The ex girlfriend

[SuperValk]

Alright... don't know who else to ask on this one. I usually don't ask for advice, so forgive me if this isn't the place for my questions.

So, lets's get to it. I dated this girl last summer. She moved away and we ended our relationship naturally. Well, she'll come into town occasionally and we have some mutual friends. They'll go out as well as I will with friends and what not. What ends up happenig is we'll end up being at opposite ends of the bar not speaking. I do it out of respect for the assumption she doesn't want to speak to me. We haven't spoken since we broke up. But we end up having mutual friends and I won't get to bs with them. So what is to be done...

I mean do I be a **** and just go say hello anyway. Or just continue to ignore the issue.

The problem is when I am avoiding, end up not gaming at all or even bs'in with friends. And basically just be a bar fly.

It seems pretty juvenile to me. But I'm just trying to be respectful.

Advice... figured I'd ask the experts.

 

[KarmaSutra]

If you cower in the corner it makes you appear as her b!tch. Why not be social with everyone there, including her.

Don't focus on her, but don't exclude her from you being a genuinely fun guy to hang around and have laughs with.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

What Karma said.

Just talk to her like a regular person. No need to be all gay about it.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Yeah just talk to her dude, ask how she's doing, ask how she likes the new town and just shoot the sh1t with her. Unless she freaks out and hits you with a bottle in there because she's nuts, nothing bad will happen.

You probably appear like a scared little dog to her and your friends by not communicating.

 

[SuperValk]

Thanks guys. I do appreciate the good advice.

Will do.