Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Quote from Pook.
"This is why, before you can start to date women, you must be able to DATE YOURSELF! That's right, DATE YOURSELF. Try going out to these places by yourself or with your friends first. This will:
-Make you more comfortable You already know the place, are comfortable with it, and know what to expect. This is important since when you are with a girl and new to it all, it is enough for the shy guy to be out with the girl let alone in a new and strange place. This will make your job a lot easier.
-Makes you prepared. You can speak of the places or so where you want to go with confidence and ease. You know the route and the best way to drive there. You KNOW what the costs will be, what the environment will be, so you know how much money to take and what to wear.
For the shy guys wishing they were girls, this is why you should be thankful you are the guy. You get to know BEFOREHAND where you want to go so you have all the time in the world to be prepared.
-Makes you have fun. With you being comfortable and prepared, already your time will be more enjoyable. Since you have all those shy guy worries put away like what to wear, the cost, what the environment is, and so on, you get to focus ON HER and have fun with her."
Are you alone and bored on the weekends and have no friends to tag along?
Give yourself permission to go out solo and have fun. Myself personally, I'm sort of a loner ( Who have a lot of down time right now because right now I'm in Asia) with a few friends and acquaintances I go with on occasion. The thing about needing people to go out, is your basing your confidence on that alone, which can hold you back.
I enjoy going to the parks, coffee shops, cruising on my ebike motor scooter or Nissan Juke, libraries to chat up random people or going to the mall food court to chat up whoever sitting near me.
Going to your favorite places that you like to chill at the end of the night ( or morning) gives you a sense of accomplishment that you didn't waste your time socially. One good idea or example to this analogy is if you like to go the gym for example, hit up a healthy yogurt shop afterwards. Chances are you might meet some cool people there, plus you're at your best because your testosterone is running wild and you just got a work out finished.
Just a simple reminder guys. Hope this helps.
"This is why, before you can start to date women, you must be able to DATE YOURSELF! That's right, DATE YOURSELF. Try going out to these places by yourself or with your friends first. This will:
-Make you more comfortable You already know the place, are comfortable with it, and know what to expect. This is important since when you are with a girl and new to it all, it is enough for the shy guy to be out with the girl let alone in a new and strange place. This will make your job a lot easier.
-Makes you prepared. You can speak of the places or so where you want to go with confidence and ease. You know the route and the best way to drive there. You KNOW what the costs will be, what the environment will be, so you know how much money to take and what to wear.
For the shy guys wishing they were girls, this is why you should be thankful you are the guy. You get to know BEFOREHAND where you want to go so you have all the time in the world to be prepared.
-Makes you have fun. With you being comfortable and prepared, already your time will be more enjoyable. Since you have all those shy guy worries put away like what to wear, the cost, what the environment is, and so on, you get to focus ON HER and have fun with her."
Are you alone and bored on the weekends and have no friends to tag along?
Give yourself permission to go out solo and have fun. Myself personally, I'm sort of a loner ( Who have a lot of down time right now because right now I'm in Asia) with a few friends and acquaintances I go with on occasion. The thing about needing people to go out, is your basing your confidence on that alone, which can hold you back.
I enjoy going to the parks, coffee shops, cruising on my ebike motor scooter or Nissan Juke, libraries to chat up random people or going to the mall food court to chat up whoever sitting near me.
Going to your favorite places that you like to chill at the end of the night ( or morning) gives you a sense of accomplishment that you didn't waste your time socially. One good idea or example to this analogy is if you like to go the gym for example, hit up a healthy yogurt shop afterwards. Chances are you might meet some cool people there, plus you're at your best because your testosterone is running wild and you just got a work out finished.
Just a simple reminder guys. Hope this helps.