The gut Feeling

Maybnoob

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I think the problem with a lot of us males is that we have forgooton our natural god given gift of knowing when a girl is interested or not (something naturals have retainrd).
A lot of new guys are coming here and asking the question thats been asked the most: What are the body language signs a woman shows shes interested? Well i cant complain ask i used to ask the same question. But i have come to realise the error of my ways and the natural ability installed in all us of knowing when a girls is interested or not. We dont need to study a thesis on body language signals to know if a girls like us or not.
I have come to realise that we are all able to tell if a girl is interested or not and displaying the approach signal without studying her. How? Because of the feeling we get in our gut. Something tells us that a girl is interested, u get this buzz. I earlier read a psychology writing about how our subconcious are able to communicate with other peoples sub concious. You see we cant control our subconcious. When a girl sees you and is interested, her subconcious tells your subconcious sees interested through little body movement we dont pick up.
Thats why initially for some people they can just tell shes interested because they have a gut feeling. Thats why so many DJs are always talking about following your Gut. I am now able to recognise this feeling.
But your saying that you still get shot down? Well thats because subconciously she likes you but here ego comes into force and her conditioning takes over. And thats when all the dj techniques we have learned come into force so you can take away all her conditioning and come to the attraction she had for you in the beginning.

I dont believe in the concept of maknig someone attracted to you, i beleive in the concept of getting to that initial attraction she originally had before her ego came into force.

Well there you go, i cant remember where the article i read about our subconcious and attraction but ill try to get it. :)
 

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Another thing about the subconcious element. I believe that we are all constantly communicating to other people without even knowing it. Thats why you have good looking guys (how i used to be) who sit there expecting girls to approach them while their subconcious is communicating to other women they have low self esteem so they get nowhere.
Thats why gay people can tell who is gay and who is not, its as if they just know, their subconcious communicates this.
So when you want to approch just search for that gut feeling ;)
 

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I agree with what you said, guys should follow their gut more than they do....however, as I've said before, I find that trying to analyse all the little signals from girls is pure folly.

Simpy assume they're interested and act accordingly.

That way, if you're right then great, if not then you haven't lost anything, right?
 
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