The late model HB

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about 3 weeks ago I hired an assistant to help me out with my daily tasks.. She's a very good worker, takes instructions well and I can tell really is getting into her job. I made a good hire. Anyway that's not hte point of this thread.

She's not bad looking at all. I mean I noticed, but i'm not really available at the time and I don't do the whole pen in the company ink thing. Anyway, we got to talking one day and some free time and she was telling me oh i wish i used to look like i used to blah blah blah and you know all women say this.

So she busts out some pictures and when I say this woman was drop ****ing dead gorgeous... there is not a guy here that would not have had her at the very least, an 8.5, very least. Cokebottle body, a size C cup and a beautiful face. And she knew it. She was the definition of a HB. Even at 42 now she's well above avg looking for her age but she was a true kentucky derby calibur thoroughbred in her day.

She got married like 2 years ago. She started out hinting saying things like "oh you can have any woman you want can't you" and "If I were single you and I would have to go out sometime".. yeah you guys all know where that is leading. But then she turns around and says "I miss being single but i married my best friend, he's a great husband"...

I got to thinking, if he was so great why are you trying to **** me? And hell i'm not so ****ing special where I think i'm the only one, i'm sure if the right opprotunity came along she'd make no bones about giving it up still. She's not a ***** or antyhing, i just don't think she particularly likes her husband. He was there, he offered some sense of stability.


It's akin to the guy who wants say, a new Mercedes, but can't afford a new Mercedes.. or a late model Mercedes.. so he's the guy driving around in the 90' Mercedes the box ass Mercedes, just to say he drives a Mercedes.

This woman was prime ass in her day.. her husband has no chance at a real catch, he has 2 kids, he doesn't make a ****load of money and he's not the best lookin guy on earth. Also I'm quite sure he knows what he has on his hands at least on a subconscious level. i would not be surprised if she has already cheated on him. This is what he is willing to give up, to get his late model HB.

he has known her for a while, watch her get rammmed, jammed and thank you mamm'ed by some of everyone and bidded his time, until she was ready to settle down then she 'saw how great of a catch he was' and settled down with him, partly becuase of security, partly becuase she knows she doesn't really have to change. screw him every once in a while, cook dinner from time to time, and for that i get my bills paid (she did not work for 6 months before i hired her), a place to stay and security, and FREE dom to not really have to change who i am.. if i see something I really want I can go get it and still come back to 'my base'.


I just found this very interesting.
 

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hey backbreaker,

i experienced something similar recently. i met a massage therapist with whom i had exchanged services for. first her computer was jacked up and i fixed it. no funny business. i workout hard and sometimes i need someone to take their knee and ram it into my spine, etc.

anyway, she's in her early 40s also and i got to thinking how she may have looked when she was younger. it started when i caught a glimpse of her supple c cup breasts on a hot afternoon when she leaned over to pick something up. she too ended up showing me pictures. she was not as hot as yours was i'm sure, but she definitely looked GOOD and healthy.

now we are just friends and sometimes we hang out, shoot the shit, gain perspective from each other's life stories, etc. the last 2 times we hung out we gave each other big hugs before i walked out the door and she squeezed her fragile but firm tits against me and said "biiiig huuug from a beautiful young boy - i mean young man" hahaha

back to your story.

you seem to have your situation figured out. i bet she had a real wild side when she was younger. she may or may not be a cheat though, so i'd be extra careful in exploring that, especially considering she is working for you!!! gulp

definitely an interesting story. sometimes its easy to understand how women that age came to be called cougars, right? so appealing knowing how they used to be when they were new.

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When she would met some real catch like 10 years ago, do you think she would settle down?
Or would she still be thinking she can do better?

That is my biggest worry about all of this....once a HB knows she can have you...she ejects for something better. No matter how much she loves you. They just don't want to settle down. Always be free to catch the bigger fish....and most of the time end up old, not so hot, jaded and childless.

With so much distraction around they can't focus or mature.
 

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So she busts out some pictures and when I say this woman was drop ****ing dead gorgeous
I've seen this phenomenon also, the aging woman who carries around pictures of herself when she was younger, 22 and in a bikini, and shows it around to all the guys to get their reaction. It's kind of sad in way, almost makes me feel sorry for them.

This woman was prime ass in her day.. her husband has no chance at a real catch, he has 2 kids, he doesn't make a ****load of money and he's not the best lookin guy on earth. Also I'm quite sure he knows what he has on his hands at least on a subconscious level. i would not be surprised if she has already cheated on him. This is what he is willing to give up, to get his late model HB.
Sounds like the woman probably has some loose morals. It's probably what dropped her value in the first place. If she was that hot to begin with, she probably could have done better than this guy. But most quality guys most likely realized she was a slvt and weren't about to get drawn in long term with her. Then her looks start fading, she panics, and grabs what she can get in this guy. Who can't satisfy her of course, so she's out looking for affairs on the side. I see it all the time.

Not all women are like that however.
 

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Gender reversal story - When I was a young Lieutenant I had a master sergeant who was 45, battle tested and well built....however, whenever he realized that a new woman had been transferred to the admin section on the base he would swagger into the office, park his azz on her desk and show her all of his old football photos and his gym pose shots of himself as a 20 year old.
Mostly the women just rolled their eyes.
 

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Yeah don't laugh too much guys. Some day you'll be doing the exact same thing. Maybe not with pictures, but with some sort of evidence that you were desirable back in your prime.
 

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My dad is like that. you get him in a 10 minute convo and he will go into some comvo about how he used to do this or used to do that. my dad ws a serious baller back in his day, played high d1 college ball and was bad ass.. and he will let you know about it lol. he will also let you know he ****ed half of little rock in extreme details.


I mean, i'm not trying to date the woman, I just thought this was interesting.


Jophil hit on something and something just popped in my mind. YOu hang around enough guys, most guys have routines. you know what I mean.

When I was in AA.. there was this one guy.. not a bad looking guy actually, but probably the most ****ed up in the head guy i have ever seen in my life.. he saw fresh meat he'd go into his i know i'm hot bit and how i've slept with all these women bit. it would take him no more than 30 minutes to approach a new woman.

My dad, probably has more "game" than any man I have ever seen.. while he doesn't have a straight routine, he probably much does the whole ****y funny thing.


One thing my dad taught me, thank god I had the dad I did, is that game has nothing to do with what you say... it's just that.. it's a 'game'.


Me I play off my personality, I'm actually quite quiet by nature so I don't become something I"m not. I've learned how to subtily draw women to me by doing certain things and we start a conversation. If I can get you talking you might as well just hand the panties over now.

pook made a post here a LONG time ago, you talk to women so much and you get so comfortable around them and you start to get enough confidence in yourself.. you actually WANT guys to approach women first, to learn more about what she likes and doesn't like, and to weed out the losers. That one guy in AA if any girl took him seriously she was an autotoss. the guy tried to kill himself like every 3months.
 

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Men,


To most CONCEITED "hot" women with an overblown sense of entitlement, TIME is a disintegrative weapon that destroys the PEDESTAL upon which they've stood for MANY years "if" they've led their lives getting by on their looks alone.

And when this happens, it's a rare occurrence that women of this variety EVER really come to grips that the "blush" has faded from the rose. They either become MORE thorny (bytchy) towards a lower caliber of man or they escape from reality by living in the past-----a dreamworld populated by peasants who routinely stroked their egos like the make-believe princesses they always thought of themselves as.

This is the primary reason why it's so important for women OF WORTH to diversify their arsenal of attraction with many other qualities in addition to just their appearance alone. Things like kindness, femininity, supportiveness, sexiness, faithfulness, honesty, spirituality, and commitment to self-improvement come to mind.

However, the sad truth is that there's a larger number of women who learn this lesson far TOO LATE to attract and "keep" the kind of man they really want. So...whenever they come face to face with the kind of man they really like (Equestiran Commander BACKBREAKER), as opposed to the guy they've "settled" for--------it's always a HARSH reminder of their glory days.

Thus-----now UNABLE to get the men they really want, and now SADDLED with a guy they have marginal interest in------------the sale of torrid romance novels about bored housewives being pursued by goodlooking "bad boys" go through the roof------and movie adaptations like BRIDGES OF MADISON COUNTY clean up at the Box Office-------and SEX AND THE CITY reruns clog up every channel on broadcast television.



My God...I miss "24" already, troops.


PEACE...one day.


VU
 
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