The importance of planning

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Raise your hand if, like me, have always thought that following the script, school, work, marriage, home, children, family, travel, aging togheter, would be the easy path, and all that life has to offer. (Blue Pill). Now, raise your hand if you have discovered, through painful experiences, that this is not always possible and that there are other aspects of life we were never taught to consider. (Red Pill)



I have noticed that very successful people plan their lives: work, leisure time, family life, outings with friends, etc.
Time is precious for all of us, and when someone carves out time to be with you instead of simply giving it away, it not only makes you feel special but also elevates their perceived value.


When one takes the red pill, it can feel disorienting because they no longer follow the blue pill script. Although flawed, that script made us feel like we were fighting for a cause and living well. To regain a sense of direction in life, we could create a "red pill script." Instead of feeling lost now that we’ve abandoned the traditional path, we can find new direction and stability following a "redpilled script".

Infact, it's easy to plan going to the gym, get a diet, and live an healthy lifestyle, but it's so hard to plan out for other stuff such as meeting new people, studying for higher specialization, etc.. Life it's about taking action, and there are several people who need "planning" or they will stay on procastination forever.


In this forum, there are people who are very successful by certain standards and others who may not be seen as successful by society but believe they are because they have achieved what they consider success.
In both cases, it would be helpful to understand how and when they plan, how far in advance they do so, what tools they use, whether their planning is long-term or short-term, and how their actual life feels and differs from their past unplanned lives.
 

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I agree that a change in mentality and philosophy is important, I would suggest a good starting place for professional improvement is a Sunday circular called Farnam Street, which also has a website. It’s based on the wit and wisdom of Charlie Munger, and has interviews and thoughts from a wide, multi disciplinary section of highly successful people.
 

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Take the women's playbook and look at the chapter that's called: I wanna get married before I'm 30.

They will plan to get married in advance without even having a clue WHO they will marry. But they know the clock is ticking and thus they'll use STRATEGIES to help them reach their goal.

If you would have the same goal you could copy this strategy onto a male version of this( because a woman needs different strengths when it's about dating than a men do ) . Physical, financial, spiritual, and mental health are the most important pillars when it comes to dating and being desirable to women. So..you can improve these things in your life and increase the chance that a woman will submit to you.

But...you can't put an exact time om WHEN you will be successful. Could be one month could be 4 years. HOWEVER, if you're consistent with it you're preparing yourself to "get lucky".

One way to keep the fighting spirit as high as possible is by incrementally embracing and growing the new version of you. By doing this you will feel less restlessness and less disappointment when things don't go as fast as you'd like them to go.

Basically you can control the outcome while you simultaneously cannot. If worst comes to worst and you grow old without ever finding that "dream love" from a woman you at least managed to love yourself and thus you still might've lived your best life. It's a win -win strategy basically.
 

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They say abs are made in the kitchen . Or 90% of it or something along those lines.

Same can be said for CREATING love. Love isn't created on a dating app or in the club, it's about everything you did and do BEFORE you went to said medium to meet women.

Your day to day grind creates the opportunity to "find love". The more you are willing to improve your financial ,physical, mental( personality issues) and spiritual strengths, the bigger your chances will be.

THIS is what incels are completely oblivious to.
 

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I have noticed that very successful people plan their lives: work, leisure time, family life, outings with friends, etc.
You're mixing cause and effect. Because rich people have done very well, now they can spend more leisure time.

You don't mention anything about being successful yourself. Why should you be listened to on this topic?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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it's about everything you did and do BEFORE you went to said medium to meet women.
The more you are willing to improve your financial ,physical, mental( personality issues) and spiritual strengths, the bigger your chances will be.
This makes completely sense with what I saw on those successfull people lives.
They were just focusing on those aspect, and to do so, they had their time planned in blocks, in order to force them to do so.
I know one guy which was a serial procastinator and once he started to plan his week became very successful (at least in the financial realm).

You don't mention anything about being successful yourself. Why should you be listened to on this topic?
What do you mean?
 
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