You got her number. Damn, playa. Now what to do?
Most girls will get excited if she gets a potential bf in the beginning of the year. In this point, she may want you to call sooner than later
Why? Most girls will feel better if they start off the year with a fresh new boyfriend.
However when unsure, wait three days. 5 is recommended by many but its too risky for me. Call her up. Don't get into hour long conversations. Girls want this to happen but they secretly like the man that just talks to them for 5 minutes: talk a little bit about fluff and then a setup for a date.
DO NOT take her to dinner
A lot of teen guys are really inexperienced. Sure, I mean, if they are 14 or 15, how the hell can you expect someone to go bowling or go mini golfing instead. You should always have cash but I personally would carry $20 in money outside the cost of bowling. In most places where I'm at, a game of bowling (about an hour or so of fun) is about $10 per person (counting shoe rental) So $40 or so is a good number.
To pay or not to pay is the question. A good way to figure out is when the clerk asks for the money, see what she does. If you see her about to unzip her purse, let her pay. Otherwise, you pay. I know its not the DJ thing to do but again, $3 on nachos is a hell of a lot better than a 7 course $50 Filet Mignon dinner at the most expensive restaurant, a place most inexperienced people go to.
Don't be afraid to have fun. Kino is essential. It means you are interested in her and having fun. If she touches you in any way, even if it appears accidental, she is interested. Laugh a lot. Smile. Bust her chops if she messes up. You get a gutterball...laugh about it. If she makes a gutterball, joke about it. If you don't have a serious tone, she will play along.
I think Bowling and Mini golf are the two best ways. However both last about 1 hour or a little more. Get something quick to eat. Hmm...should it last longer? Depends. If you got to the alley or the course before 8:30 or so, yeah find something to do. I recommend picking her up at 8 pm. If you feel that the vibe is good, try to see if there are any clubs to have fun with. Yes, one thing I've noticed is a growth in teen clubs that are basically juice bars. Its a good time for more kino (dancing), some good music (music, good music, namely pop, r&b, and r&b/rap are always good music and relaxes you as opposed to hard rock), and a good way to blow 1-2 hours. Don't even worry about paying for drinks. If not, you still got about $10-15 on maybe a glass of juice.
At the end, if everything goes well, move in for the kiss. When I mean everything goes well, I mean kino paid off, you had fun, and she smiles at you but gazes into your eyes. Kiss her. Don't jam your tongue down her throat or you will creep her out for being too strong which means you are too desperate.
I thought it went well...the aftermath
If she has your number, you may call her. A lot of girls in HS expect a call within a day or two. If it was a Friday date, call Sunday. If it was a Saturday date, call Sunday. Tell how much of a good time you had. Establish more rapport. Should you spring for another date? Yeah but don't have it on Monday. Tuesday is a free day I asked that you should have on 102. Thats a decent enough day. However it may seem close. Then again, most girls themselves aren't as developed (mentally as well as physically) and if it went well, Monday may seem too far for her.
However don't start clearing your schedule other than 1-2 days a week for her which would be Tuesday and either Friday or Saturday. You are too busy on the other days to really worry about her. It will keep you on a good note. During class, don't flock to her. In fact, this is the point where are aloof to her. Talk to your friends and teachers and maybe a couple girls. Interest in her will shoot high.
Most girls will get excited if she gets a potential bf in the beginning of the year. In this point, she may want you to call sooner than later
Why? Most girls will feel better if they start off the year with a fresh new boyfriend.
However when unsure, wait three days. 5 is recommended by many but its too risky for me. Call her up. Don't get into hour long conversations. Girls want this to happen but they secretly like the man that just talks to them for 5 minutes: talk a little bit about fluff and then a setup for a date.
DO NOT take her to dinner
A lot of teen guys are really inexperienced. Sure, I mean, if they are 14 or 15, how the hell can you expect someone to go bowling or go mini golfing instead. You should always have cash but I personally would carry $20 in money outside the cost of bowling. In most places where I'm at, a game of bowling (about an hour or so of fun) is about $10 per person (counting shoe rental) So $40 or so is a good number.
To pay or not to pay is the question. A good way to figure out is when the clerk asks for the money, see what she does. If you see her about to unzip her purse, let her pay. Otherwise, you pay. I know its not the DJ thing to do but again, $3 on nachos is a hell of a lot better than a 7 course $50 Filet Mignon dinner at the most expensive restaurant, a place most inexperienced people go to.
Don't be afraid to have fun. Kino is essential. It means you are interested in her and having fun. If she touches you in any way, even if it appears accidental, she is interested. Laugh a lot. Smile. Bust her chops if she messes up. You get a gutterball...laugh about it. If she makes a gutterball, joke about it. If you don't have a serious tone, she will play along.
I think Bowling and Mini golf are the two best ways. However both last about 1 hour or a little more. Get something quick to eat. Hmm...should it last longer? Depends. If you got to the alley or the course before 8:30 or so, yeah find something to do. I recommend picking her up at 8 pm. If you feel that the vibe is good, try to see if there are any clubs to have fun with. Yes, one thing I've noticed is a growth in teen clubs that are basically juice bars. Its a good time for more kino (dancing), some good music (music, good music, namely pop, r&b, and r&b/rap are always good music and relaxes you as opposed to hard rock), and a good way to blow 1-2 hours. Don't even worry about paying for drinks. If not, you still got about $10-15 on maybe a glass of juice.
At the end, if everything goes well, move in for the kiss. When I mean everything goes well, I mean kino paid off, you had fun, and she smiles at you but gazes into your eyes. Kiss her. Don't jam your tongue down her throat or you will creep her out for being too strong which means you are too desperate.
I thought it went well...the aftermath
If she has your number, you may call her. A lot of girls in HS expect a call within a day or two. If it was a Friday date, call Sunday. If it was a Saturday date, call Sunday. Tell how much of a good time you had. Establish more rapport. Should you spring for another date? Yeah but don't have it on Monday. Tuesday is a free day I asked that you should have on 102. Thats a decent enough day. However it may seem close. Then again, most girls themselves aren't as developed (mentally as well as physically) and if it went well, Monday may seem too far for her.
However don't start clearing your schedule other than 1-2 days a week for her which would be Tuesday and either Friday or Saturday. You are too busy on the other days to really worry about her. It will keep you on a good note. During class, don't flock to her. In fact, this is the point where are aloof to her. Talk to your friends and teachers and maybe a couple girls. Interest in her will shoot high.
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