The neglected art of a classy compliment

[Matt Rogers]

Something that is neglected a lot on this site is that a rare and well-timed compliment delivered in a confident and charming manner can work miracles. The secret to a good compliment is that it shows you have noticed her and pay attention to her.

All girls no matter how pretty are slightly insecure and love to be complimented. Where most men get it wrong is they give too many compliments and make them insincere or wussy compliments. What you want to do is give one or two red-blooded compliments each date. Also change the subject immediately-do not wait for her to say thank you. She heard!!

For example:

If you find out she did well in a test or something use the:
"God, you are clever...and beautiful" line. It really works. Apparantely Hugh Grant used to use it.

"You are looking especially pretty tonight" for example when you collect her for a date.

"I like your new hairstyle it really suits you"

"So how does it feel to be the prettiest girl on the dancefloor" Corny I know, but when not used as a chat up line (as in you have already been dating the girl a while, it really works)

 

[Luscious]

Absolutely correct.
I find that a compliment here and there can get them hooked pretty easily.
Bump 'er up to the top.

 

[kel]

When used sparingly, this stuff is great. I noticed that my natural DJ friend is a master of this. Making a girl feel so good, and associating the feeling with you, is so powerful. Just use it sparingly and with the right attitude and its 100% not AFC

 

[AFK Protector]

 

[diplomatic_lie]

I've found that compliments which deal with things she can control (ie. how good she looks while on a date, her clothing, etc) work better than stuff she can't control ("you've got such big tits!").

And I definitely agree with you - most guys on this board seem to think any kind of compliment is "AFC", but they're forgetting that its only a loser move because they do it too much.

 

[Bonhomme]

Yes, good point.

Compliments are like spice in food. Just the right amount of the right kind makes for a tasty treat, but too much can burn your guts out and give you the sh1ts.

El bumpo.

 

[jakethasnake]

I do this all the time.

 

[jonny football hero]

You post some good sh1t man.