I see that you're a new member - welcome to the forum bud.
In response to your topic, well, I'm pretty sure I know that you know that it's not true. If something has happened to make you discouraged and take a binary outlook on things (can't get a girl without a girl vs. getting girls is easy when I have a girl, no middle ground), chin up, it'll pass. Be rational.
Preselection certainly helps, but you don't by any means NEED to be knee deep in women to have success. You demonstrate through your actions that you are a man capable of attracting women. How to be that man is a whole 'nother story - what this forum revolves around in fact (Read the DJ Bible).