The Next Step.

[SlyD4rK]

Hey guys,

I've been refineing my skills with the ladies for quite some time now, and i've got it to the point where i can walk up to nearly any women and get her number and a date and keep her interested...blah blah blah...you know the deal.

well, it seems as if once things start to get physical...or are about to get physical (depends on the girl) ..i seem to go back into AFC mode. Not being able to control myself and how bad i want it (no im not raping the girl...just picture an AFC trying to get some) after the first wind or whatever...i just push for more..and she knows i want it..and teases me with it...eventually she knows her power and eventually becomes uninterested with me. this has happened a few times lately

any help here?

 

[Distant Light]

lmao, I have the same sticking points, I have a tendency to rub on a girls breast, dry humping, or rubbing her ass. Its like a big sexual urge that by pass me where we I just have to fuvk her there and now.

What I've started doing, thx to bradp and A2damir, I basically give a sexual SOI, if you want to call it that. (I'll give u an example in a min) Another way is try to overcome these urges, by not showing her that your that horny for her.

But some examples that I'm talking about that tend to turn girls on a bit is, usually after I've got some type of interest, maybe kissed her a bit or maybe not.

Examples
- She is sitting on your lap and let her stand up you stand up and just stand there, if she asks what happen, tell her you was starting to get hard.
- Telling her she got you so turned on that you have to go into the bathroom and jerk off, to release some tension
- If you was being real dominant from the start then, start kissing and then start being more agressive, and try to get into isolation


Ya either try those examples, or just try to overcome it because I know exactly how you feel, I even sometimes take there hand and put it on my **** to show them how hard the made me. Even though I only this this at the right time because it can also backfire.

 

[Ace of Flames]

I was with a girl that worked the opposite of this. I was controlling myself, because we were just kissing, barely even making out. Then she got up and she's all mad cuz I didn't have a raging boner for her. WTF? We didn't even take any clothes off yet. I'm sorry I don't get horny just from a few kisses? You need to go a little farther than that, babe.

Whatever. Just remember this story one day. Some girls are freaky like that, and WANT you to get super horny for them. Makes them feel sexy, I guess.