people, well, smart people, who really have their lives together I love, and those that don't sometimes I love too, but I don't like stupid people all that much. I can't stand dumb drivers, or beggars, or retards (not real ones just those who choose to act like it), Wal-mart people (not the people who work there necessarily) make me vomit.

I guess, I'm happy to know who I am, and to know that I'm honest and accountable to myself. I realize that no one cares about me except me in the end. It's a lonely feeling, but I do believe in God. If I didn't, then it'd be a Really lonely feeling. I guess all this is where my power originates, being true to myself almost all of the time I walk this Earth.

It also helps to have people who walk your walk with you, who know EXACTLY what you go through each and every day. It's a constant and never-ending support network. That's SO invaluable, and I feel so lucky to be apart of it. Through all weather, through all trials, we've lived similarly, and we've came out on the other side.

Once again, women will disrespect us eventually, even when we get to reach 80+ yrs old, my grandparents' fighting being the case study in observation. It makes you feel small when you know that a woman you've slept with numerous times is beginning to think less of you Just Because of "Familiarity breeds contempt." But they are weaker. What can we expect? Hardly any of them are loyal? Hardly any of them strike something negative about you out of their minds for the sake of the relationship. Hardly any of them will not hold grudges because of something you said or did. They'll hang on to it and use it as an excuse to end the relationship which was once so beautiful.

 

[Packers2010]

sounds like you have a sick life man.

i do miss having someone to cuddle up with at night. but sometimes i just don't think she was worth all the hassle she put me threw. i mean. she owned me. in every way. next time when i see her. things are going to be different a lot different!

 

[DonGorgon]

having many quality sexual options in women is the ultimate male success cause thats what 99% of men want but cant have....