The relationship between sex and marriage - from Hef himself

[MatureDJ]

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1871903,00.html

I've been married twice, and the only time I wasn't having a lot of sex was when I was married.

:woo:

 

[Mr. Me]

The article is a good piece of self-promotion. Insofar as the link between sex and marriage, apparently even Hef himself doesn't know how to keep a relationship decently hot. Doesn't mean it can't be done.

He gets dumped by women. He also keeps in touch with exes. They LJBF him. He gets used by 20-something bimbos like that what's-her-name he was keeping in style at the mansion and it turns out she was cheating on him (recall when she was interviewed about that, admitting she cheated on him in a national article and said, "I didn't mean to hurt him" uh huh, uh huh). I'll bet he's still friends with her though. Props to him for Playboy and changing the face of America, but you have to ask, what else doesn't he know?

 

[piranha45]

That's probably the case, but I also figure it is in large part due to the fact that he's just plain old; withered body, weak in bed... the starlets just can't stand it. He doesn't get women by virture of being a desirable man, he gets his women through money alone. "Do you want to be in the magazine? Then be in my bedroom at 8 pm".

At least, that's how I'd run things.

 

[TheLadiesMan]

i was married for 12yrs and had sex everyday, and it was the best sex i've ever had.... up until 3 years ago that is.

 

[Mr. Me]

I also figure it is in large part due to the fact that he's just plain old; withered body, weak in bed... the starlets just can't stand it. He doesn't get women by virture of being a desirable man, he gets his women through money alone.

Of course he's gotten, and still gets (to his surprise), women through his celebrity status, no DOUBT about it. But his AFCism can be seen all the way back to when he was creating Playboy magazine. Keep in mind this guy was promoting a life style where what made you the cool guy were things like your detailed knowledge of which hifi system delivered the best sound and knowing about the key players in college football and which Miles Davis record was coming out that month. Nothing about being a real man. And when it came to how to handle women, the Playboy Adviser made up a lot of stories to keep horny readers entertained. He's a product of his celebrity.