The Girl Didint ASK me any questions about ME!!! On a Date /get together....

[toot86]

What the ****znes!! I went out with this girl on saturday and we went to the mall and then we went to see a movie got out of the movie then went to play in the arcade .. She was really smilly and googly eyed.. and laughed at my remarks and jokes..

But she never asked me about myself .. Like I did her

she did ask me how tall I was though because iam pretty tall....

I dont know if its good or bad.. ?

in the begging

but after the arcade and conversation wich she didint ask me about me..


we leave the arcade and walk around..
and then she gets a phone call .. and she says her friend just broke up with her b/f and she has to talk to her..so that ment ending the get together..

My fualt for not ending the date earlier but do you think she set it up.. Or could of happend?



But if she doesnt ask me any questions what should I do??

I do comment after I ask her a question..
by the way

any feedback?

 

[Walden]

So she's fascinated mainly by herself eh?
You may have met people like this before , there's a anme for them it's "women".


Don't sweat it man, call her and have another go (tho I'm not sure about the mall as a date, whatever works for you I guess).

 

[willo]

not a very high interest level

Give her the flick unless she calls you and arranges another date.
any kino during date?
Date her now single friend

 

[davelmn2003]

I think that her IL is low or lukewarm. Think about it, if you really like a girl you want to find out more about HER don't you? Shouldn't next her just yet, but if she shows no other signs of interest then this is a done deal.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Low Interest. Throw drama or do something wacky. See how she responds.. if it's still cold fish. Dude it's over, NEXT.

 

[NMMWCR]

Attention Wh0re.

The more you put the focus on her, the more fun she had. LJBF is accepted as real friendship this soon instead of fvck off. Tell you like her as a friend but you aren't feeling it for her. Then use her as a pivot. Like was said earlier, the friend may be open to some 'consoling'

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: not a very high interest level

Originally posted by willo
Give her the flick unless she calls you and arranges another date.
any kino during date?
Date her now single friend

I agree. Next her unless she does something herself that proves that she has a high IL. Be sure to get her friend's number.

 

[Frosty]

Yes, it sounds like she has low IL. If a woman is dating someone she is really interested in you can count on her expressing her interest by wanting to know more about him.

She will ask questions to learn more about him.

 

[ApocalypseCow]

I used to go out on a lot of first dates with girls I met from Match.com. If they didn't ask me any questions, I NEXT'ed them instantly.

 

[toot86]

next?

I did kino on her and she seemed receptive.. She didint do alot on me just a punch in my chest .. Playfully

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Women get off on mystery. When a woman has high IL she will ask you questions to pry info. from you. This girl doesn't seem interested at all and she also bailed on you to be with her friend.

 

[Surfboard]

and then she gets a phone call .. and she says her friend just broke up with her b/f and she has to talk to her..so that ment ending the get together..

This is one trick that women use on guys. She has one of her friends call her at a certain time and break the sad news to her. If the date is going well, then the girl will stay. If the date is boring and not going well, this is her excuse to bail out on you.

Trust your own gut feeling. I think you already know the answer to your question.

If you're not sure, ask her out again. This will clarify all your questions.

 

[willo]

She didn't kino you back

Hmmmmmmm I think you already know what I'm going to say dude

But if you want to try again go right ahead dude; because I think that's what you want us to say, right?

Just remember to be more mysterious in the next date.
ie. try and say less than she does
Concentrate on body language as well

I used to have a big problem with talking a lot because when I get nervous I talk a lot

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. the more you remain a mystery in her mind the more she can fantasize about you.
2. women are self absorbed....it's about them...
3. don't worry if she didn't ask about you yet...as you become friends you can release little bits at a time.
4. give her just a little longer

 

[Shiftkey]

It could just be because she was nervous. But because she ended the date sooner because of that phone call, it leads me to believe she's not interested. Surfboard is right about that trick.

 

[Legend]

Player_Supreme said it like it is

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: next?

Originally posted by toot86
I did kino on her and she seemed receptive.. She didint do alot on me just a punch in my chest .. Playfully

I don't know how much I have to stress to you guys that a woman being receptive to kino is not enough!!!!! She could just be kind enough to let you touch her.

What matters is whether she reciprocates the kino. Consider this, which woman has the higher IL, one that lets you touch her or one that touches you back????

 

[DJ_Dork]

Give her another chance and see what happens.

 

[Reto]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
1. the more you remain a mystery in her mind the more she can fantasize about you.
2. women are self absorbed....it's about them...
3. don't worry if she didn't ask about you yet...as you become friends you can release little bits at a time.
4. give her just a little longer

I agree. The more mystery there is about you, the higher the IL will be.

If she knew everything about you, the IL would fall...

#2, #2, #2, #2,... No more to be said...

 

[MrNiceGuy]

clam up

if you see her again try this trick to get her talking.. I've used it a couple of times and it seems to work..

basically, after a while when you're getting bored of having to make all the conversation stop making an effort..

stop asking questions about her
stop commenting on stuff around you
in fact don't speak at all unless she speaks to you..

If she's even the slightest bit interested she'll start asking you stuff in order to try and avoid an awkward silence.. the play it by ear, its up to you how much to answer her questions, and wether to 'let her off the hook' by participating more in the conversation again..

if on the other hand she just lets you both sit staring in silence for a long time, NEXT... I hate women that can't hold a conversation.