the loser mentality by joe rogan!!

[eli77]

Love his podcast!!

 

[oc16]

That was pretty good. I sometimes focus my energy on hating on guys(in my mind) I have seen who are shorter, fatter, poorer and uglier than me with cute girlfriends. Joe is right, don't get jealous, see it as an inspiration. "If he could get her, just imagine what I can get", type mentality.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Envy is a natural emotion. It drives you to become greater. It is nothing wrong with being envious. But when envy is suppressed, it becomes jealousy. Jealousy is a toxic emotion. It is making the statement that you don't believe you can achieve the same result of the person you are envious of, and also you feel offended that that person even exists. Jealousy seeks to tear others down while envy serves to elevate you to greater heights.

Many guys don't know how to maturely navigate their emotions so they suppress their envy and become more enraged, which is not healthy. You have to acknowledge your envy and respect the player. And then seek to strive to his level.

Don’t forget your breaking one of God’s Ten Commandments if you envy. ‘ Thou shall not covet your neighbor’s possessions’. At the end of the day, it’s okay to want things but not need it.

But yes, I agree being envious can be a good inspiration to do better. Cheers.

 

[Poonani Maker]

But yes, I agree being envious can be a good inspiration to do better. Cheers.

I think no good can come from envy. It's worse than all the others, schadenfreude as well. Pride, I guess, should be a good inspiration to do better. Or carried on a wave of love of self and those you want to love.

 

[eli77]

Comparison is the thief of joy.

Ive said it many times in my posts against the BP threads. Comparing yourself to other men is like napalm on your frame.

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