The four zones women place men

[ketostix]

I believe that women are generally binary in their response to men and tend to quickly place a man they meet into one of 4 zones. They are usually one of the following:

1. Lover Zone. This is pretty explainatory. She is yours for the taking as long as you don't do anything fairly drastic to screw it up or fail to lead.

2. Backburner Zone. You have all the qualities that she needs to want you as a lover, but because there's some other guy just a tad bit better (maybe he got there first) she's holding you back just in case the other guy doesn't come though. The good news here is, women are very similar and you could easily just repeat what you did on another girl and get into her lover zone.

3. Creepy Zone. You don't actually have to be creepy. You just didn't fit into the Lover Zone or any other place but she had to stuff you somewhere. But the fact is you are doing something wrong and it might be something so slight and seemingly insignificant, but it's still enough to keep you out of the Lover's Zone. The good news is your doing things at least half right and being in this zone isn't a hard set place. Women fvck "creepy" guys pretty often.

4. The Friend Zone. Here you are probably set in place, because getting into this zone usually means you've established comfort and are a known quantity to the woman. In all the other zones, you can be placed in fast and can get out of them quickly, but in this zone she's made her mind up over some period of time observing you. If you are getting friend zoned quite a bit you are probably doing more wrong things than if you're getting into even the creepy zone if your goal is to have sex with girls.

 

[Mistic]

I will stalk him for the rest of my life Zone:

That's where they usually put me. Good thing my location is "just out of reach," and I got rid of my cell phone.

Now I arrive late at night, unannounced, like a hit man. I hit it, then I hit it, leaving no trace.

 

[ketostix]

I will stalk him for the rest of my life Zone:

That's where they usually put me. Good thing my location is "just out of reach," and I got rid of my cell phone.

Now I arrive late at night, unannounced, like a hit man. I hit it, then I hit it, leaving no trace.

That's a sub bart of the frend zone lol. It's also one way of getting out of the Friend zone into the creepy zone .

 

[Mr.Positive]

I believe that women are generally binary in their response to men and tend to quickly place a man they meet into one of 4 zones. They are usually one of the following:

1. Lover Zone. This is pretty explainatory. She is yours for the taking as long as you don't do anything fairly drastic to screw it up or fail to lead.

2. Backburner Zone. You have all the qualities that she needs to want you as a lover, but because there's some other guy just a tad bit better (maybe he got there first) she's holding you back just in case the other guy doesn't come though. The good news here is, women are very similar and you could easily just repeat what you did on another girl and get into her lover zone.

3. Creepy Zone. You don't actually have to be creepy. You just didn't fit into the Lover Zone or any other place but she had to stuff you somewhere. But the fact is you are doing something wrong and it might be something so slight and seemingly insignificant, but it's still enough to keep you out of the Lover's Zone. The good news is your doing things at least half right and being in this zone isn't a hard set place. Women fvck "creepy" guys pretty often.

4. The Friend Zone. Here you are probably set in place, because getting into this zone usually means you've established comfort and are a known quantity to the woman. In all the other zones, you can be placed in fast and can get out of them quickly, but in this zone she's made her mind up over some period of time observing you. If you are getting friend zoned quite a bit you are probably doing more wrong things than if you're getting into even the creepy zone if your goal is to have sex with girls.

You could be in all four zones at one time though...you could be a lover and friend, yet on the backburner because she's looking for something better, and thinks you are a little creepy.

Or.... you could transverse all four zones having seen her only once, only talked to her once too.

You meet her, then bang her same night, so you are in the lover zone...the next day, she decides that you should be on the backburner because she just met some great new guy. Day 2, she hits if off with the new guy, tosses you in the friend zone...

Then, she doesn't want to upset the new guy, so she justifies never talking to you again by placing you into the creepy zone.

So, the whole time you think things are going great, you call her on day 3 and she doesn't give you the time of day.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Mr. Positive is right.

It's all relative on her mentality at that particular moment. But who really gives a sh!t what her whims are in that moment? As long as YOU have a number of different women in different zones it makes no difference whatsoever what spot on her speed dial you are.

 

[ketostix]

You could be in all four zones at one time though...you could be a lover and friend, yet on the backburner because she's looking for something better, and thinks you are a little creepy.

Or.... you could transverse all four zones having seen her only once, only talked to her once too.

You meet her, then bang her same night, so you are in the lover zone...the next day, she decides that you should be on the backburner because she just met some great new guy. Day 2, she hits if off with the new guy, tosses you in the friend zone...

Then, she doesn't want to upset the new guy, so she justifies never talking to you again by placing you into the creepy zone.

So, the whole time you think things are going great, you call her on day 3 and she doesn't give you the time of day.

You can not be in the Friend Zone and then just jump right out of fit, or be in any more than one zone at the exact same time. You are correct that women will many times place you in the Creep zone after a ONS. My point is most guys want to be in the lover zone with a woman or are maybe fine with being in the back burner zone until she comes around because he puts her on the backburner too, but to stay in the backburner zone usually requires a little effort and can lead to the friend zone.

My point was that women are very judgmental and feel they have to compartmentalize guys. If you realize where you are you can act accordingly without wasting too much of your time. There's really no point in being in any zone other than the lover zone and once you've been droped down to one of the 3 zones from lover there is little likelihood of going back up.

 

[STR8UP]

If you realize where you are you can act accordingly without wasting too much of your time.

If men would only step back and analyze where they stand with a particular woman from time to time, they could avoid a TON of BS.

 

[ketostix]

If men would only step back and analyze where they stand with a particular woman from time to time, they could avoid a TON of BS.

That is a very succinct way of putting what I was getting at. Str8 I think it'd be insightful if you posted your thoughts by creating a thread about the myth of the single woman.

 

[STR8UP]

That is a very succinct way of putting what I was getting at. Str8 I think it'd be insightful if you posted your thoughts by creating a thread about the myth of the single woman.

I started writing it from your suggestion in the other thread, but I'm tired and it wasn't coming out the right way so I'll try again tomorrow if i get time. Should make for an interesting discussion if people keep it on topic.

 

[ketostix]

I started writing it from your suggestion in the other thread, but I'm tired and it wasn't coming out the right way so I'll try again tomorrow if i get time. Should make for an interesting discussion if people keep it on topic.

OK cool. But don't be mad at me if it goes off topic and you get flamed lol. Either way I think it should be an interesting and eye-opening discusion.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

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Our roving reporters have just uncovered yet ANOTHER "zone" women tend to want to put men in. But the location of this "zone" appears to have been kept undercover due to fear of causing controversy. News of the existence of this zone, AND any publicity about how AVID most women are to have it filled have long been rumored to SURELY stir up public outrage!

But, our people out in the field have reported that this zone is UNLIKE the other zones previously mentioned in that it is an actual PINPOINT, a unique AREA, a designated SPOT.

And though our fact-checkers have yet to fully verify whether or not this news is eroneous------our sources have JUST added to this story's credibility by also uncovering that there is an unusually enthusiastic coalition of women who have formed a political movement-----a lobby group------and even a worker's union------put together SOLELY for the purpose of ensuring that this particular zone of theirs is ROUTINELY filled!

In fact, this zone is SO important to this Women's Union that they have now actually begun placing Employment Ads to HIRE men to fill this spot:

For an exclusive look at this Women's Union's Underground Zone-Filling Ad Campaign please click HERE!