The Nice Guy Dilemma Explained

[Pimply_Pimp]

What does the "nice guy" often complain about? The fact that he is so nice and can't believe women are rejecting him. But, you want to know what I have been observing? The nice guys ALWAYS go for the s.lutty/b.itchy type of woman.

Slutty b.itcheses are attracted more to the "bad boy" who has confidence. It should come as no surprise that the ones who reject the nice guys are the women who just need an ego boost of walking all over some chump.

How often do you see a "nice guy" trying to get with a "nice girl?" You don't see this too often. The nice guy complains because he is chasing after the women who treat him like dirt and have options. However, nice guys don't go after nice women for the same reason women don't go after nice guys - because they are BORING. Nice guys know nice girls are boring, this is why they don't try for them. They try for the hot slutty types and it's no wonder they say "women are scum and I'm giving up blah blah blah."

So, any time a nice guy wonders why women aren't attracted to him, he only has to look at himself and say "the same reason I'm not attracted to nice girls."

This also makes some "nice girls" complain about men. "Oh why can't I find a nice guy who will treat me right? I'm about to swear off men cause they are all dogs." But, this is BECAUSE the nice guy is chasing the b.itches. Of course these "nice girls" can't find a "nice guy" if the nice guys are always chasing after the s.luts. Now sometimes, of course you will see a nice guy with a nice girl but it is rare to find a girl interested in a nice guy and just as rare finding a guy interested in a nice girl. It happens, but not all the time.

So we have nice guys complaining they can't find women and nice girls complaining they can't get a man. Crazy, isn't it?

Who agrees with this?

 

[Strelok]

Nice guys wants the same girls we want,the attractive ones.
The attractive girls have choices so they reject guys who show no manly behaviour,because we agree that supplicating or seeking approval is not a manly thing.
Anyway most of nice guys are nice because they are trying to compensate for their low value,the problem is not being nice but being nothing outside of it.

Women who complain about men being dogs are just women who want men out of their league and get fvcked and dumped or completely ignored,in case it's an attractive woman to talk that means that he got tired of her high expectation and found a younger less b1tchy one.
Just imagine a career woman whos old and annoying that call some man dog because he picked a young cute nurse instead of her,she would love to have "that dog" but she can't and this fact burn her ego.
There is no nice guy dilemma,it's all about what you are and what you can get.

Women want high status men and men want attractive girls,afc wants the same girls we want and ugly girls want the same men that attractive ones want.

 

[Captain]

They aren't b!tches, they just act like it to him because he's just another guy who is coming up to them and worshiping them and giving away all his power.

 

[Pimply_Pimp]

They aren't b!tches, they just act like it to him because he's just another guy who is coming up to them and worshiping them and giving away all his power.

Cmon, you know the women out there who are loud, confident, voice their opinions, don't take crap from anyone are labeled "b.itches" while the "nice girls" are the ones that are all quiet and don't say much and aren't loud.

Basically a "b.itch" is the female equivalent of a male "jerk" and a nice girl is just like the nice guy.

I thought this was understood?

 

[Young Juan]

This is actually an interesting post and pretty on point from what I see. Everybody wants a bad azz b!tch w/ a fat booty that sucks d!ck and loves facials like a pornstar. Fact of the matter is, thats way too much woman for most nice guys to handle, if not all nice guys. A girl like that typically needs new d!ck like ziggans need new white girls, lol (I'm only saying that cuz I'm black and its damn funny to me, lol).

The happy nice guys I know are married/engaged to nice girls.

A trick of the trade many guys here miss is the fact that many nice girls that are 6.5/7's are fixer-uppers that with a little bit of guidance can be molded into 7.5 - 9's w/ an overall better personality and will be very loyal! (Field tested and observed)

We often forget that many 8s/9s are just 7's w/ nice clothes, good makeup, and (occasionally) a boob job.

 

[badboyjmm]

How often do you see a "nice guy" trying to get with a "nice girl?" You don't see this too often.

What do you mean by "nice girl" ? A female with same characteristics with a nice guy ?

If it's the case I disagree. There's plenty of nice guys going for nice girls. Problem is that the nice guy will be eager to be in a relation with the nice girl. The nice girl will be gentle enough not to blow him off harshly or play games... But she will bring up the IJWBF line anyway...

A nice girl (if she's decent) have more options than a nice guy any day

 

[Maxfarsigth]

The place I have seen comon for a nice guy to go for the HB10-9... is in MOVIES.
Also, I must say: there is a VERY FRECUENT case of nice guys going for nice girls in real life, and that is: marriages gone bad with the girl hatting the guy and the guy begging.

To me -so far- MOST GIRLS want d!ck and rough sex. GOOD GIRLS are smart, have confidence, are hot and pretty and want d!ck and sex. And B!TCHES are crazy girls with some sort of physical or mental problem, and no GOOD GUY wants em.

 

[TIC]

What does the "nice guy" often complain about? The fact that he is so nice and can't believe women are rejecting him. But, you want to know what I have been observing? The nice guys ALWAYS go for the s.lutty/b.itchy type of woman.

I call BS on this. Whether the girl is shy, "nice", cute, fat, ugly, they all go for the top 10-20% of men which is these bad boys.

You are pretending that women vary. Not really. They all pretty much act the same and want the same guy that the other girls want. It doesn't matter if a nice guy chases a cute reserved girl, he will still be shot down and/or just used for money

 

[Warrior74]

I call BS on this. Whether the girl is shy, "nice", cute, fat, ugly, they all go for the top 10-20% of men which is these bad boys.

You are pretending that women vary. Not really. They all pretty much act the same and want the same guy that the other girls want. It doesn't matter if a nice guy chases a cute reserved girl, he will still be shot down and/or just used for money

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/08/27/the-limits-on-hypergamy/

 

[Maxtro]

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/08/27/the-limits-on-hypergamy/

In real life what we see are homely girls giving hypergamy the ol’ college try until their options, and their ability to stoically endure continual pump and dumps, are exhausted. This often plays out in practice with the widely observed phenomenon of urbanized 4s, 5s, and 6s suffering a series of humiliating short term flings with men well above their level during their 20s, followed by a grudging acceptance of the utility of settling for the boring beta male in their later 20s and 30s.

So even the 4s,5s, and 6s want men out of their league. And because they still have a pussy, they still get him, although for only a short time.

Getting back to the nice guy concept.

I have never pursued girls that were slutty or bitchy. All of the girls I went after were very nice to me. They were all at least cute.

 

[comic_relief]

nice guys generally overcompensate their lack of attractive attributes because that is all they got.

When I was a nice guy, I was going after one of the nicest girls. I got burned bad by her friends. I still consider her one of those very nice girls. Don't know what happened to her.

- comic_relief