Hello. I noticed that in a way, this board is beginning to form a renaissance. People now are growing tired of the typical topics posted and want something new, something with substance. In a way, a lot of what has been discussed is often recycled based off some very simple concepts, like men. We may be complex intellectually but our behaviors are as simple as women.
The Man - Dissected
Sometime a few days ago I felt some inspiration. Not sure what from, it may have been during a sleepless night. Anyway, I was often curious to see how men from all shapes and forms act as well as the social pressures applied to us. Women often whine about how they are pressured to wear makeup, be thin, etc. and assume that men have absolutely no problems in life. Yet every second of our lives is a continual challenge by society.
In our early childhood, we received a smattering of miscellaneous themes to basically carve our lives out of. We were supposed to get amazing grades, be athletic, go to college, get a nice job, and raise a family.
As little kids, we were told that this was the correct way of life. See, even as little kids we were taught to basically "settle" or just live into society's mold and basically live a generally meaningless life.
Yet at the same time, society worships the rebels. People like Eminem who basically threw up a choice finger at the world and had some words to say. He didn't really give a damn about what people really thought of him, he was a man with a message and wouldn't let society or its appendages to hold him down.
Yet he is not spat on but embraced.
Why is this?
Society is one of the biggest farces and biggest hypocritical structures in the history of mankind.
I felt I needed to bold that because it was really true. In fact, if anyone is to read this, I want them to be able to remember this. Think about it. We are taught to settle, yet we embrace those that step outside of society's malevolant conformity. Think about it. The American patriots are an example. Mostly embraced figures are in entertainment because they give the people what they want. What is that?
Escape.
I admit it. I despise most of my classes. When I pop in a CD, I escape reality to an extent. When there is a song I really like, nothing else really matters. Yes, media is really this influential. Maybe not as much as some want us to believe, yet its also more than what some others want to believe.
The man essentially is molded by society. A lot of people here talk about men climbing rocks, jumping off planes, and doing what he wants to do. Yet this is not men. These are anti-conformists.
Men today are shaped by women. Somewhere that is unknown we were taught that the prized pink flesh between a woman's legs is the key to the universe. You can have no money, be a crackhead, but if you are getting laid, you are made. Those who don't get laid are often called losers that can't get laid not because they chose not to but because they are unable.
I had a friend who was a complete loser in life. He was a drunk, he took drugs at least once a day, barely showed up to class, yet thought he is the Supreme Don Juan because he was laying a different girl every week. This changed when he committed suicide October 2002. I'm not badmouthing him as this was the plain-as-day truth. I liked him and he liked me. Yet he was a fool in life. He was envied by almost every man (including me) for basically being a top notch athlete, nailed beautiful girls, yet he killed himself.
Men at my school shaped their lives on him but he killed himself.
Men essentially nowadays are so smitten by women that women have taken advantage of this power and have crushed manhood with an iron fist. I don't blame them. Hell, I'll commend them. Why? They were given the power and they not only accepted it, they enforced it. Nowadays every woman thats not the scourge of the earth in terms of looks ultimately has an inflated ego and expects the world out of men, offering nothing but their pink fleshy unmentionables.
This can be evidenced by the huge swarm of sitcoms that enforce this type of behavior. No matter what, the woman is ultimately the superior gender because of what she can do.
The men of old are passing by and replaced by a softer male.
I almost refuse to call this onslaught of people, "men." They are nothing but males due to the gentals given to him at birth. The Lord above has blessed us with a tool to pleasure women, hormones to conquer the world, and logic to reshape and make the world evolve. Yet this is often being wasted on men that want to do nothing more than to chase after girls and achieve absolutely nothing.
The softer male really doesn't care what his brain can do as long as he can f*ck and drink beer, he is fine. Yet, they don't get action. One of my friends brags all the time about how he has a girlfriend yet does nothing to her. When she was drunk, she actually gave me a lap dance when he was gone. She wanted more but I didn't for obvious reasons. He feels so smug with his position that he wants nothing more in life. He has the girl, he's not broke, so thats all he needs.
The softer male worships the ground that females walk on. Instead of embracing their masculinity, they feel restricted around women. They feel they have to completely woo her and when they do, its unfortunately always the usual stuff of paying for her dinners, kissing her ass, defending her against men. Yet she disowns the softer male and goes to the man.
Why do men live these ultimately empty lives?
Again, society is a beast. Its unconquerable, its almost omnipotent, and has a thick barrier protecting it. Right now, while I've been writing a short story, I was interrupted by floods of ambitionless worms calling me names because instead of killing millions of brain cells by getting wasted and drunk knocking on girls' doors, I am furthering myself and the understanding of the world.
I have been shackled by society...hell, we all have. We have been taught to call girls "the better half", we have been taught to supplicate as a reflex, and that the key to a happy life is to settle and grow stagnant.
Why do you see so many people becoming alcoholics or drug abusers? Its easy to see lower class groups but its difficult to see upper class. After knowing many rich people, many of them are so unhappy that they crave and desire substances. A friend of mine's dad makes $400,000 a year. Yet he is an alcoholic, smokes weed at least three times a week, and has been known to snort some cocaine.
What a life.
After being with a few attractive girls and going to their parties, their lives are utterly useless. Its not their fault, the men are doing the same thing. Girls no longer are in relationships with just one man, she is in a relationship with society. Men are expendable to today's woman. She must be kept intact by her nest egg that is her social group or what I like to call LFN (Local Female Network) She is as unhappy and resentful as today's soft male. She puts on a fake smile, wears skimpy clothes, and bases her whole life on sexuality. She is nothing without the pursuit of men.
Too much of anything is a bad thing and after getting hit on by literally thousands of men, her ego now exceeds her body. She now expects a flood of men to cater to her whims.
The Man - Dissected
Sometime a few days ago I felt some inspiration. Not sure what from, it may have been during a sleepless night. Anyway, I was often curious to see how men from all shapes and forms act as well as the social pressures applied to us. Women often whine about how they are pressured to wear makeup, be thin, etc. and assume that men have absolutely no problems in life. Yet every second of our lives is a continual challenge by society.
In our early childhood, we received a smattering of miscellaneous themes to basically carve our lives out of. We were supposed to get amazing grades, be athletic, go to college, get a nice job, and raise a family.
As little kids, we were told that this was the correct way of life. See, even as little kids we were taught to basically "settle" or just live into society's mold and basically live a generally meaningless life.
Yet at the same time, society worships the rebels. People like Eminem who basically threw up a choice finger at the world and had some words to say. He didn't really give a damn about what people really thought of him, he was a man with a message and wouldn't let society or its appendages to hold him down.
Yet he is not spat on but embraced.
Why is this?
Society is one of the biggest farces and biggest hypocritical structures in the history of mankind.
I felt I needed to bold that because it was really true. In fact, if anyone is to read this, I want them to be able to remember this. Think about it. We are taught to settle, yet we embrace those that step outside of society's malevolant conformity. Think about it. The American patriots are an example. Mostly embraced figures are in entertainment because they give the people what they want. What is that?
Escape.
I admit it. I despise most of my classes. When I pop in a CD, I escape reality to an extent. When there is a song I really like, nothing else really matters. Yes, media is really this influential. Maybe not as much as some want us to believe, yet its also more than what some others want to believe.
The man essentially is molded by society. A lot of people here talk about men climbing rocks, jumping off planes, and doing what he wants to do. Yet this is not men. These are anti-conformists.
Men today are shaped by women. Somewhere that is unknown we were taught that the prized pink flesh between a woman's legs is the key to the universe. You can have no money, be a crackhead, but if you are getting laid, you are made. Those who don't get laid are often called losers that can't get laid not because they chose not to but because they are unable.
I had a friend who was a complete loser in life. He was a drunk, he took drugs at least once a day, barely showed up to class, yet thought he is the Supreme Don Juan because he was laying a different girl every week. This changed when he committed suicide October 2002. I'm not badmouthing him as this was the plain-as-day truth. I liked him and he liked me. Yet he was a fool in life. He was envied by almost every man (including me) for basically being a top notch athlete, nailed beautiful girls, yet he killed himself.
Men at my school shaped their lives on him but he killed himself.
Men essentially nowadays are so smitten by women that women have taken advantage of this power and have crushed manhood with an iron fist. I don't blame them. Hell, I'll commend them. Why? They were given the power and they not only accepted it, they enforced it. Nowadays every woman thats not the scourge of the earth in terms of looks ultimately has an inflated ego and expects the world out of men, offering nothing but their pink fleshy unmentionables.
This can be evidenced by the huge swarm of sitcoms that enforce this type of behavior. No matter what, the woman is ultimately the superior gender because of what she can do.
The men of old are passing by and replaced by a softer male.
I almost refuse to call this onslaught of people, "men." They are nothing but males due to the gentals given to him at birth. The Lord above has blessed us with a tool to pleasure women, hormones to conquer the world, and logic to reshape and make the world evolve. Yet this is often being wasted on men that want to do nothing more than to chase after girls and achieve absolutely nothing.
The softer male really doesn't care what his brain can do as long as he can f*ck and drink beer, he is fine. Yet, they don't get action. One of my friends brags all the time about how he has a girlfriend yet does nothing to her. When she was drunk, she actually gave me a lap dance when he was gone. She wanted more but I didn't for obvious reasons. He feels so smug with his position that he wants nothing more in life. He has the girl, he's not broke, so thats all he needs.
The softer male worships the ground that females walk on. Instead of embracing their masculinity, they feel restricted around women. They feel they have to completely woo her and when they do, its unfortunately always the usual stuff of paying for her dinners, kissing her ass, defending her against men. Yet she disowns the softer male and goes to the man.
Why do men live these ultimately empty lives?
Again, society is a beast. Its unconquerable, its almost omnipotent, and has a thick barrier protecting it. Right now, while I've been writing a short story, I was interrupted by floods of ambitionless worms calling me names because instead of killing millions of brain cells by getting wasted and drunk knocking on girls' doors, I am furthering myself and the understanding of the world.
I have been shackled by society...hell, we all have. We have been taught to call girls "the better half", we have been taught to supplicate as a reflex, and that the key to a happy life is to settle and grow stagnant.
Why do you see so many people becoming alcoholics or drug abusers? Its easy to see lower class groups but its difficult to see upper class. After knowing many rich people, many of them are so unhappy that they crave and desire substances. A friend of mine's dad makes $400,000 a year. Yet he is an alcoholic, smokes weed at least three times a week, and has been known to snort some cocaine.
What a life.
After being with a few attractive girls and going to their parties, their lives are utterly useless. Its not their fault, the men are doing the same thing. Girls no longer are in relationships with just one man, she is in a relationship with society. Men are expendable to today's woman. She must be kept intact by her nest egg that is her social group or what I like to call LFN (Local Female Network) She is as unhappy and resentful as today's soft male. She puts on a fake smile, wears skimpy clothes, and bases her whole life on sexuality. She is nothing without the pursuit of men.
Too much of anything is a bad thing and after getting hit on by literally thousands of men, her ego now exceeds her body. She now expects a flood of men to cater to her whims.