91redrotary
Don Juan
Just alittle question I wanted to ask all my fellow djs. I recently did a life eveluation and came to the conclusion that my dj skills were learned over time. I'm a very tall attractive guy and I never really statrted seeing my potential until my early 20's. Growing up I was always taught to be the one to always avoid conflict, do what is told, and be generally nice to people. Throug out my teen years I was pretty popular in school and knew alot of people. The only thing was, was that I wasn't getting laid or getting any dates. I came to realise over those years that alot of my afc ness came from my surronding enviornment.
My father I would say is the greatest guy in the world. Responsible, considerate, respectful and generous. Good but his main problem is that with all those good qualities he's a people pleaser and never stands up to my mother. My mother not a ***** or anything but she's gets out of line and still sometimes do. And every single time he sits there and takes it like a chump. Your right hunny I'm sorry is what he mainly says. I'm like WTF!!!!!! My mother is a teacher and sometimes she speaks to him like he's a ****ing student. She really needs to be put in her place sometimes. And now that I think about it I NEVER heard him tell my mother no.
So basically all I'm saying is, is that you are definetly a product of your environment and it should be your responsibility to take the proper action. I took my fathers mistakes and made it work to my advantage.
So tell me, are your skills learned, or natural. Lets keep it real here now.
My father I would say is the greatest guy in the world. Responsible, considerate, respectful and generous. Good but his main problem is that with all those good qualities he's a people pleaser and never stands up to my mother. My mother not a ***** or anything but she's gets out of line and still sometimes do. And every single time he sits there and takes it like a chump. Your right hunny I'm sorry is what he mainly says. I'm like WTF!!!!!! My mother is a teacher and sometimes she speaks to him like he's a ****ing student. She really needs to be put in her place sometimes. And now that I think about it I NEVER heard him tell my mother no.
So basically all I'm saying is, is that you are definetly a product of your environment and it should be your responsibility to take the proper action. I took my fathers mistakes and made it work to my advantage.
So tell me, are your skills learned, or natural. Lets keep it real here now.
