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Master Don Juan
The so-called "frame" is often referred to as a concept in psychology and interpersonal dynamics. It is not just a "one-million-dollar thing," but something that permeates our lives in various ways.
You can see how a boss can use their frame to keep employees in line. You can observe how a man can maintain engaging conversations with multiple women, thanks to his frame. You can also see how a husband can save his marriage multiple times, thanks to his frame.
Furthermore, an influential person can shape the thinking of others through the power of their frame.
We know that the "frame" refers to a certain behavior that makes individuals appear "passively dominant" and can make others, including women, appear more submissive. This dynamic is not limited to women; it can also work with men and other people in general.
The frame can be seen as a skill that one needs to learn in order to effectively "organize" and "administer" one's life.
It is a tool that can be applied in various situations, from the workplace to personal relationships.
In a law office, you may have observed the lawyer giving instructions to the office secretary, issuing orders to others, or maintaining their frame even when their spouse was present and complaining.
This observation has led to the understanding that women often crave individuals who exude a sense of authority, such as lawyers, doctors, police officers, or scientists. These individuals possess a certain "ballsy" quality and speak with confidence, which can be appealing.
- Incorporating the Frame into Daily Life
I wonder which are the everyday activities and tasks that can naturally teach how to "hold frame" in a healthy and constructive manner. Just as learning to ride a bike involves falling and persevering until you master the skill, there may be similar activities that can help you develop and refine your frame.
Key Questions:
1. What specific activities or tasks can you incorporate into your daily life that will naturally teach you how to hold a frame? For example, hosting meetings helped a friend of mine to develop strong communication skills in a relatively short period.
2. Is the frame you hold with a woman the same as the one you hold with employees, managers, or in other life situations, such as at the library, grocery store, restaurant, or museum? If not, how can you learn to interchange these "frame versions" without compromising your identity and integrity?
3. There may be times when a woman or someone else will try to "tame" you. How do you learn to recognize when you should be more assertive (tameless) or more submissive (tamed) while maintaining your frame and authenticity?
I do think there are some jobs that, through repetition and competence, can lead us to naturally hold that frame at work for a long period of time. This can teach and soak our soul into that state also in informal situations, such as with friends, or at home with our spouse. Basically, those jobs can teach us to "lead" or "dominate" other people, in an indirect way. Those jobs are not for everyone, so I wondered if there are other ways, we can include in a routine, we can learn this too.
A checklist is helpful, but it is not the ideal approach. Instead, we can work towards your ideal daily routine by outlining the specific hours and activities you do throughout the day. This will help you establish a structured framework to learn and implement.
You can see how a boss can use their frame to keep employees in line. You can observe how a man can maintain engaging conversations with multiple women, thanks to his frame. You can also see how a husband can save his marriage multiple times, thanks to his frame.
Furthermore, an influential person can shape the thinking of others through the power of their frame.
We know that the "frame" refers to a certain behavior that makes individuals appear "passively dominant" and can make others, including women, appear more submissive. This dynamic is not limited to women; it can also work with men and other people in general.
The frame can be seen as a skill that one needs to learn in order to effectively "organize" and "administer" one's life.
It is a tool that can be applied in various situations, from the workplace to personal relationships.
In a law office, you may have observed the lawyer giving instructions to the office secretary, issuing orders to others, or maintaining their frame even when their spouse was present and complaining.
This observation has led to the understanding that women often crave individuals who exude a sense of authority, such as lawyers, doctors, police officers, or scientists. These individuals possess a certain "ballsy" quality and speak with confidence, which can be appealing.
- Incorporating the Frame into Daily Life
I wonder which are the everyday activities and tasks that can naturally teach how to "hold frame" in a healthy and constructive manner. Just as learning to ride a bike involves falling and persevering until you master the skill, there may be similar activities that can help you develop and refine your frame.
Key Questions:
1. What specific activities or tasks can you incorporate into your daily life that will naturally teach you how to hold a frame? For example, hosting meetings helped a friend of mine to develop strong communication skills in a relatively short period.
2. Is the frame you hold with a woman the same as the one you hold with employees, managers, or in other life situations, such as at the library, grocery store, restaurant, or museum? If not, how can you learn to interchange these "frame versions" without compromising your identity and integrity?
3. There may be times when a woman or someone else will try to "tame" you. How do you learn to recognize when you should be more assertive (tameless) or more submissive (tamed) while maintaining your frame and authenticity?
I do think there are some jobs that, through repetition and competence, can lead us to naturally hold that frame at work for a long period of time. This can teach and soak our soul into that state also in informal situations, such as with friends, or at home with our spouse. Basically, those jobs can teach us to "lead" or "dominate" other people, in an indirect way. Those jobs are not for everyone, so I wondered if there are other ways, we can include in a routine, we can learn this too.
A checklist is helpful, but it is not the ideal approach. Instead, we can work towards your ideal daily routine by outlining the specific hours and activities you do throughout the day. This will help you establish a structured framework to learn and implement.
