The Man - Dissected

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Hello. I noticed that in a way, this board is beginning to form a renaissance. People now are growing tired of the typical topics posted and want something new, something with substance. In a way, a lot of what has been discussed is often recycled based off some very simple concepts, like men. We may be complex intellectually but our behaviors are as simple as women.

The Man - Dissected

Sometime a few days ago I felt some inspiration. Not sure what from, it may have been during a sleepless night. Anyway, I was often curious to see how men from all shapes and forms act as well as the social pressures applied to us. Women often whine about how they are pressured to wear makeup, be thin, etc. and assume that men have absolutely no problems in life. Yet every second of our lives is a continual challenge by society.

In our early childhood, we received a smattering of miscellaneous themes to basically carve our lives out of. We were supposed to get amazing grades, be athletic, go to college, get a nice job, and raise a family.

As little kids, we were told that this was the correct way of life. See, even as little kids we were taught to basically "settle" or just live into society's mold and basically live a generally meaningless life.

Yet at the same time, society worships the rebels. People like Eminem who basically threw up a choice finger at the world and had some words to say. He didn't really give a damn about what people really thought of him, he was a man with a message and wouldn't let society or its appendages to hold him down.

Yet he is not spat on but embraced.

Why is this?

Society is one of the biggest farces and biggest hypocritical structures in the history of mankind.

I felt I needed to bold that because it was really true. In fact, if anyone is to read this, I want them to be able to remember this. Think about it. We are taught to settle, yet we embrace those that step outside of society's malevolant conformity. Think about it. The American patriots are an example. Mostly embraced figures are in entertainment because they give the people what they want. What is that?

Escape.

I admit it. I despise most of my classes. When I pop in a CD, I escape reality to an extent. When there is a song I really like, nothing else really matters. Yes, media is really this influential. Maybe not as much as some want us to believe, yet its also more than what some others want to believe.

The man essentially is molded by society. A lot of people here talk about men climbing rocks, jumping off planes, and doing what he wants to do. Yet this is not men. These are anti-conformists.

Men today are shaped by women. Somewhere that is unknown we were taught that the prized pink flesh between a woman's legs is the key to the universe. You can have no money, be a crackhead, but if you are getting laid, you are made. Those who don't get laid are often called losers that can't get laid not because they chose not to but because they are unable.

I had a friend who was a complete loser in life. He was a drunk, he took drugs at least once a day, barely showed up to class, yet thought he is the Supreme Don Juan because he was laying a different girl every week. This changed when he committed suicide October 2002. I'm not badmouthing him as this was the plain-as-day truth. I liked him and he liked me. Yet he was a fool in life. He was envied by almost every man (including me) for basically being a top notch athlete, nailed beautiful girls, yet he killed himself.

Men at my school shaped their lives on him but he killed himself.

Men essentially nowadays are so smitten by women that women have taken advantage of this power and have crushed manhood with an iron fist. I don't blame them. Hell, I'll commend them. Why? They were given the power and they not only accepted it, they enforced it. Nowadays every woman thats not the scourge of the earth in terms of looks ultimately has an inflated ego and expects the world out of men, offering nothing but their pink fleshy unmentionables.

This can be evidenced by the huge swarm of sitcoms that enforce this type of behavior. No matter what, the woman is ultimately the superior gender because of what she can do.

The men of old are passing by and replaced by a softer male.

I almost refuse to call this onslaught of people, "men." They are nothing but males due to the gentals given to him at birth. The Lord above has blessed us with a tool to pleasure women, hormones to conquer the world, and logic to reshape and make the world evolve. Yet this is often being wasted on men that want to do nothing more than to chase after girls and achieve absolutely nothing.

The softer male really doesn't care what his brain can do as long as he can f*ck and drink beer, he is fine. Yet, they don't get action. One of my friends brags all the time about how he has a girlfriend yet does nothing to her. When she was drunk, she actually gave me a lap dance when he was gone. She wanted more but I didn't for obvious reasons. He feels so smug with his position that he wants nothing more in life. He has the girl, he's not broke, so thats all he needs.

The softer male worships the ground that females walk on. Instead of embracing their masculinity, they feel restricted around women. They feel they have to completely woo her and when they do, its unfortunately always the usual stuff of paying for her dinners, kissing her ass, defending her against men. Yet she disowns the softer male and goes to the man.

Why do men live these ultimately empty lives?

Again, society is a beast. Its unconquerable, its almost omnipotent, and has a thick barrier protecting it. Right now, while I've been writing a short story, I was interrupted by floods of ambitionless worms calling me names because instead of killing millions of brain cells by getting wasted and drunk knocking on girls' doors, I am furthering myself and the understanding of the world.

I have been shackled by society...hell, we all have. We have been taught to call girls "the better half", we have been taught to supplicate as a reflex, and that the key to a happy life is to settle and grow stagnant.

Why do you see so many people becoming alcoholics or drug abusers? Its easy to see lower class groups but its difficult to see upper class. After knowing many rich people, many of them are so unhappy that they crave and desire substances. A friend of mine's dad makes $400,000 a year. Yet he is an alcoholic, smokes weed at least three times a week, and has been known to snort some cocaine.

What a life.

After being with a few attractive girls and going to their parties, their lives are utterly useless. Its not their fault, the men are doing the same thing. Girls no longer are in relationships with just one man, she is in a relationship with society. Men are expendable to today's woman. She must be kept intact by her nest egg that is her social group or what I like to call LFN (Local Female Network) She is as unhappy and resentful as today's soft male. She puts on a fake smile, wears skimpy clothes, and bases her whole life on sexuality. She is nothing without the pursuit of men.

Too much of anything is a bad thing and after getting hit on by literally thousands of men, her ego now exceeds her body. She now expects a flood of men to cater to her whims.
 

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Yet why shouldn't she expect it? Every morning I have received breakfast so of course I expect to have it the next morning. Same goes with men. Being an attractive woman is a gift and a curse.

What makes her ego put back in check is the presence of a true man. Its been coded in our genetics for millions of years that women are the submissive sex. Even with today's inflated ego of a woman, she cannot fight genetics. A girl who can be considered a b1tch can crack in 5-10 by a male. This is what we like to call neghits. Ever since she got fat on her chest at ~10, she has accumulated an ego because of the attention. No man is not worthy of her.

I'm not going into detailed personal stories but when I met this girl, she was a snob. She was rich, she had men chasing after her, etc. ie the typical girl. Within 15 minutes, I embraced my sexuality and wound up turning her into a sweet little girl. Most tactics here advise you to just move on but I was often intrigued by why some girls are b1tches.

"What does this have to do with men being dissected?"

Everything. We were also taught one of the most punishing words to dating:

Leagues.

Leagues to me are justifications for soft males to not get the pair to talk to an attractive woman.

For the longest while I'd dream of these girls that would walk by but then my worthless friends would say that she is out of my league. I concurred. Nowadays, I realize there is no such thing as leagues in the dating game.

Well, maybe so. The league of men that actually don't care about society's restraints enough to just go up to a girl they are interested in and talk to her. The there is the league of soft males that are content with bedding ugly-mediocre girls dreaming that it was someone hot instead.

What is being dissected here? Behavior. Yes, a lot of this stuff has been beaten yet is still needed. For every one man that embraces his sexuality, there are 1000 out there that are going towards this new male, the softer male.

The softer male is not permanent; in some cases it is temporary.

Sometimes it is realized with a huge shutdown, the girl was cheating on him, or a divorce. The cycle often goes as follows:

Young Childhood - Little Man - He knows the way of the male simply because its encoded in our genetics. He knows of little to no restraints and does as he wishes. Surprisingly, this is when most males today were at their best.

Youth - Semi AFC - At this time people are experimenting with relationships. Some are experimenting with sex. At this point, they have instilled values into them to prevent the way they act. So as a result, we have puppy love because we are often too afraid of our true emotions.

Teen - AFC - Most relationships I see are inheritely favored towards females. The boys will withstand cheating, head games, and all that other stuff. This is the point where girls get big egos.

Young Adult - Painfully AFC - They are in relationships with the woman dominating and dream of marriage. They want to have at least one child by 25. They just want to settle like most chumps out there. Girls on the other hand are getting out of control egos because desperate men want to be taken so bad that the advantage is so completely out of balance.

You get the point. After this, they will encounter a huge hardship that will change their mind. They will become really bitter at first. They either wisen up and embrace their sexuality or they go back to how they were like some people do.

If you ask me, society is headed towards a grim direction. Is it a cycle? I hope not as that means more women for me and it will be easy for me to conquer the world because if I get the power and support of women, I will have won 3/4 the battle. Fred Durst of Limp Bizkit did really crappy by just catering to the males. He decided to forget being obscure; he would cater to females. "Faith" was the single that turned them from a piddly local band to super success. He is an idiot but also smart by catering to the female crowd. He even said that for his concerts, girls got in for free. He has sold at least 10 million albums to this date, all because he took advantage of the power of the female to hook in men.

This is a long read so if you got to this point, thanks for reading.
 

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It is not a new thing. There was no time, when people with willpower outnumbered those without willpower. Only the direction in which those without willpower are pushed changes. And it is now better than it was. They should rather kiss up to girls, than shoot each other for no good reason or help some government eliminate the most valuable members of society.
 
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life's tough. grab a helmet.


seriously though. Nowadays I have tons of friends who I see now getting into drugs and alcohol and catering to a woman's need constantly. I will admit that I am sort of on that path(excuding the catering).

I smoke weed(I don't consider it a drug.). I drink alcohol on occasion simply because I know that it will help me not become a raging and immature alcoholic, because I don't exactly have that major curiosity to or urge to get drunk(check Europe's kids, they're not as idiots as american kids when it comes to beer because beer is part of their culture from hundred of years ago. And so they don't have the urge to be "bad asses" and get drunk)

anyways. I've seen a lot of my friends seemingly go down the drain and of course they want to take down to their level as well.

And today i've read a couple of revealing threads on this site about society and man(including this one), and it's put me into a new light and conscious about what the hell is going on around us.

America is following the path of Rome and all the other civilizations in the past which have all crumbled. The values which have made our country so successful and prosperous have been thrown out the window, and replaced with conformism and pure unadultered ignorance and bullsh*t. American society as a whole has still not learned from 9 f*cking 11. We need a f*cking a change. We need real men to stand up and take f*cking charge of sh*t around here. it's a total mess. Man is gradually being turned into a mindless, irrational c*nt who wants to put no effort in life, yet wants everything to be fed to him.

F*ck this bullsh*t, I swear, if I was the president, I'd quickly turn this f*cking place into a dictatorship, sending many worthless f*cks to their deaths.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Nowadays I have tons of friends who I see now getting into drugs and alcohol and catering to a woman's need constantly
Drinking and taking drugs occasionally is not really a bad thing. However I know of some people that base their whole lives on getting wasted. At the beginning of the school year, I know of a kid who prior to college who would drink once a month at most. He then started to get wasted once a weekend and liked it. Then he got drunk two nights on the weekends. Soon he anticipated getting drunk Thursday night. Now he drinks sometimes on Wednesday nights. He is a drunken mess and from being a clean kid, he is now a slob.

He is an example of what not to do with alcohol.

anyways. I've seen a lot of my friends seemingly go down the drain and of course they want to take down to their level as well.
I'm seeing that happen to the example above. Yes, he always asks me to get drunk with him. I usually turn him down. I drink every once in a while. Its often times every other weekend, if that. For a while I didn't touch the stuff for a month. Of course they want you down at their level. People are connected to society. Sometimes one of the biggest fears a person has is being alone in the crowd. So he has to try, sometimes desperately, to get someone to join him.

America is following the path of Rome and all the other civilizations in the past which have all crumbled
True and not surprising. We are just too arrogant nowadays to really appreciate what we have. It will bite us in the ass. I just honestly hope I am dead before society really begins to go in the crapper. I think China will eclipse the US by 2050 if not sooner. They are already a close second to us.

The values which have made our country so successful and prosperous have been thrown out the window, and replaced with conformism and pure unadultered ignorance and bullsh*t
True. Everyone expects to be protected from international forces yet military recruits are at an all time low. Everyone expects to land $40k jobs when they get out of college by doing little to no work. Its like everyone also expects the quality of Cristale at the price of Miller High Life.

American society as a whole has still not learned from 9 f*cking 11
I agree for the most part. I think that people do not realize that there are millions of people that despise the US and has the power to do great damage to us.

We need a f*cking a change. We need real men to stand up and take f*cking charge of sh*t around here. it's a total mess. Man is gradually being turned into a mindless, irrational c*nt who wants to put no effort in life, yet wants everything to be fed to him.
Go change it then. I am going to try. I think maybe if lets say a group of 1000-10000 men tried to change the world, we could do it.

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To me, society is like a giant nest and people are birds. Some people flock to the nest, afraid of going outside, afraid that they may not be in their comfort zone. So many people fit into the formula of conformity just because they are afraid of the alternatives. To me, the worst thing that could happen to me is if my brain is not effective ie mental illness or retardation. For some, its not being able to find a prom date or that they ran out of the latest and greatest PlayStation 2 game.

Society is also much like a spider. It casts its web, trapping millions of creatures for it to devour. They are devoured into an abyss of meaningless clichés, dull expectations, and feeble accomplishment goals. Society has convoluted life so much that we are victims of it. Its not really our fault that men are turning into ambitionless, soft males. There is so much pressure to conform to the bounds of society that not fitting in 100% means getting cast out.

If you don't wear Abercrombie, Gap, or Aeropostale, drive a nice car, participate in athletics, and get laid before 16, you are cast out of society. Girls don't feel attracted to you (why would they because they are mere puppets of society) Society is a tough life. People pick on kids, they shoot up the school. The media then focuses on the victims, pointing out the suspects to be monsters. Instead of preaching to treat kids better overall, we are just taught to report if you think something may happen.

To me this is putting a band aid on a deep wound that needs stitches. Society doesn't really care the anomalies of society, the cast-outs unless they act malevolantly. I'm not endorsing their behaviors but how can anyone be shocked that kids who got picked on to the point of utter torture would say "Enough" and fight back?

Society. Those wrapped up in society are selfish and selfless at the same time. They pick out their victims and do as they wish...as long as they are not in society because its just a handful of nerds.

Its a dog eat dog world out there. It truly is.

Its so essential to fit into society's nest that its almost imperative. If you don't try, you are gone. You are cast aside to trailer parks, homeless shelters, prisons, or mental institutions. As men, we are often trapped. To an extent, we follow conformity.

Knowing is half the battle but there is still the other half of the battle that needs to be won.

We are conformists. Maybe not down to a "T" or to the extent that most soft males are but we still exist in the boundaries of society's large mass of human bodies. In a way, its impossible to escape. Should we fight it? To an extent. Society is a lifeless mass but with the right people, it is shaken up and changed. Eminem is definitely one. I use him as an example because he didn't give a damn that lesbians thought his lyrics were crude or if he may offend someone. Yet he reaps the benefits of it.

Why? He has fought society and won. How?

He just spoke to a crowd of people that were long growing stagnant. They got tired of wrestling, No Limit albums, worthless teen flicks, and here came a figure that basically expressed their deepest thoughts. No, you don't have to kiss every girl's ass. Yes, its ok sometimes just have the "I don't give a f*ck" attitude and follow your dreams. He started off as lowly trailer park trash. Rap was primarily black and a white boy, especially after Vanilla Ice, was especially tough. He worked his ass off for 6-8 years trying to get respect before he broke including two albums that were often overlooked, even by the underground scene. He worked. Hard. Yet he nabbed nearly $30 million in 2002 and I wouldn't be shocked if he got near that amount if not more for this year.

This is what we must do. Fight society but also try to cater to it to forward it. Too much change will cause chaos. Thats why its often referred to as evolution, not revolution.
 

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Good stuff. I read all of that with much interest. :)
 

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"We're a generation of men raised by women"

Interesting read. A lot of it reminds me of Chuck Palahniuk's rantings from Fight Club:

"Man... I see all this potential, and I see squandering. God damn it, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables; slaves with white collars. Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy **** we don't need. We're the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War's a spiritual war... our Great Depression is our lives. We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won't. And we're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off.

(...) Listen up, maggots. You are not special. You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake. You're the same decaying organic matter as everything else. (...) You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your ****ing khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world."

Gotten from http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0137523/quotes

These have most likely been posted before, but I think they're related to what you were saying. What annoys me is that even for those of us who understand the situation and try to escape it it's almost impossible, because of the pressures and expectations placed on us by peers, friends, family, and (yes) society. To take myself as an example: I'm currently following boring university courses in a program I don't care about, just to be able to find a job I won't like, make money, get married, and have a house in the suburbs with the wife, 2.5 children, a dog, a minivan and a PTA membership. For my parents, this is the ultimate dream and they can't conceive of anyone wanting something else. To become free would basically require cutting off all contact with those who know us and moving completely out of their influence, and not many of us can do that.

As for the men/women issue, you are right, we live in a feminized society where female values and modes of thought are accepted and held up as examples, while their male equivalents are condemned and demonized. We're supposed to be emotional and sensitive, supportive, caring and sharing. When this is taken to extremes, the result is a generation of wimps. The funny thing is, women aren't exactly happy with this transformation either (otherwise AFCs would get all the action). On the bright side, this really cuts down the competition for the few 'real men' left out there. :)
 

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What annoys me is that even for those of us who understand the situation and try to escape it it's almost impossible, because of the pressures and expectations placed on us by peers, friends, family, and (yes) society
Yes, we are still shackled in society's chains but that doesn't mean we are buckled down as much as many people are.

To take myself as an example: I'm currently following boring university courses in a program I don't care about, just to be able to find a job I won't like, make money, get married, and have a house in the suburbs with the wife, 2.5 children, a dog, a minivan and a PTA membership
Why are you living this life of nothingness? If you don't like what you are doing, then stop it. We have one life. I was going to be a computer programmer. Yet I decided to pursue Graphic Design. Graphic Designers only start off with ~$30k yet to me its something I love to do. So that way when I'm 50, I won't look back on my life and realized what a waste of a life I've led. That is why so many old people are bitter. They hate life because they are achieving and have achieved so little.

I'm not saying to live as a feral human but go with your dreams in life.

As for the men/women issue, you are right, we live in a feminized society where female values and modes of thought are accepted and held up as examples, while their male equivalents are condemned and demonized
Yes but it is ultimately our (the male) fault for allowing this society to happen. Even with feminazis, we have allowed them to break society's armor and twist society to their liking. We could have just ignored it. I mean, there are thousands of anti capitalism, anti black, etc. movements yet we don't pay attention to them. So why did we allow the feminazis to come in and destroy society? Or at least severely injure it.

Collectively, men are on life support. The majority have just given up their masculinity and have become women with penises (or is that penii?) and live a life of ultimate shame. Then the same group wonders why they go to the jerk or a real man who doesn't put up with her BS while they are snug in their generic Abercrombie and Fitch wardrobe watching Friends.

Most soft males of today do wish that they would be men and stop being the way they are. They think of this every time their dream girl is snapped up by a man or a jerk. Yet the cost and risk is just too much for them. They are afraid of saying something a female may not want to hear or to risk (gasp) disagreeing with her!

Most women have dominated but they have become this way only after realizing that most men can be bulldozed over if they spread their legs. Often times, it works too.

We're supposed to be emotional and sensitive, supportive, caring and sharing. When this is taken to extremes, the result is a generation of wimps
Yes and its true that women don't like it much either. They wish it would happen but they wish for them to be men more. Think about it. Girls nowadays try to be real feminine as in they try to have a bubbly personality, be friendly to everyone, and try to have big boobs, slim body, long shapely legs, and a round ass. Why should they expect to get males who try to be feminine too? Hell no, they want a man who is muscular, intelligent, agile, arrogant (to a degree), and an accomplished man all around.

Feminized men do get girls but after a few months, the girls start to cheat on them with men. Why do you hear of so many stories of rich wives nailing their gardeners? It happens a lot because their husband other than his penis is not a man and the gardener has probably more characteristics of a man than the husband does.

The funny thing is, women aren't exactly happy with this transformation either (otherwise AFCs would get all the action).
Of course women aren't happy! Girls today are so twisted from feminized males that the damage may be permanent. Since feminized men are too worried to risk not doing the "dinner and movie date", girls have filled up this time with shopping. They are ultimately impatient with males not making moves on them so they become b1tchy towards them. To me, no girl is ever really born a b1tch. She becomes this way after men not satisfying her sexual needs. Why do you see so many near 10s be b1tches? Because they have needs too and instead of getting satisfied by them, men are too afraid to react to them to sexually please the woman.

So they become b1tchy, the man supplicates more, which only pushes her further away. She also learns that he can be her personal b1tch and this is where the domination begins. Soon she grows tired of his lack of backbone and starts cheating on him. I've seen it done all too many times.

On the bright side, this really cuts down the competition for the few 'real men' left out there.
Hell yeah. Nice positive spin on it. Definitely a good thing. The only bad thing is the jealous AFCs that will do a bunch of stupid sh1t because they are mad that you "stole" their woman.

Interesting read. A lot of it reminds me of Chuck Palahniuk's rantings from Fight Club
I have not seen Fight Club but overall it sounds like a definitive DJ flick. I just got Scarface recently which is a good movie. I'm not sure what Tony Montana is (I'm thinking a mix between DJ and Jerk) but its a great movie.
 

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Originally posted by es_mer8
If you don't wear Abercrombie, Gap, or Aeropostale, drive a nice car, participate in athletics, and get laid before 16, you are cast out of society. Girls don't feel attracted to you (why would they because they are mere puppets of society) Society is a tough life. People pick on kids, they shoot up the school. The media then focuses on the victims, pointing out the suspects to be monsters. Instead of preaching to treat kids better overall, we are just taught to report if you think something may happen.
Empowering words right there, my friend. It's true that most girls are mere puppets of society. It's true that America is headed for disaster. It's true that most men today are shadows of their formers.

But we have the knowledge to stand up to this sad spiral. I, for one, am not gonna sit down and be spoon-fed my life. The confines of society are strong, but not as strong as a great man's will.

This song is entitled "Escape" and its by Metallica. It addresses the issue of conformity and the struggle to leave it behind to rediscover your identity...



Feel no pain
But my life ain't easy
I know I'm my best friend

No one cares
But I'm so much stronger
I'll fight until the end

To escape from the true false world
Undamaged destiny
Can't get caught in the endless circle
Ring of stupidity

Out for my own, out to be free
One with my mind, they just can't see
No need to hear things that they say
Life's for my own, to live my own way

Rape my mind and destroy my feelings
Don't tell me what to do
I don't care now 'cause I'm on my side
And I can see through you

Feed my brain with your so-called standards
Who says that I ain't right?
Break away from your common fashion
See through your blurry sight

Out for my own, out to be free
One with my mind, they just can't see
No need to hear things that they say
Life's for my own, to live my own way

See them try to bring the hammer down
No damned chains can hold me to the ground

Life's for my own, to live my own way
Life's for my own, to live my own way
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I was going to take a month off of this forum but to hell with that if I still have some more ideas. I was going to make a separate thread called The Woman - Dissected but forget it, I feel that it is beneficial for it to be in this thread:

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The Woman - Dissected

Girls. Women. The female gender is so high prized in society that I'd consider their worth to be more than platinum, diamonds, or gold. The feminism movement circa 1960s has changed the fabric of society. Men at the time agreed that women should have more rights but instead of saying "thats enough", they didn't and as a result, women are the superior gender currently collectively. There may be 500,000 men (I believe it may be less than half of this but I put up this number for the sake of the argument) that are real men but there are at least 50 million men today that are complete failures as men.

In a way, females have come out the most damaged. See, men can at least somewhat step out of the bounds of conformity and still live a successful life (see: Eminem, 2pac, etc.) but girls live for society.

Girls today are mere appendages of society.

They are deathly afraid of being alone and without friends. She doesn't mind getting an F on a paper if she has a huge LFN (Local Female Network) but if she has no friends and no men pursuing her, her life is almost meaningless. The only meaning that she has is the potential to grow in society or become a lesbian. These are the only two options. You almost never see mountainwomen living alone in the mountains. You never see women explorers who explore alone. If they do exist, its such a rarity?

Why?

Its not because of some male suppression BS. Its because women live for social connections. The climb to the top of the social connections are extremely fierce, hence the infinite amount of backstabbing that goes on. Its almost as if they hate eachother. In fact, they pretty much do. The reason why is because each female somehow feels obligated to take the top role of her LFN. She wants to be the social center of her LFN. She wants to be the person everyone talks about in school. As much as she pretends to hate it, she also wants to be the subject to rumors...just so she can be the topic of discussion.

Her acceptance into her LFN is crucial. Everything else is meaningless.

As much as we don't want to admit it, men are expendable to today's woman. Why is this? As much as women secretly want a nice hard c0ck in their pu$$y, if it came down to her LFN or her man, she will tell the man not let the door hit his ass on the way out. Women may like a man to sweep them off their feet but their society is just too big of a risk. If she cuts them out, most of the time, her life is nothing. If her man dumps her, she has absolutely nobody. Even if she is a HB9, without her society, a well connected UG4 will often come out on top. Why risk her life on one man?

Women today are just as resentful to men as soft males are resentful to women.

The life of an attractive woman is a terrible life to live. Why? Don't you get sh1tloads of attention from men? Yes...from afar. They are the cream of the crop in today's society. They can pretty much get whatever they want and while this seems fun at first, the life is inevitably boring. Thats why you see so many rich people who are alcoholics or a myriad of other problems. Life at the top is not as sweet as what some people wish it was.

If men actually approach her, they are so AFC about it that men are too afraid to grab the pair and just ask her out. So they have to try to be friends. To me, a woman knows a man's intentions almost instantly. If he tries to be friends, he fails the test. Why? Instead of growing the pair he should have had when they first exchanged eyes, he had to be a worm and prolong it. Women understand that they have a lot of men after them and they cannot waste their time with some nimrod who thinks he should be friends with her for 6 months before asking her out in some magical scene.

Then you got the men who are too afraid to approach. HBs are just as horny as men and like men as much as we like women. Yet it is impossible. If they actively pursue a man, she is a slut, which is a huge blow to her LFN. Yet at the same time, she grows tired of looks of men that is attracted to, yet those men cannot get the pair to talk to a woman and ask her out.

So begins the b1tch.

They are never b1tches initially. They become this way because they are frustrated with men and have given up. Instead of being vulnerable and like any other person, she has pretty much given up on the entire male gender and becomes bitter. Not feminazi bitter. In a way, there are two polar ends of women: sexless b1tch and feminazi b1tch. Either way, men have simply not satisfied them and their needs.

The b1tch inside is the same little girl as she once was. However the more and more time she spends being a little b1tch, the worse her life becomes. Men now pay even less attention to her, her LFN slowly unravels, and she becomes a mere shell of what she was. If she still does have a LFN, it is on thin ice that frequently gets cracked.

Shopping - The Sex Substitute

Girls like to dress nice - sure. However nowadays teenage girls in particular, frustrated with their sexless lives, have substituted shopping as the new replacement for sex. Its easy to see why.

The chase to find the ultimate outfit - the chase to find the ultimate man.

A store with great deals - a location with great men

Buying clothes is a reward, much like sex is. In fact, the art of shopping itself is completely identical to the art of men. If they cannot get the satisfaction from a man, they must get the satisfaction from fabric. Both cover their bodies, entrapping the woman in a submissive position. Its also no surprise to see strip malls being built and mall supercomplexes all over. The power of the female dollar is huge now because they need satisfaction, something men aren't giving them.

Shopping a painful cycle for girls. They are frustrated that men aren't satisfying them. So they drop $500 on a new wardrobe, to use for men to maybe go up to them and talk to them. When that doesn't happen, she becomes even angrier, spends more money on clothes, and it gets to the point where some cases are reported where some middle-upper class girls spend as much as $5000-10000 a year on clothes alone.

When will men ever learn?

A man approaches her...yet its not as good as it seems

As kids, boys aspired to be football stars; girls aspired to be the cheerleader holding the football star's arm. Life is not as good as the dream. Assuming any man goes up to her, if they do, its so pointless that its bad. They get her number...yet are afraid to call. If they do call, they spend hours talking on the phone, doing all the wrong steps. In a way, men often c0ckblock themselves more than others c0ckblock them.

Games are created by women to weed out the real men from the morons. Lets say Jimmy here is an AFC. He is 6', really skinny, has that moronic skater haircut (you know what I mean), wears Vans, Hurley, Gap, etc. the typical AFC middle class crap. His hobbies include playing Madden, Tony Hawk, and Grand Theft Auto on PS2. When not doing that, he is listening to the latest Top 40 rock band and watching hit shows like Friends. He sees Lisa, a fine specimen of human life. So he gets the pair and talks to her with low self esteem. Lisa gets approached like this often and most girls (often faking this), pretends to really like Jimmy. Jimmy thinks that if he is real forward with her, he will scare her off. Lisa may have a crush on Jimmy but nothing will happen for a long time. She can't make a move or else she's a slut.

Yet its been a month and Jimmy has not made one sexual move on her. No kino, no C+F, nothing. Jimmy feels that by being her best friend, Lisa will give up the charade and nail him on the spot. Lisa though is getting frustrated. Soon, she becomes bored of him and sees him less and less. Jimmy, crapping his pants, supplicates like crazy. The effects are positive and Jimmy feels especially brave and asks her out to a dinner and a movie. She accepts. She still does not really think much of Jimmy but a free dinner and a free movie is still a good deal. So Jimmy sneaks in a kiss and feels that he is the man. So he calls her the next day. No answer. He calls hourly until she grows tired of it and answers. Jimmy tries to talk to Lisa for hours. While Lisa is unenthusiastic, Jimmy thinks that he is getting ever so close to her pu$$y.

The next day, when Jimmy follows Lisa, he gets LJBF'ed. Owned. He cries in his room, wasting a good 2-3 months getting nothing more than a small kiss that she didn't kiss back with.
 

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Lisa, getting over the ugly Jimmy episode, catches a glimpse at Dave. Dave isn't a football player but he still lifts weights. He is built, great hair, good clothes (maybe a step higher than the typical Gap sh1t), and as soon as he catches Lisa looking at him, he goes and talks to her. He is charismatic yet sexual. He gazes into her eyes, something Jimmy never did. He teased Lisa, he was funny, and best of all, in five minutes he asked her for her number. Shocked at how she found a real man, she gives it to him. Dave is a man's man. He may not be at the top of the food chain but he is dependable, smart, witty, and has a "I don't give a f..." attitude. Lisa gets wet just thinking of him. He calls a couple of days later. No BS talking, just setting up a date and the time. He hangs up. She parallels this with him being busy.

They go out on a date. No dinner...no movie (she has already had everything to eat in the town and has seen all the latest movies thanks to the AFCs) and goes bowling. Cheap and fun. So much that she feels that she has to impress him, not the other way around. Dave manages to mix in mystery with charisma, seemingly bipolar but this all adds to the mystery. At night, he goes in for the kiss rather than the long, awkward wait that she had with Jimmy. A small kiss goes to a make out session. This is the man of her dreams. She allows herself to be taken and minutes later, she is having sex with him. Such a feat to get laid on the first date, seeing as how she used to parade around the atypical "I'll wait until marriage."

Those dates actually happen. Thing is, women ultimately want a man like Dave to sweep them off of their feet and give them a good time. Jimmy followed the society's standards down to the haircut and just got nothing. Notice how Dave doesn't even give Lisa a chance for her to play games. Games is a way to weed them out.

Since most men want pu$$y (the rest are asexual or gay), she has immediate power. So she tries to see how far she can go with him. She wants to be called out on her BS. She wants a man to basically tell her that she isn't the best thing since sliced bread. When she finds one that ignores her useless games, she is his for the taking.

Females in this world aren't in a better position than men - hell, they may even be in a worse position. It is up for us DJs to work on these women and show them what a real man does to them.
 

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It's the 90% / 10% thing again.

10% people are original and non conformist
-> 5% of them do good.
-> 5% of them do bad.


the other 90% do what they are told....
 

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I enjoyed that story. The basic DJ principles encapsulated in a story for 5 year olds... if you don't get it after reading this, just go home. And don't ever come out. ;)
 

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Originally posted by Duke


This song is entitled "Escape" and its by Metallica. It addresses the issue of conformity and the struggle to leave it behind to rediscover your identity...
Those are excellent lyrics. Pity that the same group would later toss away their ideals to make songs custom-made for mainstream acceptance for the sake of extra profit.
What do they sing now?
Frantic-tic-tic-tic-tic-tic-tic-tock

****ing sell-outs...
 
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