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Don Juan
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For those of you in high school, out of high school, or just reminiscing about high school- I’m sure you will all agree. High school is a completely different world. But one thing remains the same for all guys- high school is the starting point in your journey with woman. A lot of guides and tips out there are designed for older guys (and I use that for lack of a better word)- all I intended to do here is take some strategies that a DJ would use and explain them in an appropriate way for high schoolers. I in no way am a master DJ, I don’t pretend to be. But I AM a very smart kid in high school who has a deep interest in psychology and loves the ladies. 
The following are just my interpretations of the DJ’s tools for high schoolers- something I feel this site really lacks.
But before we begin, I would like to touch on one subject- YOOD. It’s not a mental disorder, it’s an acronym for “Your Object Of Desire.” It’s that super hot girl who sits next to you in math class (the reason why you came onto this site). While some DJs might balk and call it “one-itis,” I simply see it as a goal. It’s perfectly cool to have a girl that is your ultimate desire- I find it’s rather good motivation for improving yourself. Just a word of warning- don’t let YOOD completely consume you. If there’s another girl really responding to your DJ actions, while YOOD is still kinda on the fence, go for the other girl! Always remember- why the [explicative] not? You could have a lot of fun with this other girl- and how would you know without trying. But enough of this.I. Self-Improvement
If you’ve been on this site for more than ten minutes and haven’t gotten a work out or lifting program, then get on the ground and do thirty pushups. I can wait. And make them real pushups- your entire body should touch the floor at the same time, with a 90 degree bend in your elbows. If you can’t do thirty pushups…well… We know where to start. If your school doesn’t have a weight room like mine does- go to your local YMCA or buy a set of dumbells, pull up bar, etc. As any senior DJ on this site will tell you- it should be the cornerstone of your DJ plan.
In addition to bulking up, take care of your body. Brush your teeth (gasp!), wash your hair, take a shower daily (or more if you really stink/sweat), cut your nails, etc! There are plenty of spots out there on teh interwebs dedicated to this stuff- there’s even a whole section on this forum dedicated to this subject.
But in conclusion, self-improvement should be goal number one during high school. Try and learn something new every day, starting exercising, and remember- if all else fails in high school, you’ll still have a kick-ass bod for the babes in college.II. Kino
Kino is the art of touching other people. There are plenty of good guides on kino out there (I’ll post two links of really good guides at the bottom of this section). You should start using kino in every situation. If you don’t feel comfortable starting it with YOOD, start with your friends- yes, your friends that are guys. Next time you see one, give him a hand shake, or a high five, or a firm pat on the shoulder instead of your usual, and ever-articulate “ ‘sup.”
From that point- baby steps. While you don’t want to tone up the kino too much on your friends that are guys, it’s a good jumping off point. Start using it on your friends that are girls (you do have those, right?). My favorite kino move is the shoulder pat- it can be used in soooo many different ways. A pat on the shoulder can mean hello or goodbye. You can touch YOOD’s shoulder as you come sit down next to them to initiate the conversation. You can even put your hand on their shoulder and lean in close to them to emphasize a point in the conversation (which is two moves of kino for the price of one).T Dog pulls together a good overview:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16712
Another site with two good sections on kino, The Ladder Theory:
http://ladderwiki.com/wiki/Kino_Process and
http://ladderwiki.com/wiki/The_Kino_Process_-_by_Studiovice
III. ****y and Funny/Push and Pull
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16966
I find that it really depends on the situation for this tool. If you are in say, a classroom, keep the C&F and P&P light. Why? Because I find these techniques require a more intimate setting. If somebody comes in and busts you during your C&F routine, it loses it’s effectiveness. If you can get YOOD to walk and talk with you in the hall (you’re headed in the same direction to the next class), you’ve got the green light. Overall, C&F/P&P is a great way to score points. It’s like strategized flirting. And if you use it in addition with kino, you’re golden.IV. Neg-Hit
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showth...ight=Sir_Chancealot's+Definitive+Neg-Hit+post
Neg hits are a GREAT tool. From how Sir Chancealot (God bless him) describes them in his post, they’re really unchanged from the older world to the high school world. But once again, better used in an intimate setting. One time I actually had a peer corner me, making fun of what I critiqued upon in the neg-hit (her hair). He said that I was g8y for commenting on a girl’s hair. I laughed. It turned out he had a crush on the girl- so no harm, no foul. But nevertheless, LEARN, PRACTICE, PERFECT, USE!
And as I wrap up this post, I want to leave you with one word of advice- just roll with it. Don’t analyze every single action that the girl makes- the way she points her pen away from you doesn’t mean that she doesn’t like you- it’s just the way that feels the most comfortable. There’s a fine line between analyzing and obsessing. YOOD is not the last girl you will ever get- you still have college and the rest of your life. So don’t sweat it if it doesn’t work out. Take high school as a learning experience. There are four years in high school, and high school relationships are notoriously short. And you never have to see any of these people again if you want.In general, good luck. Post and respond with any tips I missed (or don’t know) and I’ll be happy to edit.
And remember:
