Ok. Forget about all the nonsense that is spewed on this site and the PUA community on techniques designed to pick up women. Forget about peackocking, framing and all of the voodoo hokus pokus that is advanced by some.
For me at least its come to the least common denominator after experimenting with different techniques.
This is it:
1. Look for IOIs from the female. You must be adept in detecting, through a woman's body language, whether shes interested in you. Ive become an expert through trial an error and can with about 90% probability determine whether a chick digs me or not.
2. Once I determine her interest I ask 3 simple questions. They are:
a) Are you married? If she answers yes. Then stop there and proceed no futher. If she answers no then ask
b) Do you have a boyfriend? Same thing. If she answers yes. Then proceed no further. If no then TELL HER
c) Give me your number. I will call you so we can go out sometime. I then leave whatever venue Im in rather than stick around and overstay my welcome.
I then proceed to call within a couple of days.
This direct approach has been working like a charm. This past week Ive lined up dates with three women Ive met at the bank, the bookstore and at the supermarket.
Im not a believer in cold approaches. Before I approach, I have to get signals like good eye contact.
Once I have a sense of a females attraction I dont hesitate. I just dive in.
Will keep you guys posted on my new experiment but it seems to be working quite well.
For me at least its come to the least common denominator after experimenting with different techniques.
This is it:
1. Look for IOIs from the female. You must be adept in detecting, through a woman's body language, whether shes interested in you. Ive become an expert through trial an error and can with about 90% probability determine whether a chick digs me or not.
2. Once I determine her interest I ask 3 simple questions. They are:
a) Are you married? If she answers yes. Then stop there and proceed no futher. If she answers no then ask
b) Do you have a boyfriend? Same thing. If she answers yes. Then proceed no further. If no then TELL HER
c) Give me your number. I will call you so we can go out sometime. I then leave whatever venue Im in rather than stick around and overstay my welcome.
I then proceed to call within a couple of days.
This direct approach has been working like a charm. This past week Ive lined up dates with three women Ive met at the bank, the bookstore and at the supermarket.
Im not a believer in cold approaches. Before I approach, I have to get signals like good eye contact.
Once I have a sense of a females attraction I dont hesitate. I just dive in.
Will keep you guys posted on my new experiment but it seems to be working quite well.