pendaflex2003
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I think I have a weird problem..
I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now, and it is safe to so that I'm very much in love with her. Ok, on to the wierd part. I have a good female friend that I've know for about 4 years, and let's just call her "Jane". I care about Jane a lot, however, I find her getting on my nerves more than I like being around her. My female friend seems to think that my girlfriend is jelous of her. Now, my GF is THE most outspoken woman ever known to man kind; she does not hold back on anything, no matter what. If she was uncomfortable with my friendship with "Jane" I would hear about it, the neighbors would her about it, my doctor would hear about it, and even "Jane" would hear about it. I'm not sure what to do, because I find Jane very self centered and somhow she always turns things back to her. How can I get across to her that my GF is not jealous of her nor my friendship with her.
The reason it is such a problem for me, is because Jane loves to instigate little things when we are all around eachother. I.e. overly flirtatious with me, says little comments like " no body knows "john" as well as I do" and other stuff to "mark" her territory on me, sort to speak. All of this is done infront of my girlfriend, which to give her credit she does not react to. (I think she thinks of Jane as a joke or something) anway, I'm annoyed and I really can't approach my friend Jane because she won't take it seriously and she'll turn it into something else.
Any Suggestons?
I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now, and it is safe to so that I'm very much in love with her. Ok, on to the wierd part. I have a good female friend that I've know for about 4 years, and let's just call her "Jane". I care about Jane a lot, however, I find her getting on my nerves more than I like being around her. My female friend seems to think that my girlfriend is jelous of her. Now, my GF is THE most outspoken woman ever known to man kind; she does not hold back on anything, no matter what. If she was uncomfortable with my friendship with "Jane" I would hear about it, the neighbors would her about it, my doctor would hear about it, and even "Jane" would hear about it. I'm not sure what to do, because I find Jane very self centered and somhow she always turns things back to her. How can I get across to her that my GF is not jealous of her nor my friendship with her.
The reason it is such a problem for me, is because Jane loves to instigate little things when we are all around eachother. I.e. overly flirtatious with me, says little comments like " no body knows "john" as well as I do" and other stuff to "mark" her territory on me, sort to speak. All of this is done infront of my girlfriend, which to give her credit she does not react to. (I think she thinks of Jane as a joke or something) anway, I'm annoyed and I really can't approach my friend Jane because she won't take it seriously and she'll turn it into something else.
Any Suggestons?
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