The girl

[davester88]

hey guys, I'm 19 and in university in ontario. I am dealing with an extremely tough situation right now lady-wise. There is this girl that is in my sociology class, that I introduced myself to, was really smooth with, had a couple of dates with her, and before our next scheduled date which is wednesday, she said she would come as long as its not a date, then put a happy face.

Now, I don't really know how to interpret that, because kino has been used, we went to the club and danced etc. and now I'm just not sure what to do and how to react to this situation.

I then responded to her by saying sounds like that night is off then, and I think I left her stunned because she told her friends she is really confused by my behavior. Any tips/advice guys?

Thanks a million in advance.

 

[amnbyrd]

Id say stand ur ground on that one and see if she gets back to you.

 

[Igetit!]

Sounds to me like she thinks you're more interested in her than she is in you.
Like she's trying to make it be clearly known that the two of you are not dating,are not an "couple". Obviously her interest level in you is low,otherwise she wouldn't have said something like that. You said that you have already had a coulple of dates with her. I guess the dates didn't go as well as you thought. Looks like you like this girl,so you want to know how to turn this around in your favor,huh? I suppose it's possible,but a few questions first:

1:How long have you known this girl?
2:Not counting the date coming up,how many dates have you had with her so far?
3:On these previous dates,what was the conversation like? I mean,what did you talk about?
4:Not counting the dates,how often do the two of you hang around each other/hang out?

Try to the best of your ability to answer these questions as accurately as possible. It'll help to determine what course of action you need to take.