elitechild
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Yes, the title says it all. For about 2 years now, I have known this girl who I have become pretty good friends with. At first, I wasn't really into her. We occasionally saw each other at work and would say hi and what not. But over last summer, we really began to talk and get to know each other. It came to a point where we would be working for 5-8 hours a day together and would talk the whole time lol...We often breaked together (still do) and even leave together at night. One day at work we finally exchanged numbers and began to text each other pretty frequently throughout the day. I really thought this was the one, I finally thought just maybe I can be her man. Well, I was wrong. Turned out she has a boyfriend...but I have fallen in love with her, sadly. I fell really hard for her...I never really felt this way before about a girl. I just feel so happy when I'm around her and I couldn't imagine life without her. I say to myself "keep being friends with her, maybe it will all work out if she breaks up with her boyfriend". I really don't know what to do anymore..I mean, she's just a beautiful person and I'm afraid I'll never meet someone like her again. I want to tell her how I feel, I want to tell her I'll always be there for you, I want to hold her in my arms and let her know how much I love her, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. Some of my friends say tell her or you'll always think "what if?" some say don't risk your friendship. What should I do?