The journey of Mintyfreshh

[Mintyfreshh]

Hey guys! I'm going to be posting all of my cold approaches here as a sort of journal thingy. Maybe for feecback, maybe just to keep track, maybe just to help motivate myself.

Preface: I haven't cold approached a year in around 5 years. College made me made because girls would just come to me. It took absolutely no effort to get laid in college. Now that I'm back home, I haven't had sex in a year, and I its time for a change. Through a combo of REALLY diving into Jed Mckenna's books about spiritual enlightenment and one years hard work at the gym, my confidence is at an all time high... So here we go:


Approach one: Gym, around 10pm at night

I was getting some IOI's from a Hot, but young looking blonde from across the room. Moved to a machine much closer to her proximity and made damn sure she caught me looking at her. We played the silly stare at each other game for about 5 minutes. I got up and was moving to a more isolated area of the gym (the 30 minute workout section or whatever.) Sat down on a machine next to her and her friend and opened:

Me: Hey guys what up?
Her & Friend: Blahblah working out, duh ? *Smile*

I was thinking man they look young, and her friend is a beast, but hey I'm gonna go for it anyway.

Fluff talk about working out blah blah.

Ugly friend: WOAH were you lifting 200 pounds on this machine?
Me: Yeah i guess, is that a lot?
HB: Lets see what happens when I put this one on 200!

She puts her lat pulldown machine to max weight and then hangs off it as if to do a pull up and cracking up that she wasn't even close.

We fluff talk more, I get them laughing. It's obvious that the ugly friend is trying to get my attention, but I keep focus on the hot babe. It seems to be going pretty well so I said something like hey, I gotta get back to lifting but do you guys wanna hang out sometime.

They said sure and started giggling. (Found out they were both 20, which is good.)

Blonde says her phone is turned off and can only use facebook. I snatch her phone and go figure its actually turned off. I add myself on from her facebook account and kino the HB's arm as I'm leaving. The moment before i turned around and left, I patted her on the head and said "be a good girl, don't get into TOO much trouble." (I'm not sure why, but thats what came to me in the moment)

Get out of there. Facebook her about an hour later blah blah. She tries to pawn me off to ugly friend. I see on her page that shes been seriously dating a dude for like a year or something.... NEXT

 

[Mintyfreshh]

Approach 2: Gym, around 11pm

Had my eyes on this smoking hot tan chick for a good 20 minutes in the cardio area. She was giving me looks back. I thought, okay its on. Lost track of her along the way. Oh well, figured f*ck it who cares, I'll try again tomorrow.

As I'm leaving to grab my eyes at the key rack, I noticed a girl there talking to herself. (I figured it was in my best interest to assume she was trying to get my attention so i went with it.)

Me: Omg you lose your keys, no way I do that all the time!
HB7: HAHA I can't find them. Oh god ... where are they!
Me: I don't know, did somebody take them ?
HB7: Gosh, I hope not that would be really bad.

*I look for my keys, and find out they're seriously missing, I can't see them on the rack*

Me: Oh **** mine aren't here either, you're not playing a prank on me are you!
HB7: Nooooo
HB7: OH WAIT HERE THEY ARE! (she finds her keys)
Me: Mine are still missing, what the ****!

I find them after like 30 seconds.

We walk out and she holds the door for me. She makes a move towards her car.

Me: Hey do you have time to talk for a minute or ... ?
HB7: I can talk for a minute yeah

*I noticed that she seems really nervous. She isn't really looking at me, but shes laughing at obviously enjoying being hit on*

Me: Come sit down over here
HB7: Okay

I sit down on the curb and she doesn't ... oh well.

We talk for like 5 minutes, I go in for the number close.

Me: Listen, I gotta get home, but you seem cool, wanna hang out sometime?
HB7: I have a boyfriend

*I remember this for this site years ago*

Me: Oh well whens the wedding?
HB7: **** that
Me: Okay cool put my number in and send me a text, my name is Anthony
HB7: OMG my boyfriends name is Anthony, I dont think I should put your number in, he'll be mad.
Me: We'll just be friends its cool.

*she puts her number in, we shake hands goodbye*

I text her the next day. I get a lot of short responses and she brings up her boyfriend twice in a 10 minute conversation. I figure she's not interested. NEXT

I see the hot tan chick from early as I'm walking to my car, but I b*tch out and don't approach her. Ughhhhh

 

[Mintyfreshh]

Approach 3: Gym around 9pm

I bring an AFC friend to the gym with me. He doesn't believe that I'm cold approaching girls or something so he basically challenges me at one point.... tells me to go hit on these emo looking girls next to us. I was like yo come open up the set with me. 2 of them 2 of us. He b*tches out hardcore, won't even come over or say anything after I introduce him... he runs away back to the machine. Oh well, guess I'm stuck doing a 2 set.

Me: Hey whats your name
Her: Amanda
Me: Nice to meet you *extend hand for handshake*

She shakes my hand really weakly. I tease her for having a week handshake and get her to really squeeze the **** out of my hand. For some reason we start talking about how many germs are the gym lol.

Her friend, who is equally hot, joins the conversation.
She shakes my hand super weakly too

Me: OMG WHY DO ALL GIRLS HAVE WEAK HANDSHAKES!!
Friend: HAHA WE DON'T

*she squeezes me as hard as she can*

HBemo: Yeah, her hand is weak, but shes strong, she has a baby!
Me: A baby? What the ****, how old are you guys? (they can't be more than 20)
Friend: 21
ME: woahhhh, 21 year old mother thats crazy.
Friend: blah blah
Me: (to HBemo) how old are you?
HBemo: 20

Cool blah blah more fluff talk. She's obviously into me. I can't help but stare at the slices on her wrists obviously made by a razor blade. I ignore them, but take a mental note that this chick is probably nuts.

I ask the mom if shes a single mom. She says shes married. I was like oh wow you're too young for that! I ask HBemo if shes single.

HBemo: Unfortunately....
Me: Okay cool, well we're gonna get out of here now, but do you wanna hang out sometime?
HBemo: Yes! But I don't have a phone. I have an app that I text from.
Me: So if i give you my number you'll text me ?
HBemo: Yes

*I leave for a second* Write down my contact info and "cute guy from the gym" on a piece of paper. I kino her hands as I hand her the paper. I take her hand and close it around the piece of paper.

Me: I hope you'll call me amanda, we could have fun.
HBemo: I'll put it down my bra!
Me: (Didn't expect her to say that but) Maybe I shouldve put it down your bra
HBemo: *giggles*
Friend: haha you're funny!

That was tonight 5/20/13. She hasn't texted me yet, but hey you never know. She was pretty cute.

 

[BeDJ]

Great!

 

[Mintyfreshh]

Haha cut me some slack. I spent a good majority of my adult life depressed, unemployed, and not socializing at all.

I'll be the first to admit that my social skills are subpar.

Anyway these are my first couple of cold approaches ever and I can feel myself getting less shy and closer to success with women. I promised myself I'd do at least one everyday while I'm at the gym and more if the opportunity presents itself on the street or whatever.

I just want to not be so shy and getting laid wouldn't be so bad either lol