The Fortunate Ones

Nine Breaker

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Look around this discussion forum, and what do you see?

Confusion, uncertainty, disarray, doubt.

The list goes on and on...

And yet, most of the people that frequent this forum seeking help fail to realise the full impact of what they have at their disposal.

YOU are witness to one of the very few places in the entire world where you CAN find the answers, where you CAN become one of a minority of men on the whole of Earth that KNOW how to deal with women successfully. The answers are laid bare for you right here, on this very website. They aren't sugar-coated, they aren't filled with the AFC-ridden nonsense that the world wants you to hear, and they aren't always what you want to hear - But they ARE the answers!

Everything that can change you into the man that you want to be is only a mouse-click away. Read it, learn it, live it. Never forget how lucky you are for stumbling across this most-useful knowledge. Never forget that you are one of the fortunate ones.

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Since the moment of your birth, you have been destined to die. Nothing you can ever do will change this from happening.

However, you CAN change what will happen from now until then, but only if you dare to try.

DO YOU DARE?
 

Don diego

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OK... if you say so...
 

RKTek

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Agreed about the "Confusion, uncertainty, disarray, doubt", but you'll notice that even the so-called "Masters" occasionally post feelings of malaise over their OWN perplexing dating scenario or confusing girl du-jour.

It can appear as the blind leading the blind.

What is the difference? How can a guy post feelings of utter confusion in his own dating life, yet offer cool, calm advice to someone else?

OBJECTIVITY.

I'm from the deep south where there is a saying "It's hard to remember your goal was to drain the swamp when you suddenly find yourself up to your @ss in alligators". What this means is that all solutions to problems are easily seen from a distance. It's when you're actually IN the situation and danger lurks nearby that your favorable vantage point disappears.

The lesson is that calmness and aloofness are the keys to objectivity. Calm down and try to see your situation as others might see it. Calm objectivity will eventually come with time and practice, but a knowledge of the "DJ Rules" and being able to objectively see your situation, as though you were standing outside yourself is a key to personal crisis management.
 

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Originally posted by RKTek:
.What is the difference? How can a guy post feelings of utter confusion in his own dating life, yet offer cool, calm advice to someone else?
we all have different types of problems...

a guy For instance, could be confused about kino, but know tons about prepping for a date. (thats just for an example)
know wut im sayin...



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