George Gordon
Banned
You should all know the progression by now; your ABCs: Approach, Build rapport, and Close. Then, follow-up.
For you newbies, how many stradegies have you really encountered on this board? Sure, there are tactics upon tactics, but where is the resolve?- Where is the structure; the fundamentals? You already know how to Approach: you make eye contact and smile; you know how to Build rapport: you direct the conversation from fluff talk to the subjects that she values; you know how to Close: you presuppose nonchalantly that you will continue the conversation elsewhere, right? This is all known!
And you can do this with confidence because you are secure and you are direct (or at least appear to be). You have a good sense of humor, and you like to tease and just relax; have some fun. Regardless, do you still find yourself lost when it comes to hesitance, and its older sibbling, resistance on her part- do you know how to overcome these two main obstacles? Do you have a stradegy?- This is a definitive guide; an explanation on what I have found works for me.
STRADEGY, essentially is the adaptability when a tactic to attain a certain objective fails. With regard to the situation that you find yourself in: if you are facing hesitance from a woman, this can be removed instantly with a riposte; or if you are getting some strong resistance, you will need more time to butter-up and break down the barrier slower, sometimes by removing the objective from her mind; stepping back to re-establish the failed objective, returning to the precipice later.
OBJECTIVES. Generally: (i) Safety and Comfort, (ii) Attraction and Connection, (iii) Desire and Satisfaction are the 'super-objectives' that you want to achieve with a woman. However, anything that you want a woman to experience with you is an objective.
OBSTACLES come on a scale of: (i) Hesitance to (ii) Resistance. I will only refer to these internal obstacles here, however you should also be aware that there are external and circumstantial ones as well . . . Obstacles should rather be viewed as Challenges, by the lothario! You know this.
Basically, obstacles appear in three forms: (i) The ***** Barrier, (ii) Question and Command Hesitance-Resistance, and (iii) Ignorance or obvious disinterest- you know that in this case, you walk; next! But in the case of the ***** shield, you use neg-hits, which are a form of riposte. The sole purpose of ripostes are during quesion and command resistance . . .
RIPOSTES are counter-tactics that should coincide with your ****y/funny attitude; which adhere to these two attributes: (i) Humor and (ii) Challenging. The type of riposte used depends on the situation as well as the woman. Essentially a Humor Riposte aids the removal of slight tension or discomfort; ambiguity- usually used when you are getting hesitance. A Challenge Riposte prompts her to prove something about herself, and this proof evidently, is your objective- usually used when you are getting resistance. Counter with both humor and challenge; accuse and negate.
OPPORTUNITIES are objectives or super-objectives that are granted to you by a woman with little to no work on your part; her Interest Level is high.
I will add an example or two, if this interests anyone.
-George Gordon
For you newbies, how many stradegies have you really encountered on this board? Sure, there are tactics upon tactics, but where is the resolve?- Where is the structure; the fundamentals? You already know how to Approach: you make eye contact and smile; you know how to Build rapport: you direct the conversation from fluff talk to the subjects that she values; you know how to Close: you presuppose nonchalantly that you will continue the conversation elsewhere, right? This is all known!
And you can do this with confidence because you are secure and you are direct (or at least appear to be). You have a good sense of humor, and you like to tease and just relax; have some fun. Regardless, do you still find yourself lost when it comes to hesitance, and its older sibbling, resistance on her part- do you know how to overcome these two main obstacles? Do you have a stradegy?- This is a definitive guide; an explanation on what I have found works for me.
STRADEGY, essentially is the adaptability when a tactic to attain a certain objective fails. With regard to the situation that you find yourself in: if you are facing hesitance from a woman, this can be removed instantly with a riposte; or if you are getting some strong resistance, you will need more time to butter-up and break down the barrier slower, sometimes by removing the objective from her mind; stepping back to re-establish the failed objective, returning to the precipice later.
OBJECTIVES. Generally: (i) Safety and Comfort, (ii) Attraction and Connection, (iii) Desire and Satisfaction are the 'super-objectives' that you want to achieve with a woman. However, anything that you want a woman to experience with you is an objective.
OBSTACLES come on a scale of: (i) Hesitance to (ii) Resistance. I will only refer to these internal obstacles here, however you should also be aware that there are external and circumstantial ones as well . . . Obstacles should rather be viewed as Challenges, by the lothario! You know this.
Basically, obstacles appear in three forms: (i) The ***** Barrier, (ii) Question and Command Hesitance-Resistance, and (iii) Ignorance or obvious disinterest- you know that in this case, you walk; next! But in the case of the ***** shield, you use neg-hits, which are a form of riposte. The sole purpose of ripostes are during quesion and command resistance . . .
RIPOSTES are counter-tactics that should coincide with your ****y/funny attitude; which adhere to these two attributes: (i) Humor and (ii) Challenging. The type of riposte used depends on the situation as well as the woman. Essentially a Humor Riposte aids the removal of slight tension or discomfort; ambiguity- usually used when you are getting hesitance. A Challenge Riposte prompts her to prove something about herself, and this proof evidently, is your objective- usually used when you are getting resistance. Counter with both humor and challenge; accuse and negate.
OPPORTUNITIES are objectives or super-objectives that are granted to you by a woman with little to no work on your part; her Interest Level is high.
I will add an example or two, if this interests anyone.
-George Gordon