One of the toughest tests any of you will face is undoubtedly daygame openers. This is a fact for most and is never going to be easy.
I have constructed, however, what i believe to be one of the most effective openers you could possibly use in ANY day game situation. And yes i have field tested this opener HUNDREDS of times and i will tell you with a very clear conscious i have NEVER gotten a negative response to it, and, in fact, have closed and had further interactions including many lays and have met some very great women this way. This is no joke, i field tested this to the bone to make sure to myself it was solid and effective. I have gone above and beyond with this to prove it is effective before i even dreamed of posting it on here because I really believe i have stumbled onto something here.
I will tell you how i came up with this.
I was contemplating openers for daygame while i was at the mall one day about 6 months ago. I was shopping at aeropostale, not looking at women at all, purley just buying clothes. I go to the counter and before i know it, one of the most attractive women that i HAVE EVER SEEN was the one ringing me out. Due to the surprise of seeing her and the two customers that were haggling her about how they thought the discount on their purchase should have been bigger (literally asking why the price of every item was not reduced and demanding to see them number by number), as well as the long line that was forming behind me because of the rude customers holding us up, i completly choked in gaming her when she was checking me out due to the surprise and awkwardness of the situation, plus the feeling of flirting with a line of 30 aggravated customers behind me just seem innapropriate at the time. In a rare moment, i pussed out.
It could not end for me there, i HAD to meet this girl. So i went to starbucks and got a coffee, and decided to sit and figure out how i could go back without making this seem ridiculous and obvious. I must have thought of it for a half hour. I have done every type of approach imaginable, and been in most every situation, but for some reason, i could not figure out how I could go back into that store and approach this girl without it seeming a little strange and pre planned.
In my contemplation, I some reason was thinking of my previous career. I used to be a hairstylist (yes womens) In a very nice salon in town (this is an entirley different thread in and of itself). And it dawned on me almost immediatly what i could do. I went right back in there and saw her folding shirts.
This is exaclty how the conversation went practically word for word:
Code: Did not want to bother you with that big line behind me earlier, but I just had to ask you. Did you used to go to BLANK salon in BLANKville? You were one of my bosses clients?"
HB: No, never been to that salon, my sister is actually in hair school and she does my hair for me at home.
Code: Then you have a twin walking around town. My boss had a client who looked JUST like you. I used to have a bit of a crush on her but because she was my bosses client, she was off limits in my mind. I thought it was you and since i dont work there anymore i thought how perfect is this. (note she is perked up and smiling at this)
Code: But, its not you. (i smile)
She immediatly asked me about a million questions about the salon, why im no longer there, etc. In short, I tell her i have to go and she offers me the digits. (this happens a LOT when you go to depart from this interaction. If they happen not to ask, you are in perfect position to ask them however.)
Ok, right away i know you are thinking "but Code, I was never a hairstylist, so how does this apply to me.?"
The beautiful part of this opener is it can apply to ANY previous occupation! I use salon as a reference because that is what I did, and the beautiful part is its true so i remain congruent.
You can do this with any job you have ever had. And it can be used for picking up women who work at stores or cold approaches. There is literally no sitatuion in day game you can use this on a woman.
The opener for someone who worked at say, a mcdonalds, would go something like this. Do not take this word for word, you will find your own ways of communicating, but this is a useful guide.
You: I had to ask, did you used to come into the mcdonalds in BLANKville a lot?
Her: yes/no (note, YES is even better, but you will get no a lot more often than yes to these questions simply because you know you never saw her in these places, if you ever even worked at them. These do not HAVE to be actual previous jobs, you can make up anything.)
You: You look really familar. A girl that looks just like you frequented my workplace. I always had a bit of a crush on her, but would have gotten in trouble for chatting up customers at work, and i thought, how perfect is this to run into you!( You will see them perk up and smile very receptivley to this)
You: But, its not you. (then you smile. Be prepared to be asked questions because she will now want to keep the interaction going. If she does not offer the digits, you ask for them. End of interaction, easy money)
I can not over emphasise how IMPORTANT the last line "but its not you" is. You start off by mistaking her identity for someone you clearly state you were interested in. She will automatically assume. if you were interested in the other girl who supposedly looks enough like her that youd mistake the two, that you would also be interested in her. But the final "its not you line" disqualifies her in a way, and actually dissapoints her a little and makes her feel like she might have just lost you. She will then start to ask questions to keep the interaction going. This is a classic push-pull manuver that works like a charm.
You see, most guys would get past the part they admitted they had a crush, and then ask for a number or try and keep the interaction going. This is a mistake because it comes off as a little low value, since you couldnt have the other woman youll make do with her clone. This also lends her to believe youre interested purley on looks, since you already stated you had no real meaningful interaction with the woman in question due to fear of consequences at work. Obviously she is going to know you are interested based only on looks, but thats ony going to be a negative if you come off as needy and try to pick her up even after you found out she was not the fictional woman you made up. By remarking that you are now aware that she isnt the girl you had a crush on, in a playfully dissapointed way with a smile, you communicate to her that the interaction is about to close and you are not going to try and chase her. This will make her try to chase you and continue the interaction. Get those digits.
This is a very simple concept that i probably over explained, but i wanted to make absolutley sure i got my message across because this is as close to FAILPROOF as i believe you can get as far as daygame openers. Field test this, i guarentee this will work. Let me know ASAP your experiences in the field.
Oh, and P.S, i absolutley DEFILED that woman at aeropostale just 3 nights later. Easy money.
I have constructed, however, what i believe to be one of the most effective openers you could possibly use in ANY day game situation. And yes i have field tested this opener HUNDREDS of times and i will tell you with a very clear conscious i have NEVER gotten a negative response to it, and, in fact, have closed and had further interactions including many lays and have met some very great women this way. This is no joke, i field tested this to the bone to make sure to myself it was solid and effective. I have gone above and beyond with this to prove it is effective before i even dreamed of posting it on here because I really believe i have stumbled onto something here.
I will tell you how i came up with this.
I was contemplating openers for daygame while i was at the mall one day about 6 months ago. I was shopping at aeropostale, not looking at women at all, purley just buying clothes. I go to the counter and before i know it, one of the most attractive women that i HAVE EVER SEEN was the one ringing me out. Due to the surprise of seeing her and the two customers that were haggling her about how they thought the discount on their purchase should have been bigger (literally asking why the price of every item was not reduced and demanding to see them number by number), as well as the long line that was forming behind me because of the rude customers holding us up, i completly choked in gaming her when she was checking me out due to the surprise and awkwardness of the situation, plus the feeling of flirting with a line of 30 aggravated customers behind me just seem innapropriate at the time. In a rare moment, i pussed out.
It could not end for me there, i HAD to meet this girl. So i went to starbucks and got a coffee, and decided to sit and figure out how i could go back without making this seem ridiculous and obvious. I must have thought of it for a half hour. I have done every type of approach imaginable, and been in most every situation, but for some reason, i could not figure out how I could go back into that store and approach this girl without it seeming a little strange and pre planned.
In my contemplation, I some reason was thinking of my previous career. I used to be a hairstylist (yes womens) In a very nice salon in town (this is an entirley different thread in and of itself). And it dawned on me almost immediatly what i could do. I went right back in there and saw her folding shirts.
This is exaclty how the conversation went practically word for word:
Code: Did not want to bother you with that big line behind me earlier, but I just had to ask you. Did you used to go to BLANK salon in BLANKville? You were one of my bosses clients?"
HB: No, never been to that salon, my sister is actually in hair school and she does my hair for me at home.
Code: Then you have a twin walking around town. My boss had a client who looked JUST like you. I used to have a bit of a crush on her but because she was my bosses client, she was off limits in my mind. I thought it was you and since i dont work there anymore i thought how perfect is this. (note she is perked up and smiling at this)
Code: But, its not you. (i smile)
She immediatly asked me about a million questions about the salon, why im no longer there, etc. In short, I tell her i have to go and she offers me the digits. (this happens a LOT when you go to depart from this interaction. If they happen not to ask, you are in perfect position to ask them however.)
Ok, right away i know you are thinking "but Code, I was never a hairstylist, so how does this apply to me.?"
The beautiful part of this opener is it can apply to ANY previous occupation! I use salon as a reference because that is what I did, and the beautiful part is its true so i remain congruent.
You can do this with any job you have ever had. And it can be used for picking up women who work at stores or cold approaches. There is literally no sitatuion in day game you can use this on a woman.
The opener for someone who worked at say, a mcdonalds, would go something like this. Do not take this word for word, you will find your own ways of communicating, but this is a useful guide.
You: I had to ask, did you used to come into the mcdonalds in BLANKville a lot?
Her: yes/no (note, YES is even better, but you will get no a lot more often than yes to these questions simply because you know you never saw her in these places, if you ever even worked at them. These do not HAVE to be actual previous jobs, you can make up anything.)
You: You look really familar. A girl that looks just like you frequented my workplace. I always had a bit of a crush on her, but would have gotten in trouble for chatting up customers at work, and i thought, how perfect is this to run into you!( You will see them perk up and smile very receptivley to this)
You: But, its not you. (then you smile. Be prepared to be asked questions because she will now want to keep the interaction going. If she does not offer the digits, you ask for them. End of interaction, easy money)
I can not over emphasise how IMPORTANT the last line "but its not you" is. You start off by mistaking her identity for someone you clearly state you were interested in. She will automatically assume. if you were interested in the other girl who supposedly looks enough like her that youd mistake the two, that you would also be interested in her. But the final "its not you line" disqualifies her in a way, and actually dissapoints her a little and makes her feel like she might have just lost you. She will then start to ask questions to keep the interaction going. This is a classic push-pull manuver that works like a charm.
You see, most guys would get past the part they admitted they had a crush, and then ask for a number or try and keep the interaction going. This is a mistake because it comes off as a little low value, since you couldnt have the other woman youll make do with her clone. This also lends her to believe youre interested purley on looks, since you already stated you had no real meaningful interaction with the woman in question due to fear of consequences at work. Obviously she is going to know you are interested based only on looks, but thats ony going to be a negative if you come off as needy and try to pick her up even after you found out she was not the fictional woman you made up. By remarking that you are now aware that she isnt the girl you had a crush on, in a playfully dissapointed way with a smile, you communicate to her that the interaction is about to close and you are not going to try and chase her. This will make her try to chase you and continue the interaction. Get those digits.
This is a very simple concept that i probably over explained, but i wanted to make absolutley sure i got my message across because this is as close to FAILPROOF as i believe you can get as far as daygame openers. Field test this, i guarentee this will work. Let me know ASAP your experiences in the field.
Oh, and P.S, i absolutley DEFILED that woman at aeropostale just 3 nights later. Easy money.
