Mr. Non-Juan
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The NON-JUAN Post: Teaching Men to Be Better With Women... by Showing How to LOSE Them!
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Greetings, readers! My name is Mr. Non-Juan! Thank you for reading this post!
ATTENTION!! ATTENTION!! ATTENTION!!
"Mr. Non-Juan's VALENTINE'S DAY SPECIAL" is going on RIGHT NOW!!
Yeah, I know, Valentine's Day is 3 WEEKS away... that gives you plenty of time to find out what it is you're doing wrong with women!!
My book - "From PIMP to WIMP: The Non-Juan's Guide... to LOSING the Girl of Your Dreams" - is ON SALE this week for 50% OFF!!
You can read the First THREE Chapters of my book for FREE right now, and learn more about this week's Valentine's Day Special by heading over to:
www.nonjuan.blogspot.com!!
BUT HURRY!! This offer ends on Thursday, January 26, 2006!!
Oh yeah - The book now comes in both HARD-COVER and e-BOOK form! Woo-hoo!
www.myspace.com/nonjuan - Post comments about Mr. Non-Juan, and learn about upcoming promotions!
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Today's topic...
DEALING WITH HER RUDE BEHAVIOR
When you do this thing called "dating," you end up meeting all types of different girls with different personalities.
Some of the girls you meet are quite cheerful, while others may not be upbeat, but they know how to treat a man with respect and make up for her enthusiasm shortcomings in "other ways" if you know what I mean. (And if you're a Non-Juan, you should definately NOT know what I mean
)
Some girls, however, are just plain RUDE. Some have parents who didn't teach them how to act when out on a date, while some focus too much on what THEY want without worrying about what's going to annoy or irritate the guy they're out with.
Other girls use rude behavior as a means to test whether or not the guy they're out with has the guts to stand up to her. As I've said before, women can't just come out and ask a guy if he'll stand up for himself - every guy she asked would say "yes," and most of them would be lying. So sometimes she'll act rude to see if what you're saying is true.
Regardless of why a girl is acting this way, when her rude behavior rears its ugly head, what should you do? Do you: (a) let her get away with it, or (b) call her on it, and tell her to be nicer or else you're out of there?
If you're a Non-Juan, the answer is: (a) let her get away with it!
Anytime a girl starts acting rude, never EVER call her on it and tell her to be nicer! Who are you to start acting like a REAL MAN and telling her what kind of attitude and behaviors you will or won't accept?? If you do that, she might actually STOP doing that behavior, and see you as a man who takes charge! And as we all know, women tend to fall for guys who demonstrate this "take charge" attitude! How pathetic is that?!?
No, no, no! Instead, you must let her walk all over you with her rude behavior! When you see her doing something or acting in a way that you don't like, DO NOT SAY ANYTHING TO HER ABOUT IT! As long as she thinks her behavior is okay, she'll continue to treat you like crap while she pursues other men who can put her in her place! :rockon:
Here are some examples of rude behavior a girl may display, and how to react when she does them:
EXAMPLE 1: You're out with a girl, and you're having a conversation, when you hear her cell phone ring. Rather than cut her phone off, she picks it up and starts chatting with the person on the other end.
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: Let her keep talking on the phone, duh! The person on the other end MUST be more exciting to talk to than you - otherwise, she wouldn't have had her phone on in the first place for someone to interrupt! You can encourage her to stay on the phone by yelling a "hi" to the person on the phone - this will further confirm to her that this behavior is okay with you!
EXAMPLE 2: She tells you to call her on Tuesday at 3 PM. When you call, she doesn't pick up. You leave a message telling her to call you later. She doesn't call you that day. Or the next. Or the next. Or the next...
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: Don't give up on calling her! Instead, call her every day and leave a message for her. This will give her the impression that you're obsessed with her - good news for her, as she will know she has complete control over your feelings for her. She'll give you a sense of false hope next time she sees you - "Oh, my answering service must have been messed up" (funny, since you both have the same service) - and when she does, use that as your green light to keep calling her. She won't pick up the phone, but you'll be providing her with a set of voice messages she can play for her girlfriends to show them how much of a Non-Juan you TRULY are!
EXAMPLE 3: You tell a girl you're going to take her to a classy restaurant. You show up to her door dressed in your best-looking suit... and she opens the door dressed in a belly shirt and tight jeans. "Let's go!" she says.
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: Do NOT tell her to put something else on! Sure, she knew the restaurant was upscale, but remember: this could be a test to see if you'll call her on her misjudgment of outfits. If you tell her to change into something more appropriate, she might think you're - GASP - a "take-no-crap" kinda guy! Instead, let her wear her hoochie outfit to the restaurant, and keep your trap shut!
"Hold it, Mr. Non-Juan! Why would she care if I said something about her outfit or not? Won't letting her wear what she wants make me seem like a guy who's non-judgmental of her personal tastes are?"
Yes - and it will also show that you'd be willing to make your woman look like a moron in public! Think about it: in this scenario, if you let her wear that outfit to the restaurant, you might think "well, there's no way she's going to drop me now - I let her wear what she wanted, and didn't put up a fuss!" However, SHE'LL be thinking "I can't believe he let me wear this out to a fancy restaurant and embarrass myself! There's no way I'm going to keep HIM around!"
So remember: if you don't want a girl to date you, don't call her out on her rude behavior. Let her walk all over you with her high-heels until the trace of your Non-Juan residue can be seen on her shoe soles!
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Thus concludes this edition of "The NON-JUAN Newsletter!" If you have any comments, stories, or dating questions you'd like answered Non-Juan style, write to me at NONJUAN@HOTMAIL.COM!!
That's all for now, guys!! See ya next week!
-Mr. Non-Juan
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Greetings, readers! My name is Mr. Non-Juan! Thank you for reading this post!
ATTENTION!! ATTENTION!! ATTENTION!!
"Mr. Non-Juan's VALENTINE'S DAY SPECIAL" is going on RIGHT NOW!!
Yeah, I know, Valentine's Day is 3 WEEKS away... that gives you plenty of time to find out what it is you're doing wrong with women!!
My book - "From PIMP to WIMP: The Non-Juan's Guide... to LOSING the Girl of Your Dreams" - is ON SALE this week for 50% OFF!!
You can read the First THREE Chapters of my book for FREE right now, and learn more about this week's Valentine's Day Special by heading over to:
www.nonjuan.blogspot.com!!
BUT HURRY!! This offer ends on Thursday, January 26, 2006!!
Oh yeah - The book now comes in both HARD-COVER and e-BOOK form! Woo-hoo!
www.myspace.com/nonjuan - Post comments about Mr. Non-Juan, and learn about upcoming promotions!
-------------------------------------------
Today's topic...
DEALING WITH HER RUDE BEHAVIOR
When you do this thing called "dating," you end up meeting all types of different girls with different personalities.
Some of the girls you meet are quite cheerful, while others may not be upbeat, but they know how to treat a man with respect and make up for her enthusiasm shortcomings in "other ways" if you know what I mean. (And if you're a Non-Juan, you should definately NOT know what I mean
)Some girls, however, are just plain RUDE. Some have parents who didn't teach them how to act when out on a date, while some focus too much on what THEY want without worrying about what's going to annoy or irritate the guy they're out with.
Other girls use rude behavior as a means to test whether or not the guy they're out with has the guts to stand up to her. As I've said before, women can't just come out and ask a guy if he'll stand up for himself - every guy she asked would say "yes," and most of them would be lying. So sometimes she'll act rude to see if what you're saying is true.
Regardless of why a girl is acting this way, when her rude behavior rears its ugly head, what should you do? Do you: (a) let her get away with it, or (b) call her on it, and tell her to be nicer or else you're out of there?
If you're a Non-Juan, the answer is: (a) let her get away with it!
Anytime a girl starts acting rude, never EVER call her on it and tell her to be nicer! Who are you to start acting like a REAL MAN and telling her what kind of attitude and behaviors you will or won't accept?? If you do that, she might actually STOP doing that behavior, and see you as a man who takes charge! And as we all know, women tend to fall for guys who demonstrate this "take charge" attitude! How pathetic is that?!?
No, no, no! Instead, you must let her walk all over you with her rude behavior! When you see her doing something or acting in a way that you don't like, DO NOT SAY ANYTHING TO HER ABOUT IT! As long as she thinks her behavior is okay, she'll continue to treat you like crap while she pursues other men who can put her in her place! :rockon:
Here are some examples of rude behavior a girl may display, and how to react when she does them:
EXAMPLE 1: You're out with a girl, and you're having a conversation, when you hear her cell phone ring. Rather than cut her phone off, she picks it up and starts chatting with the person on the other end.
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: Let her keep talking on the phone, duh! The person on the other end MUST be more exciting to talk to than you - otherwise, she wouldn't have had her phone on in the first place for someone to interrupt! You can encourage her to stay on the phone by yelling a "hi" to the person on the phone - this will further confirm to her that this behavior is okay with you!
EXAMPLE 2: She tells you to call her on Tuesday at 3 PM. When you call, she doesn't pick up. You leave a message telling her to call you later. She doesn't call you that day. Or the next. Or the next. Or the next...
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: Don't give up on calling her! Instead, call her every day and leave a message for her. This will give her the impression that you're obsessed with her - good news for her, as she will know she has complete control over your feelings for her. She'll give you a sense of false hope next time she sees you - "Oh, my answering service must have been messed up" (funny, since you both have the same service) - and when she does, use that as your green light to keep calling her. She won't pick up the phone, but you'll be providing her with a set of voice messages she can play for her girlfriends to show them how much of a Non-Juan you TRULY are!
EXAMPLE 3: You tell a girl you're going to take her to a classy restaurant. You show up to her door dressed in your best-looking suit... and she opens the door dressed in a belly shirt and tight jeans. "Let's go!" she says.
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: Do NOT tell her to put something else on! Sure, she knew the restaurant was upscale, but remember: this could be a test to see if you'll call her on her misjudgment of outfits. If you tell her to change into something more appropriate, she might think you're - GASP - a "take-no-crap" kinda guy! Instead, let her wear her hoochie outfit to the restaurant, and keep your trap shut!
"Hold it, Mr. Non-Juan! Why would she care if I said something about her outfit or not? Won't letting her wear what she wants make me seem like a guy who's non-judgmental of her personal tastes are?"
Yes - and it will also show that you'd be willing to make your woman look like a moron in public! Think about it: in this scenario, if you let her wear that outfit to the restaurant, you might think "well, there's no way she's going to drop me now - I let her wear what she wanted, and didn't put up a fuss!" However, SHE'LL be thinking "I can't believe he let me wear this out to a fancy restaurant and embarrass myself! There's no way I'm going to keep HIM around!"
So remember: if you don't want a girl to date you, don't call her out on her rude behavior. Let her walk all over you with her high-heels until the trace of your Non-Juan residue can be seen on her shoe soles!
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Thus concludes this edition of "The NON-JUAN Newsletter!" If you have any comments, stories, or dating questions you'd like answered Non-Juan style, write to me at NONJUAN@HOTMAIL.COM!!
That's all for now, guys!! See ya next week!
-Mr. Non-Juan
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